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2DPO 12th Jan - anyone with me?

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Babydust82 · 12/01/2025 11:27

As the title says, I’m 2DPO on 12th January and TTC baby no.2. Feeling chilled at the moment as it’s 1st cycle and it took 4 months last time. Going to try and hold out from testing early!

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MakeMeJuno · 22/01/2025 17:59

11DPO here and BFN... I am really disappointed as have some clear symptoms! AF technically not due until Friday/Sat but just feel it would be BFP by now? 😣

Sorry to all those out as well - the months feel so long...

blackberryhill · 22/01/2025 14:14

Pretty certain I'm out - 10DPO, BFN and watery bleeding here this morning.

pamplemousse19 · 22/01/2025 09:46

I'm pretty sure I'm out for this month too. Feeling very crampy this morning like AF is on her way! Not technically due until tomorrow/Friday but she has a habit of turning up a bit earlier than expected 😣

IDontDrinkTea · 22/01/2025 09:33

12dpo and a BFN here. Ugh

houwseevryweekend · 22/01/2025 08:59

NeatOtter · 22/01/2025 06:36

Think I can say I'm out now. AF is late (due Tues) but nothing but BFN on tests! Think miscarriage last month has thrown my cycle out. Urgh another month ahead 😞 xx

Seems to be same for me - did a cheeky test today and BFN. AF is 2/3 days away and my MC last month messed up my cycle - so not entirely sure when I ovulated either. If no period on Sat but still BFN I must have ovulated later than I thought as my luteal phase is normally consistent. In which case we missed the window. Pooh.

Esssa · 22/01/2025 07:15

I'm also pretty convinced I'm out but I'm not out yet. This mornings test (10dpo) doesn't look any different to yesterday's so I'm guessing what I saw yesterday was indent. It definitely seems to have colour rather than just grey though so I'll wait and squint again tomorrow. AF due technically Saturday but my ovulation was 4-5 days early this month and that's the app calculating based on luteal phase. We shall see how accurate it is.

NeatOtter · 22/01/2025 06:36

Think I can say I'm out now. AF is late (due Tues) but nothing but BFN on tests! Think miscarriage last month has thrown my cycle out. Urgh another month ahead 😞 xx

Babydust82 · 21/01/2025 22:15

LouLou0505 · 21/01/2025 20:24

@Babydust82 - thanks! Have you fully come on today?

A sept/early oct baby would have been lovely I must say! My little boy was born a week before Christmas so I'm going to avoid march/april like the plague 😂

I normally get my signs, boobs, dizziness, and anger (defo got that today though) and normally a little sign the day before but nothing.

I don't know if there's any proof of this but I heard starting prenatal vitamins can sometimes make your cycle move 🤷🏻‍♀️

Yes I’m properly on today unfortunately.
oh wow yes 2 birthdays on top of Christmas would be quite a lot!
I think I read that about prenatal vitamins last time also.. not that I took any!

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LouLou0505 · 21/01/2025 20:24

@Babydust82 - thanks! Have you fully come on today?

A sept/early oct baby would have been lovely I must say! My little boy was born a week before Christmas so I'm going to avoid march/april like the plague 😂

I normally get my signs, boobs, dizziness, and anger (defo got that today though) and normally a little sign the day before but nothing.

I don't know if there's any proof of this but I heard starting prenatal vitamins can sometimes make your cycle move 🤷🏻‍♀️

Babydust82 · 21/01/2025 19:56

LouLou0505 · 21/01/2025 19:29

@Babydust82 - sorry to jump in here! I see you say you're only 1 month trying. We are too but for number 2, and I feel really heavy tonight too!

It's crazy how heavy it can weigh on you isn't it?

I'm due on tomorrow but been getting negatives. With my first I tested positive 6 days before my period.

I have PMDD so normally I have the most painful boobs before my period but NOTHING at all right now it's weird.

I just wish for my period to come now so I can move on and forget about this month.

I really feel for people who have been trying for a long time. TTC is painful and wonderful 😔

I’m trying for baby number 2 also! Took 4 months last time so I hope it happens fairly quickly again.
I know, I can’t imagine going through this for years! Must be so hard.
ah I hope you aren’t out this month but if so, happy to stay in this chat and go through the next month together

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Esssa · 21/01/2025 19:49

Thanks @houwseevryweekend I've tried that and while I can do it it reverts the colours once I put my phone back to normal. I can definitely see something though. Try again tomorrow!

LouLou0505 · 21/01/2025 19:29

@Babydust82 - sorry to jump in here! I see you say you're only 1 month trying. We are too but for number 2, and I feel really heavy tonight too!

It's crazy how heavy it can weigh on you isn't it?

I'm due on tomorrow but been getting negatives. With my first I tested positive 6 days before my period.

I have PMDD so normally I have the most painful boobs before my period but NOTHING at all right now it's weird.

