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May 2025 TTC Support Group

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Muddysocks1 · 17/04/2025 08:07

Hope it’s not too early to start this! For anyone trying in May, and “out” for April.

By some miracle I did fall pregnant this month after over a year TTC but it ended in a chemical just before 5 weeks. I’d tried some new things last cycle (inc baby aspirin and L’arginine, using preseed and doing a daily morning walk!) so going to try all of that again this month and keep my fingers crossed 🤞🏻 don’t know when I’ll ovulate yet but I imagine it’ll be right at the end of April…

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AlbatrossSociety · 06/05/2025 18:07

Disneybride · 06/05/2025 17:57

Meee! 🙌 I’m 6dpo today. Started BBT training this month and I’m pretty sure this a good surge, does anyone know?

Had progesterone blood test today as I’m on Letrozole, 6th cycle with PCOS. TTC for much longer than that though! Had no period for years after my son.

Looks like a solid rise! I had a big dip in temp yesterday at 6DPO but it's back up today, don't know if that means I'm out as it needs a sustained high temp, or whether it doesn't matter or was just a dodgy temp reading.

ttcjourney20001 · 06/05/2025 18:03

In a Tapas bar having a water whilst everyone around me having a drink. Run to toilet and obviously by now you all know what I did, ruined their toilet too. Definitely will be contacting the Dr tomorrow when I’m home because this sickness is just ruining me

AlbatrossSociety · 06/05/2025 18:01

ThisZippyViewer · 06/05/2025 11:26

4dpo today and for some reason feeling a bit deflated about this month
My ovulation was delayed so I think likely because of that I feel like im definitely out and its all been a bit dragged out
What day does everyone start testing? I had told myself 10dpo is that still too early? X

I'm feeling a bit deflated too, I just feel like it's not going to happen this cycle.

I used to test from 9 DPO as that's when I got a BFP with my daughter, but after a couple months I found it too depressing so now I don't test at all and just wait for my BBT to drop 🙃

Disneybride · 06/05/2025 17:59

Sorry forgot to attach pic!

May 2025 TTC Support Group
Disneybride · 06/05/2025 17:57

Meee! 🙌 I’m 6dpo today. Started BBT training this month and I’m pretty sure this a good surge, does anyone know?

Had progesterone blood test today as I’m on Letrozole, 6th cycle with PCOS. TTC for much longer than that though! Had no period for years after my son.

SureLook · 06/05/2025 17:33

@peanutForever just praying to the conception gods 😂

peanutForever · 06/05/2025 17:12

Hey has anyone had an raspberry leaf tea to help ttc? Anythjng else anyone is doing to hellp?

SureLook · 06/05/2025 16:58

@Iris2024 girl gang 😂😂 also feeling nervous! I'm worried that something is wrong after my D&C in February.

I'm feeling a lot of positivity in this group 👏🏻

jelliebean9 · 06/05/2025 16:21

FlyHighSky72 · 06/05/2025 15:58

You might be right @jelliebean9- we’re so like cycle twins! Is your period due on the 16th too??? Fingers crossed for a longer luteal phase and nice sticky beans for us

No, sadly not, I’m due on the 9th. Currently 11dpo, tested with a faint positive yesterday and today 🙏

FlyHighSky72 · 06/05/2025 15:58

You might be right @jelliebean9- we’re so like cycle twins! Is your period due on the 16th too??? Fingers crossed for a longer luteal phase and nice sticky beans for us

Bumblebee1984 · 06/05/2025 15:55

@FlyHighSky72 hopefully it happens quickly like last time

@ChaE05 they urge is hard to fight isn't it. Still so early for you so hopefully the next test is a positive

FlyHighSky72 · 06/05/2025 15:51

I hope so @Bumblebee1984because I’ve never used OPKs before I’m not sure if this is normal for my cycle or not. I have a DS who is 9 conceived first cycle trying but I was 9 years younger then and my cycles were more like 30 days so not sure!! Fingers crossed

jelliebean9 · 06/05/2025 15:51

FlyHighSky72 · 06/05/2025 15:38

Thanks @jelliebean9! Makes sense

@Bumblebee1984this is my first month TTC and tracking. My cycles range for 28-29 days recently and I ovulated on day 18 hence only 10 days to implant! Hoping you’re right and my cycle is longer this time but not sure - very worried it might be impossible for me to implant even if I conceive

