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2DPO 12th Jan - anyone with me?

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Babydust82 · 12/01/2025 11:27

As the title says, I’m 2DPO on 12th January and TTC baby no.2. Feeling chilled at the moment as it’s 1st cycle and it took 4 months last time. Going to try and hold out from testing early!

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IDontDrinkTea · 30/01/2025 10:54

Aandk64 · 30/01/2025 09:56

Thank you, so hard isn't it... I'm just trying to keep busy with work.. I''m on CD2 now, so got to keep positive for this cycle.
The GP called me yesterday and has referred me to the recurrent miscarriage clinic and going for blood tests - not sure what to expect from the clinic though, hopefully something works or they can some answers.. Good luck for this cycle I will also ovulate around the 10th :) hopefully see you next month with our BFP's x

I’ve been seen in the recurrent miscarriage clinic. It was essentially a very long wait, to have some basic blood tests and be told it was “unexplained”. I hope it works out better for you but personally I found it quite frustrating

houwseevryweekend · 30/01/2025 10:41

@Esssa Not Wondfo, but i've bought the One Step ovulation sticks and trying for the first time this cycle. Previously i only used the cervical mucus method so interested to see if that tallies with the sticks. Will start peeing on them in 8 days unless i see EWCM before then. Last cycle i saw it the day after after period ended on CD6 which threw me.

Aandk64 · 30/01/2025 09:56

MakeMeJuno · 30/01/2025 09:49

I am sorry to hear of your CP @Aandk64 mine last month really did hit me so be kind to yourself.

I should ovulate around 10th - trying to distract myself!

Thank you, so hard isn't it... I'm just trying to keep busy with work.. I''m on CD2 now, so got to keep positive for this cycle.
The GP called me yesterday and has referred me to the recurrent miscarriage clinic and going for blood tests - not sure what to expect from the clinic though, hopefully something works or they can some answers.. Good luck for this cycle I will also ovulate around the 10th :) hopefully see you next month with our BFP's x

MakeMeJuno · 30/01/2025 09:49

I am sorry to hear of your CP @Aandk64 mine last month really did hit me so be kind to yourself.

I should ovulate around 10th - trying to distract myself!

Esssa · 29/01/2025 21:08

Ah @Aandk64 that is rubbish. Sorry you didn't get a better result.

Currently due ovulation on the 9th but I think that could well move. Will start testing tomorrow (cd7) as that was about the start of my fertile window last month. My periods are a day longer recently too so fingers crossed it's not peri causing issues. My little boy is 20 months and was the result of literally once not that long ago. Hope it's it's not changed too drastically since then.

Has anyone used the wondfo ovulation confirmation sticks? I'm trying to do bbt but my sleep is all over the place thanks to the aforementioned 20 month old.

IDontDrinkTea · 29/01/2025 14:31

AF finally arrived yesterday… a full week late! No idea what that means for when I’ll ovulate this month. I think I might just follow the SMEP method and cover all dates that way 🤦🏼‍♀️

houwseevryweekend · 29/01/2025 08:57

@Aandk64 I'm so sorry to hear this. It's so unfair when this happens. Let's hope this next cycle is the one!

@LouLou0505 Glad your period arrived! Not knowing when it will start is the worst.

I'm only on CD2 today! I spotted for ages but it only turned full flow yesterday. I've never spotted so long before a period before so this must be a fun, new pattern post MC. This has been a much heavier period than the last one so I feel maybe there was still some clear out left. I'm due to ovulate on the 10th and we'll BD a lot more this month!

Making the most of lots of wine these next few days before all the stress begins.

Aandk64 · 28/01/2025 19:37

NeatOtter · 28/01/2025 18:52

Hope it works out @Aandk64 ❤️

Time between cycles seem to move so slowly! Yet also I'm dreading being back in the tww 😞 Think I'll ovulate around the 7th so still a while to go.

Hope everyone is getting their positive vibes ready again 🤞

Thanks, unfortunately got BFN today, so had a chemical this month.. just waiting for AF to arrive now 😪💔 x
Fingers crossed for the next cycle 🤞

LouLou0505 · 28/01/2025 19:32

AF arrived Sunday night FINALLY! I have to say I was very happy with that because I was just so confused!

