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I want another baby.I should have another baby. Why is it so fecking hard?

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OracleInaCoracle · 04/05/2008 21:39

seriously?

why wont my body work the way its meant to?

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OracleInaCoracle · 09/05/2008 16:22

oh annie, it is difficult isnt it? when i had my mc in nov beforehand i panicked about taking time off college for scans and tests

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OracleInaCoracle · 08/05/2008 15:29

how are you doing annie?

i feel crap moaning, i know that there are plenty of women on here who have been through much, much more. im just frustrated and sad.

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OracleInaCoracle · 06/05/2008 08:13

thank you tjuice x

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TJuice · 06/05/2008 07:39

hey lissie - remember me from mc avengers?

just wanted to wish you (and donbean) the best of luck - fingers and everything crossed.

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OracleInaCoracle · 05/05/2008 14:16

it is don. i hate calender watching, and the fact that ttc isnt innocent anymore.

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donbean · 05/05/2008 14:13

me too, got ds.
not as bad as you but 3 mc is enough for any one eh?
just really really need to have another. Im nearly 38, gotta get on with this.

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OracleInaCoracle · 05/05/2008 14:10

exactly don, just a break would do! i know im already v lucky in that i have ds, but my family doesnt feel complete yet

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donbean · 05/05/2008 14:03

ive got one more period before we start to try again.

just going to wing it, not time any thing just do it do it do it.
humph, all that mess on my clean sheets lol.

think i deserve a bit of good luck, i only want a litle bit of good luck, just a smidge thats all.

donbean · 05/05/2008 14:01

tell me about it.....

tis shite.

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OracleInaCoracle · 05/05/2008 13:57

i know that really, its just hard not to feel guilty iykwim

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VictorianSqualor · 05/05/2008 10:08

I don't think I'd be able to stop either personally, but if you had decided to you wouldnt have let anyone down.
Good Luck Sweetheart.

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OracleInaCoracle · 05/05/2008 10:06

VS, i cant stop! dh didnt want to either and we agreed that stopping would feel like we were letting down our lost ones.

thanks BE, im sorry about whats happened to you recently too x

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sweetkitty · 05/05/2008 10:05

lissie don't know what to say you have had more than enough heartache over the past few years, makes me feel very crap moaning the way I do.

Don't give up your body has done it once it CAN do it again.

BillyElliot · 05/05/2008 09:58

tis shite lissie! take care.

VictorianSqualor · 05/05/2008 09:56

I didn't realise you were ttc again, last time i saw something from you on ttcing you were saying you were going to stop.I really hope it works out for you this time

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OracleInaCoracle · 05/05/2008 09:42

i think thats the prob. i dont drink in the second 1/2 of my cycle, dh doesnt drink in the 1st. i dont drink caffeine, i eat plenty of wholewheats, full dairy and have even started having my steaks overcooked.

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MrsTittleMouse · 05/05/2008 09:38

Fingers crossed for you lissie. Whatever happens, I'm glad that you are being taken seriously by the hospital.
I was thinking about this in bed last night, and someone famous once said "the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result". Which is of course what you have to do when TTC very often. No wonder that it drives us all crazy. Anyway, like I said, I'm really glad that you don't have to do the same thing over and over, because the hospital have drawn up a good plan for you.

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OracleInaCoracle · 05/05/2008 09:34

feeling a bit more optimistic today. period hasnt actually started yet so the devil on my shoulder is whispering "may be implantation"

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OracleInaCoracle · 04/05/2008 22:24

if im up there you can stay with us! (disclaimer: will obv have to meet first to rule out hairy truckerage on both sides)

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expatinscotland · 04/05/2008 22:23

think i'm going to wind up at RAH - Paisley, but we'll see how it pans out.

had planned to stay with SIL or ILs but SIL and her partner have split and she's currently living with ILs so we'll need to see what happens.

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OracleInaCoracle · 04/05/2008 22:21

is that where you will be having this one too?

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expatinscotland · 04/05/2008 22:20

VERY good care there, lissie!

I had both mine there.