If it’s a consolation, my cycles are 26/27 days usually and my luteal phase is 14 days, I ovulate on day 13/14. Going on pains and EWCM coming and going. They’ve been that way since stopping BF. The first month I used the OPK, the digi cb ones with the smiley. I never ovulated until day 17! Which was super late for me. I got a little obsessive with the OPK and trying to catch the peak with intercourse that I think it made my cycle rouge. If it’s your first month doing OPK then maybe it’s something like that too?? It’s almost like we will it so much and focus on it so much that it doesn’t happen 😂

Ec2808 · 06/05/2025 15:47

@ChaE05 i feel you! i'm 3-4 dpo and seriously fighting the urge! but i'm running to the toilette like every 15 minutes which was my first symptom before bfp with my daughter so i dunno 😂

ChaE05 · 06/05/2025 15:45

Just tested at 8dpo with afternoon wee! Ermm whyyyyy did I do that lol. Obviously a bfn! Was going to hold back until 10dpo and was totally fine with that. But had a sudden urge.

Bumblebee1984 · 06/05/2025 15:43

@FlyHighSky72 ah ok. Well hopefully as you ovulated a little later then maybe you'll have a slightly longer cycle to give you that slightly longer luteal phase.

Anyone else quite early on in their cycle? I'm only on day 5 today and if my cycles are like how they were when ttc last time I'll be due to ovulate around CD12 which would be this time next week

FlyHighSky72 · 06/05/2025 15:38

Thanks @jelliebean9! Makes sense

@Bumblebee1984this is my first month TTC and tracking. My cycles range for 28-29 days recently and I ovulated on day 18 hence only 10 days to implant! Hoping you’re right and my cycle is longer this time but not sure - very worried it might be impossible for me to implant even if I conceive

jelliebean9 · 06/05/2025 15:19

FlyHighSky72 · 06/05/2025 13:18

Good luck @Iris2024- fingers crossed this is our month!

What tests does everyone buy? I’ve bought some cheapies from Tesco but then looked at the reviews and they look rubbish!!

I usually wouldn’t keep tests in the house because I have absolutely zero willpower to resist early testing if they’re in the house and it does make me spiral. It was my husband that brought this pack of first response on his own hunch we’d got lucky this month. So let’s blame him 🤣 I always have a CB weeks indicator. But I’d never use it until I was late for AF. If I WAS to indulge myself (I think I might do if this cycle doesn’t stick) with consistent early testing then I’d use easy @ home!

Bumblebee1984 · 06/05/2025 15:17

@FlyHighSky72 what makes you think your due AF 11dpo? Luteal phase is commonly around 12-14 days so you might not be due until a few days after that? Fingers crossed you don't actually get to find out though and you get your BFP. Where are you in your cycle now?

FlyHighSky72 · 06/05/2025 15:04

@Bumblebee1984i don’t know - this is my first month and first using OPKs! Do you?

Bumblebee1984 · 06/05/2025 14:25

@FlyHighSky72 do you always have an 11 day luteal phase?

FlyHighSky72 · 06/05/2025 14:19

Thanks @Ec2808im going to try just to test on 10DPO as my period is due on day 11 so I don’t really have a choice!!

@Bumblebee1984ill try those if I’m not successful this cycle (thinking positive here!!)

FlyHighSky72 · 06/05/2025 14:19

Thanks @Ec2808im going to try just to test on 10DPO as my period is due on day 11 so I don’t really have a choice!!

@Bumblebee1984ill try those if I’m not successful this cycle (thinking positive here!!)

FlyHighSky72 · 06/05/2025 14:19

Thanks @Ec2808im going to try just to test on 10DPO as my period is due on day 11 so I don’t really have a choice!!

@Bumblebee1984ill try those if I’m not successful this cycle (thinking positive here!!)

Bumblebee1984 · 06/05/2025 14:11

@FlyHighSky72 @Iris2024 I get how you are feeling as I am also older at 40 but trying to stay positive.

@ThisZippyViewer I try to wait past 10dpo. I actually tested negative at 10pdo with my son and then when AF never showed and I felt a little off I tested and was a blazing BFP. This is first proper cycle ttc #3 and will be trying to wait until after 10dpo but I know it's hard.

@FlyHighSky72 I like the First Response ones or also the Boots ones that are very similar