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4dpo who's with me?!

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asabee · 01/01/2025 10:36

Trying for baby no 3. Didn't have it planned but DH and I BD on ovulation day so it's gotten me all anxious and excited! Who's with me?!

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Theosmommy2011 · 09/01/2025 13:04

My morning test. I think I see something and then I don't, getting frustrating lol xx

4dpo who's with me?!
4dpo who's with me?!
Theosmommy2011 · 09/01/2025 09:56

@FMc208 I think I can see something on both 🤞🤞 xx

Mama09876 · 09/01/2025 07:33

@FMc208 I can defo see a line on the clear blue! But from what I’ve read on MN they can be notorious for evap line but I can also see a shadow on the other test!! Tentatively I think positive! 🤍

9 DPO still early hopefully something will show better tomorrow 🤞🏻🤞🏻

FMc208 · 09/01/2025 07:21

9dpo today and took these - can I have opinions please? I turned the brightness down because the lines don’t photograph very well…

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4dpo who's with me?!
Theosmommy2011 · 08/01/2025 18:50

With my first I had no idea I was pregnant, no symptoms. Missed my period by a few days and didn't think anything of it much until a few days later, thought I had better test. Unfortunately I lost him but then got pregnant straight away with my second. No symptoms other than the usual ones that I was hoping and praying were pregnancy and not af lol. Same with my 3rd.
I will test again tomorrow and hopefully see those two pink lines, hope we all do. But if i don't, on to another month with as much positivity as I can muster lol. I do tell myself I can have a few days of sadness and then get excited to try again lol xx

Mama09876 · 08/01/2025 18:09

The only thing giving me hope this month is a few people have said they had no symptoms or different from other pregnancies. Right now I feel nothing like my first, I kinda knew about 8/9 DPO, hotter/high temp, sick etc but didn’t test till AF.

FMc208 · 08/01/2025 17:52

Thanks both. It’s so nice to have people to speak to that understand. With my DD I didn’t have any symptoms at all and didn’t test until I’d missed my period so the TWW is a new form of torture for me. Every month I say I won’t let it affect me as much and yet here I am.

@Theosmommy2011 are you testing again tomorrow morning?

Mama09876 · 08/01/2025 17:46

@FMc208 it is so tough this TWW. It really is a rollercoaster.

I was doing pretty well then got to 5/6 DPO and symptom spotting galore! I annoy myself doing it cause I know it far to early for anything to of even happened! 🤦🏼‍♀️

Theosmommy2011 · 08/01/2025 16:08

@FMc208 I know how this feels and it is so hard. It's like a rollercoaster. Hang in there, you are still early. We've got this, we're so much stronger than we think. I am trying to find rewarding things to do to occupy my mind and keep my mood up, it does help.

@AmazeB thank you. That was this morning, just waiting until tomorrow to test again but not holding out hope lol xx

AmazeB · 08/01/2025 15:32

@Theosmommy2011 i see lines on the first 2 pics!

FMc208 · 08/01/2025 14:20

I’ve turned into a complete mess this cycle. I said I wouldn’t but it’s worse than ever. I just want to see that second line so badly 😔

I’m only 8dpo so I know it’s so early but I just have a feeling I’m out this month anyway.

Theosmommy2011 · 08/01/2025 14:06

@Mama09876 oh yes, I see it now too. Thank you for that. Yes I think I just need to let another day pass and see xx

Mama09876 · 08/01/2025 13:48

Theosmommy2011 · 08/01/2025 13:37

Afternoon tests.....negative 🙄 xx

Don’t forget you’re still only potentially 9/10 DPO that right?
I just screenshotted it and played around with the colouring and I feel like you can see a shadow the same as last time. You might just have diluted wee!
Try again in morning?

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4dpo who's with me?!
Theosmommy2011 · 08/01/2025 13:37

Afternoon tests.....negative 🙄 xx

4dpo who's with me?!
4dpo who's with me?!
Theosmommy2011 · 08/01/2025 11:18

@Mama09876 thank you, I hope it happens 🤞. If not, I'm going to plan things for the TWW so I can keep busy and preoccupied instead of focusing on it so much. Felt like giving up and giving in many times but the only way is forward in this game. We are strong for what we endure while TTC'ing.

Forgot to say, my app says 9DPO but going off my usual ovulation indicators I would say 10 or 11DPO xx

Mama09876 · 08/01/2025 10:58

@Theosmommy2011 yess, to me there is certainly something there! Got everything crossed for you.

It really is & you’ve summed up how I’m feeling this month I really don’t wanna get my hopes up and I feel stupid sometimes thinking I’ve got ‘symptoms’ and af arrives. Im on my 5th cycle I think trying for our 2nd.

it must be so difficult trying to stay positive for so long! I’m really hoping this is your month!! 🤍

Theosmommy2011 · 08/01/2025 10:48

@Mama09876 It is super hard to stay positive on this TTC journey though isn't it? We don't want to get our hopes up for nothing and the disappointment hurts. I have been on this journey for around 2 & 1/2 years now. Last year I just tried to start getting into a more what will be will be mindset and tried to focus more on everything else in my life so it didn't consume me so much. It helps but it is difficult.

Well I'm glad it isn't just me. I can see it clearly with the naked eye which I have never had on these tests. Trying to do a longer hold now so I can try another but it's proving difficult lol xx

Mama09876 · 08/01/2025 10:40

@Theosmommy2011 thank you! I think I need to be more positive thinking!

also… I can see faint lines on all of those!! I’m normally shocking at seeing the lines as well but I’m not just saying it I can defo see faint lines.

how many DPO are you again? Sorry if you’ve already said.

Theosmommy2011 · 08/01/2025 10:27

Morning all!
I tested again this morning and felt like something was catching my eye but really hard to capture on camera so could just be me lol. I took another around an hour and a half later as was eager to see if I could see the same thing. Will attach pics. Last one is once they were dry for about 15 mins.

@Mama09876 I had different symptoms each time I got pregnant so don't count yourself out yet. Will keep my 🤞 for you xx

4dpo who's with me?!
4dpo who's with me?!
4dpo who's with me?!
Mama09876 · 08/01/2025 10:15

How’s everyone feeling today I think I’m roughly 5/6 DPO. Could not sleep last night no matter how hard I tried! I keep looking back on my NC app from my symptoms when I was pregnant with my first and feeling nothing like the symptoms I had then so wondering if it’s a sign I’m out.

The only thing I’ve got a few niggles in my groin and heaviness but that could defo he AF I’m potentially due on anywhere between 13th-17th depending on how my cycles wanna play this month! 😂

Mama09876 · 08/01/2025 10:09

@Theosmommy2011 have you managed to take any more? Interested to know if they were evaps or not cause that last one really does look positive to me.

AmazeB · 08/01/2025 03:29

@Theosmommy2011 the last one looks like it could be something! Take another more sensitive test?

Theosmommy2011 · 07/01/2025 18:06

@FMc208 I'm either 9 or 10DPO. Took an internet cheapie with lower sensitivity and it was negative. Hopefully next time 🤞 xx

FMc208 · 07/01/2025 16:21

@Theosmommy2011 i think the bottom one looks positive! How many dpo are you?

Theosmommy2011 · 07/01/2025 13:33

@Mama09876 I have some other tests coming today so will try with them. I honestly just think it's the tests that I have used. Must be rubbish lol xx