I should ovulate 7th/8th too 🤞🏼

Babydust82 · 28/01/2025 19:26

NeatOtter · 28/01/2025 18:52

Hope it works out @Aandk64 ❤️

Time between cycles seem to move so slowly! Yet also I'm dreading being back in the tww 😞 Think I'll ovulate around the 7th so still a while to go.

Hope everyone is getting their positive vibes ready again 🤞

Similar timescale to me for rough ovulation date. Good luck!

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NeatOtter · 28/01/2025 18:52

Hope it works out @Aandk64 ❤️

Time between cycles seem to move so slowly! Yet also I'm dreading being back in the tww 😞 Think I'll ovulate around the 7th so still a while to go.

Hope everyone is getting their positive vibes ready again 🤞

Aandk64 · 27/01/2025 10:54

Babydust82 · 27/01/2025 10:26

That’s positive! Have you done any FRER tests at all? They are the only ones I really trust

Not yet, I will leave it a couple of days to see what happens, as i think it's playing tricks on me - If no AF tomorrow i will order some online x

Babydust82 · 27/01/2025 10:26

Aandk64 · 27/01/2025 09:25

Thank you - These tests are driving me crazy - I took another CB blue cross just to be 100% and this were positive - I'm just going to wait now for AF and see what happens.
I did start taking baby aspirin but only 2 days ago, as I was nervous (So i'm late to the party this month with that) x

That’s positive! Have you done any FRER tests at all? They are the only ones I really trust

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Aandk64 · 27/01/2025 09:25

Babydust82 · 27/01/2025 08:54

Maybe a Halloween baby is meant to be! Mine would be earlier than that as I’d likely have another c section a week early. I’ve stuck to my New Year’s resolution to get back to the gym and shift a little weight so hopefully that will help as I feel much healthier already.

@Aandk64 I’m so sorry! Heartbreaking how much you’ve been through already in your TTC journey. After my chemical last time I was so paranoid that I took 75mg of aspirin when I next had an early positive as i’d heard of a couple stories of people who just needed that little help to make it stick. Who knows if it worked but I have a healthy 20 month old now. I think I’ll be doing this again when I catch just in case

AF has finished now and I’m on CD7 so only 1 week to go until I get the ovulation sticks out again!

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Thank you - These tests are driving me crazy - I took another CB blue cross just to be 100% and this were positive - I'm just going to wait now for AF and see what happens.
I did start taking baby aspirin but only 2 days ago, as I was nervous (So i'm late to the party this month with that) x

Babydust82 · 27/01/2025 08:54

Esssa · 24/01/2025 21:23

That's fabulous @pamplemousse19 so pleased for you.

Next cycle means a Halloween due date for me, which as you say @Babydust82 is sooner than I expected. This is good though because I'm avoiding for when we'd end up with a December/Xmas birthday. So if this next cycle works then I can dress the bump as a pumpkin. If it doesn't it's a month or two break and concentrate on getting me and dh healthier before we try again.

Maybe a Halloween baby is meant to be! Mine would be earlier than that as I’d likely have another c section a week early. I’ve stuck to my New Year’s resolution to get back to the gym and shift a little weight so hopefully that will help as I feel much healthier already.

@Aandk64 I’m so sorry! Heartbreaking how much you’ve been through already in your TTC journey. After my chemical last time I was so paranoid that I took 75mg of aspirin when I next had an early positive as i’d heard of a couple stories of people who just needed that little help to make it stick. Who knows if it worked but I have a healthy 20 month old now. I think I’ll be doing this again when I catch just in case

AF has finished now and I’m on CD7 so only 1 week to go until I get the ovulation sticks out again!

