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35yrs + and trying ✨🫶🏼

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SCK2024 · 04/01/2025 19:31

I am now 37 and have one beautiful 10yrs old boy, my partner has 2 boys 9 & 13yrs.

I bought the Hertility kit online, not yet opened it… I was going to give this cycle my last attempt before investigating 🙃

We got pregnant a year ago but due to personal circumstances we both decided to not go ahead, this I carry so much guilt over 🪃

Now we are both ready and settled in our careers and home but now it has taken nearly 6/7cycles.

today I got my 1st + ovulation test, so beginning our January TWW.

what is everyone else’s story 🌟

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BabyBorn · 21/02/2025 23:36

Wow @curliegirlie! Good luck and very big congratulations!

BabyBorn · 21/02/2025 23:35

@SCK2024 yes it's better to try and forget about it all isn't it. Symptom spotting drives me crazy. I'm very in tune with my body so anything off usually happens by coincidence along side something else. 🥴

Hopefully your BDing will work then. I had one single shag all month once and I got pregnant! 😂😂

I'm not sure about the acupuncture working yet. I've only just started it 3 weeks ago. It's very time consuming. It's recommended you go twice a week to see successful benefits. I've been going twice a week for three weeks so far. Will keep you updated to if it works or not but I've read so many positive things about it.

Thought I had come on my period this morning 3 days early but it's only been browny/ pink when I wipe and died right down to nothing. It was only a smidge. No idea what that is about. I am supposed to be 11DPO today.

GoNoSixx · 21/02/2025 13:03

curliegirlie · 21/02/2025 11:22

Hi girls, a bit of very early news....yesterday I got a squinter on a couple of Boots tests. I was convinced they were indents (particularly as I'd peed on rather than dipped the first one and it had got on the test window 🤦‍♀️) as I was only 9dpo and have never got anything this early before. Another slightly darker squinter this morning too. Obviously I'm being cautious and not getting my hopes up yet, but if it does all work out, it shows that sometimes, even after 3 years when you're a dinosaur of 42 there can be happy endings....

Congratulations, I ttc my daughter who's 11mo for 2+ years i know how draining it can be ttc for a lengthy time ♥️

And how equally hard it can be to accept a bfp when the right time comes and try to protect your heart at the same time.

Amazing news 🎊

curliegirlie · 21/02/2025 11:22

Hi girls, a bit of very early news....yesterday I got a squinter on a couple of Boots tests. I was convinced they were indents (particularly as I'd peed on rather than dipped the first one and it had got on the test window 🤦‍♀️) as I was only 9dpo and have never got anything this early before. Another slightly darker squinter this morning too. Obviously I'm being cautious and not getting my hopes up yet, but if it does all work out, it shows that sometimes, even after 3 years when you're a dinosaur of 42 there can be happy endings....

SCK2024 · 21/02/2025 10:03

BabyBorn · 21/02/2025 09:53

Hey @SCK2024 how are things with you? Isn’t it time to BD for you now? I’ve just started my period 3 days earlier than usual! It’s got to be the acupuncture?! so hoping this will put me back to a 28 day cycle like it was for years up until I had my daughter 2years 7 months ago. The only changes I’ve made is clean eating, acupuncture and taking Chinese herbs x

😂😂😂 It is! Got my peak yday, didn’t BD leading up to it, taking it easy this month and next.
BD last night, probably again all weekend too, trying not to get all excited with early testing and OTT symptom spotting.

your the second person today who has mentioned acupuncture! Never know of this before? Can it bring on early spotting and AF? What are the benefits with this, sounds good ✨

CD 10 today 1dpo

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BabyBorn · 21/02/2025 09:53

Hey @SCK2024 how are things with you? Isn’t it time to BD for you now? I’ve just started my period 3 days earlier than usual! It’s got to be the acupuncture?! so hoping this will put me back to a 28 day cycle like it was for years up until I had my daughter 2years 7 months ago. The only changes I’ve made is clean eating, acupuncture and taking Chinese herbs x

SCK2024 · 21/02/2025 08:39

FenellaFurchester · 20/02/2025 12:12

Just had the scan.
Measuring 6w1d - everything is where it should be and a heartbeat ❤️

I have a subchorionic hematoma so that’s where the bleeding has come from.

I can’t quite believe it’s real, I was convinced it would be bad news.

Thank you so much for thinking of me ❤️

xx

@FenellaFurchester AMAZING NEWS! So happy for you!!!
few weeks off and I’ve missed so much! Trying to catch back up with everyone’s posts!
✨✨✨✨🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🥰

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BabyBorn · 20/02/2025 19:05

I bet you are! Such relief! So pleased for you! Looking forward to seeing you on the pregnancy boards and hoping I follow you really soon!! lol x

FenellaFurchester · 20/02/2025 14:31

I can’t stop crying with relief 😂 I know it’s early days but it’s as good as it can be for this stage.

