May 2025 TTC Support Group

@jelliebean9 this is heartbreaking! sending you lots of hugs!!!!!! ❤

Thank you all for your kind words everyone. Hoping lots of you get your BFPs this month. To anyone else in the same situation as me, I’ll see you in the June TTC threads 🩷

So glad you’re getting to the Docs today. It def sounds like HG. Hope you get on the meds to feel better soon!

@jelliebean9im really sorry to hear that, i had a chemical in January, my lines weren’t getting darker and i lost all my symptoms. Praying you get your positive one day 🫶🏼
My dinner did not stay down in the end, at 3am I got woken up by the sickness and went sick for a good 10 minutes repeatedly. I have now woken up early because the sickness has returned along with some cramping due to constipation and trapped wind. Will wait for the Dr to be open because this sickness is absolutely crippling, I can’t even enjoy food anymore, and I dread to eat because I know it’ll come back up. Hoping everyone has a positive day and all look after yourselves xxx

Oh @jelliebean9 I am sorry. I hope it’s just a case of dilute urine but I do know what you mean re lines fading.

I do think it’s positive that you conceived though. Things are working, it’s just not every egg or sperm is great quality. I think it bodes well for conceiving number 2 though. Keep us posted. ❤️

It is pink actually in person. But it’s wayyyy too faint for 13dpo with a stronger line at 11- unfortunately!

You can see how faint and grey it is now! It’s definitely a CP!

It’s absolutely fine with me. You’re so considerate and lovely for asking. Love this group and how supportive everyone is! I’ll take a photo in a minute but I don’t think I’ll even be able to catch the line on today’s on camera. I did drink 3L of water yesterday so I don’t know if hydration from previous day is still a thing when it’s tests before your period is due.

Morning @jelliebean9really sorry to hear that. The anxiety of testing again and not seeing the line progression is just awful isn't it. I remember when I did the clear blue digital weeks and mine didn't go up as it should. I hope everything turns out okay for you 🤍 but you seem pretty level headed about it. I'm 10dpo today and BFN and really feel like it's not my month again. It always feels gutting but a little sense of relief to havw a few more weeks without the daily anxiety of testing and worrying about line progression, another miscarriage etc etc. It's really all consuming. Wishing you all the best anyway and will keep positive for you x

@jelliebean9 I second posting your photos if you feel OK with that. I know it feels better to resign yourself and then be surprised, but I’m rooting for you.

My lines are stronger today but not wildly so. If you like I can post them and you can compare? I don’t want to do that if it’ll cause you more stress though x

Onto cycle #4 today as AF arrived this morning. Best wishes to those still in their TWW 🤞

@jelliebean9I understand - I’ve got my DS from a previous relationship so if this doesn’t happen with my new partner then it’s ‘fine’ and I’m very lucky to have him but you also can’t help but hope you’ll be the lucky one! (I don’t have endo but I’m ‘old’) - fingers crossed for you

Sorry @jelliebean9 do you want to post your tests so we can have a look? You may be being over analytical!

Thanks lovely. I’m weirdly at peace with it. We’ve been trying since January, which is nothing compared to others. We have a beautiful DS, who I’m extremely thankful for as an endo sufferer and although I would love for a second, we have it in the back of our minds it may not happen. Have to be hopeful though of course 🩷🙏 how are you this morning?

Oh no @jelliebean9fingers crossed AF doesn’t show for you - sending lots of love xx

Morning everyone. No line progression for me! I thought this might be the case this morning. It’s been 48 hours and 13dpo now, I’d expect to see a stronger line. If anything I think it’s fading. Will expect AF to come over the weekend. And to try again next month! 😩 this is the thing with early testing and why I tell myself NOT to do it but here we are 🙄

I’m not sure the dinner will stay, I’m starting to feel really sick. Same happened last night, was tossing and turning feeling the sick brewing in my tummy and tonight’s the same. Hopefully it’ll go away. I’m gonna call them tomorrow because I can’t enjoy meals anymore knowing it’s gonna come back up

Glad you’re home safe and your dinner is hopefully staying put! Amazing you’re at the 6 week mark. Are you getting into the GP tomorrow?

Fingers crossed for us! My luteal is usually 13/14 days. So I put down for af to come tomorrow or Friday (hedging bets for the 14 days, so not saying I’m late until Saturday). Post in the morning to let me see your lines. I’m convinced it’s gonna end in a CP. trying to be hopeful but it’s so hard isn’t it! Good luck for the morning 🩷

That's what we're here for @ttcjourney20001 ❤️

@FigPig glad to hear you're feeling good. I'm good, thanks. Trying to distract myself and forget about it all 😂 but I'm in a big bad mood today so that doesn't help! Also curious about your luteal phase being shorter as I think mine is since my MMC.

How short was your luteal phase this month @FigPig? Fingers crossed for lovely progression tomorrow for you

@SureLook I’m good thank you! I felt a bit sick and a bit tired today but tbh I think it might be psychological because I’m expecting to feel sick and tired! How are you doing?

@jelliebean9 I’m testing alongside you tomorrow and hoping for progression. My period was actually due today (shortish luteal phase) so I’m officially late, which is reassuring.

@ThisZippyViewer I have noticed zero change in my CM at 12dpo and a positive test at 8dpo.

On a TMI note, I am so bloated and gassy. Lucky, lucky DP.

I have read this before about having a girl! Also with sickness, says if it’s bad then is more likely a girl. Have always imagined myself having a son though. Either way, I’m happy just to have a healthy baby that sticks, everything’s going well so far but I’m still cautious. That’s why I like reaching out on here, no one else apart from my partner knows so I don’t have anyone to vent to or just to ask for advice 💕

That sounds like a long day @ttcjourney20001fingers crossed it stays down! Ooo maybe a girl as they say they ‘steal your beauty’ - let us know how you get on at the doctors