I just wish for my period to come now so I can move on and forget about this month.

I really feel for people who have been trying for a long time. TTC is painful and wonderful 😔

houwseevryweekend · 21/01/2025 19:17

Aandk64 · 21/01/2025 12:20

I can see something on your picture, I've changed it to a negative for you bur can't see a line.. might be too weak to show up though. Have you got any other brands and easy at home have had some bad batches recently showing false positives, I had one last month so swapped to another brand off Amazon. Fingers crossed for you.

I think this only works when you do the negative/invert colour on the actual test as the glow reflects from the actual HCG and not a photo of the HCG.

@Esssa if you google how to invert a photo on your specific phone, you'll find out how to do it. Then take a photo of your test and invert it. Don't need an app. If you can see a line that glows like control, it's HCG, not an evap/indent.

Babydust82 · 21/01/2025 18:48

squishousdelicious · 21/01/2025 18:11

Congratulations on the positives tests ladies!

I'm out. Blood on wiping this afternoon, which means i guess we'll try again next month. Beyond gutted even though it's only attempt number 2.

sorry to hear and I’m completely with you. Would have loved a September baby and only month 1 of trying but it’s hit me a bit more tonight. On to next month hey!

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MakeMeJuno · 21/01/2025 18:19

Ladies I feel absolutely horrendous this evening - fatigue, low level nausea, pounding headache and slightly stuffy nose. 10DPO and BFN still... what do we think? Am I just coming down with something or is this weird symptoms?! Surely if it was pregnancy related I would ahve enough hcg for a pos test...

I know nobody can tell me but just feels better to get it out of my head...

squishousdelicious · 21/01/2025 18:11

Congratulations on the positives tests ladies!

I'm out. Blood on wiping this afternoon, which means i guess we'll try again next month. Beyond gutted even though it's only attempt number 2.

NeatOtter · 21/01/2025 12:35

@Babydust82 sorry to hear! Always such a disappointment. Lots of good luck sending your way!

@Aandk64 @maple1234 Congratulations!! So lovely seeing positives!

Esssa · 21/01/2025 12:25

@maple1234 fingers crossed it progresses like yours. Congratulations.

@Aandk64 thank you. It's definitely a test again tomorrow in a few days. I thought I had some one step left but can't find them. I've a frer but not using that until I think there's a point. Which is slightly counter productive since they are the most sensitive!

Aandk64 · 21/01/2025 12:20

Esssa · 21/01/2025 11:25

@Aandk64 I've tried to turn it negative but could only find a black and white filter. I'll have to have another look. I can see it. It came up in the time frame. But does it have colour or am I seeing an evap/indent.

I can see something on your picture, I've changed it to a negative for you bur can't see a line.. might be too weak to show up though. Have you got any other brands and easy at home have had some bad batches recently showing false positives, I had one last month so swapped to another brand off Amazon. Fingers crossed for you.

2DPO 12th Jan - anyone with me?
maple1234 · 21/01/2025 12:19

Esssa · 21/01/2025 11:25

@Aandk64 I've tried to turn it negative but could only find a black and white filter. I'll have to have another look. I can see it. It came up in the time frame. But does it have colour or am I seeing an evap/indent.

I can see something. This was mine at 9DPO which was positive today (11DPO)

2DPO 12th Jan - anyone with me?
Esssa · 21/01/2025 11:25

@Aandk64 I've tried to turn it negative but could only find a black and white filter. I'll have to have another look. I can see it. It came up in the time frame. But does it have colour or am I seeing an evap/indent.

2DPO 12th Jan - anyone with me?
Aandk64 · 21/01/2025 11:20

Esssa · 21/01/2025 10:39

I gave in and tested this morning at 9dpo expecting a completely blank test. Well I can't tell if what I can see has colour or if I'm just seeing where a line should be. It's not even worth posting the picture if it screws with the resolution. So that's me wondering for the next 24hrs. I knew it wasn't really worth it but since someone somewhere on the website has had a positive at 9dpo it was worth a try. Any experience with the easy at home tests because I've not used them before. I have a frer waiting if I see something tomorrow or Wednesday

Congratulations and sticky thoughts for those with BFPs

Thank you and good luck for the next few days.
Have you taken a picture that looks like a photo negative, it helps you see the lines better if you have line eyes.

Esssa · 21/01/2025 11:00

@MakeMeJuno I'm also stuck at home today as my car is grounded until it gets some power steering fluid so not even the chaos of soft play to distract me. Doing my best not to symptom spot which is actually easier than not poas!

MakeMeJuno · 21/01/2025 10:51

@Esssa know the feeling - I also caved and tested despite knowing it wouldn't show and now convinced I am imagining all my symptoms!! it's such a rollercoaster and time goes sooooo slowly

Esssa · 21/01/2025 10:50

Oh I know I'm not out yet @MakeMeJuno it's just clear as mud. Serves me right for being impatient! 😂