I’m really glad to have a reason for the bleed, it feels far more reassuring than it being okay but not knowing why I bled.

xx

BabyBorn · 20/02/2025 12:55

Aawww @FenellaFurchester that's such amazing news! Congratulations! Exciting times ahead! Xx

GoNoSixx · 20/02/2025 12:55

FenellaFurchester · 20/02/2025 12:12

Just had the scan.
Measuring 6w1d - everything is where it should be and a heartbeat ❤️

I have a subchorionic hematoma so that’s where the bleeding has come from.

I can’t quite believe it’s real, I was convinced it would be bad news.

Thank you so much for thinking of me ❤️

xx

Awwww amazing news, i bet your so so relieved and over the moon ♥️♥️♥️

FenellaFurchester · 20/02/2025 12:12

BabyBorn · 20/02/2025 09:03

Good Luck today @FenellaFurchester xx

Just had the scan.
Measuring 6w1d - everything is where it should be and a heartbeat ❤️

I have a subchorionic hematoma so that’s where the bleeding has come from.

I can’t quite believe it’s real, I was convinced it would be bad news.

Thank you so much for thinking of me ❤️

xx

BabyBorn · 20/02/2025 09:03

Good Luck today @FenellaFurchester xx

BabyBorn · 19/02/2025 02:03

Right, I understand now. Well obviously let's hope it was just too early to tell! 🤞 xx

FenellaFurchester · 18/02/2025 20:28

BabyBorn · 18/02/2025 19:45

Forgot to ask, what makes you think it could be a blighted ovum? @FenellaFurchester x

I had a bleed and GP sent me for a scan, only gestational sac was visible so I was heartbroken when they said ectopic (now ruled out by blood tests), blighted ovum, or just too early. Then when I looked more closely at my dates, I’ve realised I probably ovulated closer to CD17 or 18 so at the scan I’d have been 5 weeks and 3 or 4 days rather than the 6 weeks they were looking for. It made me feel much more hopeful that it was just too early. I’ve had some spotting since so I’m readying myself for bad news.
Strange feeling to still have that “I just want to be pregnant” feeling even after my bfp 😢

BabyBorn · 18/02/2025 19:45

Forgot to ask, what makes you think it could be a blighted ovum? @FenellaFurchester x

BabyBorn · 18/02/2025 19:43

@FenellaFurchester I know exactly what you mean, I've been there a few times too 😢 Hope its a positive outcome for you as not all pregnancies end in miscarriage with bleeding xx

Squibblypanda90 · 18/02/2025 19:22

I'm 35 worrying I can't get pregnant again, sons 7 years old and my partner's said he would like to try for another child. Been using ovulation tests and using procieve vitamins. Ive got the flo app and the clearblue app. Can anyone give anymore advice on what else I could do?

FenellaFurchester · 18/02/2025 18:52

BabyBorn · 18/02/2025 12:46

Aawwww @FenellaFurchester I hope everything will be ok! Good luck and let us know when you've had your scan on Thursday. 🍀🍀 xx

Thank you. It’s been a dreadful week of waiting, symptom spotting, crying, and suddenly become very superstitious.
At least I’ll know early if it’s a blighted ovum and we’ll be able to try again.

I’ll update on Thursday xx

BabyBorn · 18/02/2025 12:46

Aawwww @FenellaFurchester I hope everything will be ok! Good luck and let us know when you've had your scan on Thursday. 🍀🍀 xx

FenellaFurchester · 18/02/2025 11:01

Hi 👋
Just popping back on - I’m having some bleeding (should be around 6 - 7 weeks now) I’m not feeling hopeful, although sickness has ramped up considerably so maybe that’s a good sign.

I have a scan on Thursday so depending what we see, I might be rejoining you all in ttc soon.

Hope things are going well for everyone.

xx

BabyBorn · 18/02/2025 06:59

Hey @ByJollyZebra Welcome! Do you currently have any children? That's great your GP has agreed to blood tests. I had my little girl at 37, got pregnant at 36. I am now trying again, I will be 40 in March x

ByJollyZebra · 17/02/2025 17:52

How is everyone doing? We've been to the see the GP today to get the ball rolling with some investigations into our fertility as we're on cycle 11 now and I'm 36 this year. Feels like a big scary step but I literally felt a weight lift off me when he said that we could get the ball rolling with some tests, starting with my blood test on Friday x

curliegirlie · 14/02/2025 22:17

Great news @laidir! Always a relief to get those figures. And yes, a good idea to track BBT if you can, as it's reassuring if it can confirm the OPK.

laidir · 14/02/2025 21:20

@BabyBorn Yeah I'm happy that I have at least ovulated on my own, even with PCOS. I am going to start tracking BBT next cycle though because the test was expensive privately and my GP will only do one progesterone test and one day 2-5 test.
Thanks that's great about the broth, I have holland and barrett nearby so will try it. I sometimes make my own chicken broth with wings and veg (not sure if bone broth specifically) but like you say, it's really time consuming and doesn't make a lot at a time.