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clueless99 · 26/01/2025 18:20

missoa · 25/01/2025 14:20

Hi everyone! I wondered if I could ask if anyone has experience of evaporation lines? I took a test this morning - one of those clear blue 6 days early ones. I'm 11dpo, it came up blank so I thought bfn and then put it aside feeling down, but have just looked at it again a few hours later and a faint line has appeared. Wondered if it's an evap line

I did this month, I had two like that, and one with a faint shadowy line. Then I got my period ☹️ so heartbreaking. I have promised myself not to read them outside of the timeframe in future - but I get how hard that is. I did find one thread which had a line like yours that then went onto BFP....but for me it didn't work out like that xxxx

clueless99 · 26/01/2025 18:16

Aandk64 · 26/01/2025 07:21

Morning Ladies, Well I think after 2 miscarriages (April and Oct last year) I think I am now having my first Chemical 😪 Baby dust to you all.First picture is earlier this week, 3rd Pic Friday AM and PM and last Picture Yesterday AM, PM and this morning 😪

Morning Labies, Well I think after 2 miscarriages (April and October last year) I think I'm now having my first chemical 😪 First Picture is te start of this week, 3rd pic Friday AM and PM and last picture yesterday AM PM and this morning.
Baby dust to you all x

I'm so sorry ❤️❤️❤️
This experience is so hard isn't it. Take care of yourself ❤️❤️❤️

IDontDrinkTea · 26/01/2025 12:11

I’m now CD33 and no sign of AF and also more BFNs 🤦🏼‍♀️ At this point I think I’d be relieved if AF did turn up just so I can move on to trying again next month.

We’re now nearly 18 months into ttc this time and I’m starting to wonder if it’s just not meant to be.

Aandk64 · 26/01/2025 08:34

Esssa · 26/01/2025 08:08

That is super sucky @Aandk64 Have you any other symptoms? Or just the fading lines? Fingers crossed it's a bad batch of tests. When is AF due?

Other than dry mouth, lips occasional headache and cramping / backache on and off.
I'm ready so many conflicting information.
AF due Tuesday, so I am I'm still mega early but tests have been like this for a week.. strange never experienced this before.
I have clearblue ones normal digital and then the week indicator one.. just don't want false hope, might waiting until Tuesday and use them if AF does arrive before x

Esssa · 26/01/2025 08:08

That is super sucky @Aandk64 Have you any other symptoms? Or just the fading lines? Fingers crossed it's a bad batch of tests. When is AF due?

Aandk64 · 26/01/2025 07:21

Morning Ladies, Well I think after 2 miscarriages (April and Oct last year) I think I am now having my first Chemical 😪 Baby dust to you all.First picture is earlier this week, 3rd Pic Friday AM and PM and last Picture Yesterday AM, PM and this morning 😪

Morning Labies, Well I think after 2 miscarriages (April and October last year) I think I'm now having my first chemical 😪 First Picture is te start of this week, 3rd pic Friday AM and PM and last picture yesterday AM PM and this morning.
Baby dust to you all x

2DPO 12th Jan - anyone with me?
2DPO 12th Jan - anyone with me?
2DPO 12th Jan - anyone with me?
2DPO 12th Jan - anyone with me?
Esssa · 25/01/2025 22:53

@MakeMeJuno yes we are on the same timeline for now. Really depends on ovulation though I guess. I was 4-5 days earlier than expected this last cycle so we shall see what happens this time. Fingers crossed for us all!

MakeMeJuno · 25/01/2025 15:18

@Esssa I am on CD2 here after AF rudely showing up so I think we're on the same timeline!! This would also make my due date my birthday :) I am hoping this brings me luck. Maybe see you on Feb threads?! Trying to stay away from mn and obsessing this month though so... we'll see

missoa · 25/01/2025 14:21

missoa · 25/01/2025 14:20

Hi everyone! I wondered if I could ask if anyone has experience of evaporation lines? I took a test this morning - one of those clear blue 6 days early ones. I'm 11dpo, it came up blank so I thought bfn and then put it aside feeling down, but have just looked at it again a few hours later and a faint line has appeared. Wondered if it's an evap line

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2DPO 12th Jan - anyone with me?
missoa · 25/01/2025 14:20

Hi everyone! I wondered if I could ask if anyone has experience of evaporation lines? I took a test this morning - one of those clear blue 6 days early ones. I'm 11dpo, it came up blank so I thought bfn and then put it aside feeling down, but have just looked at it again a few hours later and a faint line has appeared. Wondered if it's an evap line