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TWW at 40 yrs old

559 replies

poppymango · 20/02/2025 09:12

A few days into my two week wait now, period due around 2nd of March.

Trying not to get too excited as I'll soon be 40 and I know my chances are lower - nevertheless, I found myself downloading a pregnancy tracking app this morning and looking at all the visuals of what the baby would look like at various stages 🙃

Anyone else out there want to wait with me? Crossing fingers and toes for my November baby!!

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TheFutureIs · 16/04/2025 09:58

I’m back home tonight so will test in the morning xx

Daisychains9 · 16/04/2025 08:44

TheFutureIs · 16/04/2025 07:16

Amazing news @Daisychains9it really does give me hope! I know what you mean though, so many people I know are currently pregnant/just had babies and oh the jealousy is something else even though I am so happy for all of them!

Thank you! Yes it can be hard and I can completely sympathise. I have my fingers crossed for you! Hopefully you can find a test somewhere near your parents!

Daisychains9 · 16/04/2025 08:43

Joleyjojo · 16/04/2025 04:51

Congratulations! So nice hearing positive news x

Thank you! X

Daisychains9 · 16/04/2025 08:42

Fullofconfusion · 15/04/2025 23:02

Everything crossed for you @Daisychains9

Thank you!

TheFutureIs · 16/04/2025 07:45

On a plus, still no period. Annoyed with myself I didn’t pack a test to bring with me to my parents

TheFutureIs · 16/04/2025 07:16

Amazing news @Daisychains9it really does give me hope! I know what you mean though, so many people I know are currently pregnant/just had babies and oh the jealousy is something else even though I am so happy for all of them!

Joleyjojo · 16/04/2025 04:51

Congratulations! So nice hearing positive news x

Fullofconfusion · 15/04/2025 23:02

Everything crossed for you @Daisychains9

Daisychains9 · 15/04/2025 22:56

Hi ladies, I tested this evening. And got two positives. I thought it was all over earlier this afternoon when I had a little bit of brown discharge. But I did not bleed and in hindsight was probably old implantation bleeding. I have had an eptopic before so will get a scan next week. I am happy but super nervous that it holds. I’ll let you know how it goes. Best wishes and thinking of all of you. I know this kind of news can be hard to hear depending on where you are. But I hope it gives you hope xx

VanessaShanessaJenkins99 · 15/04/2025 12:40

So it turns out that my pregnancy tests are 2 years out of date!! They must have been the ones left over from when i was testing in early 2022! So i have ordered some more which are due to come tomorrow!!

Daisychains9 · 15/04/2025 12:04

I'm due tomorrow and have not tested. I am going to wait and see .. I am feeling a bit nauseous and have a bit of pain in my lower back so I am not confident, as it all seems a bit like PMS.

Fullofconfusion · 15/04/2025 10:37

Keeping everything crossed for you two. The TWW seems soooooo long

VanessaShanessaJenkins99 · 15/04/2025 10:28

I am trying so hard not to test - My Flow app says i am due my period in 3 days so i am going to try and wait to see if that arrives and go from there.

TheFutureIs · 15/04/2025 09:19

No bfp…. But also no period which if my cycle is still as regular as it used to be was due today

Fullofconfusion · 15/04/2025 09:00

@Lulubo1 hope all is well with your DH.

I’m not sure what’s going on with me this cycle…to be fair I don’t think I ever do! Haha
I’m on day 19 and last cycle ovulated later, around day 24/25. My ovulation tests are showing negative but I have a lot of EWCM and have for the past 48 hours. I would have expected some movement on the tests. Anyway we will do our best and see what happens!

how’s everyone else doing?

MrBigsCat · 14/04/2025 22:59

@Lulubo1 hope all is well with dh

TheFutureIs · 14/04/2025 21:26

I’m due tomorrow as well @Lulubo1hopefully it doesn’t appear for either of us. Hope you get answers about your DH quickly and it’s nothing to worry about

Daisychains9 · 14/04/2025 14:55

I don't remember any particular symptoms each time I have been pregnant. It is really hard to differentiate between pregnancy and PMS. For me, it depended on many things happening in other areas of my life/health also. I think also, each woman is different. I know it is so hard but it is probably best to wait it out. Fingers crossed for you.

Daisychains9 · 14/04/2025 14:52

I am so so sorry to hear this. It sounds incredibly stressful for you. I truly hope everything is resolved for the best. Lots of love.

Lulubo1 · 14/04/2025 12:42

I'm out for a while ladies. AF is due tomorrow and DH was in A&E yesterday, a CT scan found something on his liver they need to investigate further. We are awaiting a call for an MRI today or tomorrow. (After a 14hr A&E trip yesterday, I'm not holding my breath for anything quick). All the best to the rest of you. Sending hugs and good wishes xx

Clara202 · 12/04/2025 14:13

@Fletchasketch I do have one but it hasn’t been worn in about a month so I don’t have a pattern to go off.
Took an early clear blue digital just now and that’s negative also.

Fletchasketch · 12/04/2025 13:10

Clara202 · 12/04/2025 13:01

@Fletchasketch thank you for your reply. Do you remember having any other symptoms? Usually my boobs would be killing me at this stage but I don’t want go get my hopes up either. I had a boozy evening planned tonight if I was bfn but the ewcm has thrown me. I didn’t get any sharp pains that people talk about with implantation etc, never had a positive before so I don’t really know what I’m doing 🥲

Very few symptoms at all, it felt just like I was starting my period. The one thing that was different was that my resting heart rate went up and kept on going up until I got my positive. I’m not sure I’d necessarily recommend getting a Fitbit or similar as I’ve driven myself mad second guessing what it meant, but if you’ve already got one on the other hand….

good luck

Clara202 · 12/04/2025 13:01

@Fletchasketch thank you for your reply. Do you remember having any other symptoms? Usually my boobs would be killing me at this stage but I don’t want go get my hopes up either. I had a boozy evening planned tonight if I was bfn but the ewcm has thrown me. I didn’t get any sharp pains that people talk about with implantation etc, never had a positive before so I don’t really know what I’m doing 🥲

Fletchasketch · 12/04/2025 12:50

Clara202 · 12/04/2025 12:39

I’m very confused.
I’m 9dpo. Confirmed with digital clear blue advanced opk and also cheapie. Didn’t bother with temping this month. Didn’t have ewcm, but I had all the other usual feelings in my sides etc.
I tested bfn yesterday and today on premom cheap pregnancy tests. Today I’ve had an abundance of ewcm, the ideal fertile kind of ewcm that I would have loved to have seen 9 days ago along with my positive opks! I’ve never had that after ovulation before and I don’t have my usual sore boobs pre period (yet, anyway). So I took another clear blue advanced ovulation test and it’s negative.
Any thoughts?

I don’t want to get your hopes up, but in both my pregnancies I’ve had something similar to ewcm before I got my positive. I didn’t test until 14 dpo though, so no idea if I would have tested positive at 9. Regardless, I am keeping my fingers crossed for you. X

Clara202 · 12/04/2025 12:39

I’m very confused.
I’m 9dpo. Confirmed with digital clear blue advanced opk and also cheapie. Didn’t bother with temping this month. Didn’t have ewcm, but I had all the other usual feelings in my sides etc.
I tested bfn yesterday and today on premom cheap pregnancy tests. Today I’ve had an abundance of ewcm, the ideal fertile kind of ewcm that I would have loved to have seen 9 days ago along with my positive opks! I’ve never had that after ovulation before and I don’t have my usual sore boobs pre period (yet, anyway). So I took another clear blue advanced ovulation test and it’s negative.
Any thoughts?