2DPO 12th Jan - anyone with me?

Thanks. She's not too busy on the group chat, but there's also another one who is pregnant and another who's had their second already. Feel like I'm getting left behind!!! I hadn't realised it was Blue Monday, maybe that's why I'm feeling so down and tomorrow I'll perk up.

Speaking of perking up, take the paracetamol! It's safe through conception and pregnancy xx

I'm still feeling awful so testing delayed to tomorrow am. I looked back at my app and realised I too could have ovulated 48 hrs after EWCM instead of next day - and had also marked ovulation cramps on both 24 and 48 hrs later. Which could mean I'm CD9 instead CD10.

If I'm BFN tomorrow I will treat myself to some paracetamol to help with my fever, been holding off in case i was pregnant. But not sure I can cope with another sleepless night! Good news is I can't symptom spot as everything is sore and crampy and swollen.

@squishousdelicious Oh it's rubbish to receive news like that when you are already feeling low. On Blue Monday too. Your feelings are valid and everyone has felt 'why them not me' at some point. Hopefully your friend is being sensitive and won't bomb the group with photos and baby chat - I would mute if it gets too much. I do hope you still get your BFP this cyle though as it's not over till the ugly lady (AF) sings!

Hi all,

11/12dpo here. I wouldn't normally be one to test before a missed period, but threw caution to the wind this morning... negative.

Finding it so hard this month - another person in my NCT group has announced they're pregnant with no.2 and combined with a few 9ther things this month, it really upset me and made me feel unbelievably jealous 😔

Morning - Also a BFN from me this morning at 9/10DP, see what it says this evening, as i will be testing twice a day now until AF arrives (If it arrives haha)
Good Luck All x

Morning! @Babydust82 very similar to you. BFN this morning and AF due tomorrow. I'm away this evening for work and haven't brought tests so if AF doesn't arrive tomorrow I'll retest on Weds. Good luck everyone!

we are on the same timeline! I also caved and tested was BFN but it's still sooo early. I am feeling some symtpoms but hard to know if just in my head

Hello! I didn't test today as I've come down with a really bad fever since last evening. Kept me up all night and struggling to leave the bed or go to work. I've been drinking lots of liquids to try and flush it out so no concentrated urine to test. It's the worst I've felt in years so feel like I'm out already. If I feel better this eve I'll try to test, otherwise tomorrow morning. Not feeling hopeful - argh I was so good at avoiding all the bugs going around but this cheeky one broke through my defences and has felled me.

Morning all, hope everyone had a nice weekend and you're all doing ok! I tested this morning at 9dpo (I think!)and got a BFN... going to try and hold out until Friday before testing again (if AF doesn't show up first ... expected on Thurs/fri). I don't feel any different to normal so no idea whether I'm out this cycle or not!

Morning, hope everyone had a nice weekend and that Blue Monday isn't feeling too blue...

Haven't tested yet this cycle, 8/9PDO today (I think 8) and I'm pretty sure I'm out. Heartrate has dropped which always seems to happen 2-3 days before my period arrives. Ugh.

Thank you for replying. I'm trying not to drive myself insane but I really can see anything even though it's outside the timeframe. I'm going to put them away now

I'm 8/9 DPO and BFN this morning.. Baby dust to all, let's hope we see some BFPs over the next couple of days. 💫👶
@maple1234 I can see lines on the black and white ones, fingers crossed for you.

The digital tests aren't as sensitive as the others so you're not out yet. Give it 48 hours and you'll know for sure as enough time for HCG to double.

I think that's my answer for today :(

Oooh I see a line! It's still faint so won't jinx it by congratulating you yet in case I'm wrong. Hoping it's darker tomorrow or you get an answer on a Digital soon either way.

@squishousdelicious @LimeStork I'm so sorry you've had the experience of loss too. Hoping 2025 is going to have bucket loads of baby dust for us all.

I've tested today at 9/10 DPO and BFN. Poooh! I briefly thought I saw a shadow and then realised i hallucinated it with my sleepy eyes. Stark white vibes today. Ah well. I much prefer testing on weekends as I can go for a walk straight after and plan to cook a nice lunch, rather than sit in meetings all day. We go again tomorrow!

Please can someone help me? I am probably 9DPO and I got caught by the trap I was trying so hard to avoid 🤣 what does everyone think? I will keep testing unless AF arrives. Am I being crazy??

10 dpo and bfn!! Ahhh do I hold out hope?! Af due Tues (but miscarriage last month so all could be out). Hopefully some positives soon for everyone xx

I'm due Af next Saturday so might test from Tuesday (9dpo) because I can't help myself. Probably wouldn't get even a faint line till Thursday (11 dpo) but as someone else said earlier it lets you down gently if it's going to be a bfn

BFN at 9dpo today. And yes I’m also a daily tester as I’m highly impatient 😅

@houwseevryweekend @LimeStork Sorry to hear about your losses. It happened to me too when we were etc #1 - I miscarried around 6 weeks but we now have a gorgeous little boy. Well done for staying strong xxx

@houwseevryweekend so sorry for your loss. In the exact same boat as you, had a MMC at almost 8 weeks and this is our first cycle since TTC for #1. It’s full of such crazy emotions isn’t it? One minute I’m excited then it’s nerves, fear then it’s anxiousness..🤯 Holding out lots of hope for us this year!

@ClaireF992 me too, I think it was a little too early for me. Do keep us posted!

@Babydust82 thank you 🤍 My fingers are crossed for you for Monday onwards

xxx