NJ's done it now,we're all heading that way! - Tests,temping and tantrums - a thread for ppl TTC and waiting!

Oh Squack, where's your willpower?! I hope you're going to test with a proper strong FMU soon

Oh Cals, it is shit isn't it? I know my DH never has a clue about any of this, that's why we're all here, virtual shoulders and all that

Having said that, he was lovely this evening, I was soaking my sunburn in the bath when he came home with a takeaway for himself (he'd missed tea) and brought me a satay chicken skewer [yummy]

I nearly slipped up earlier, I was talking to a couple of friends and one said she was sometimes tempted to have another, I said I was too and nearly blurted out the whole plan, but just caught myself in time. I hope she does have another, it's nice to have a friend at the same stage isn't it?

Anyway enough rambling from me, g'night!

Squack - what is it with you night time testers??? Mad, the lot of you!

Its absolutely likely to get a +ve after you're due - DS didn't show as BFP until Monday after being due on the Friday!

NJ's DS2 didn't show BFP till 9 days after Af due (that is right isn't it NJ).

Its never over till AF arrives...test using FMU next time!

Thanks for support guys, have pulled myself back together again

perhaps still 2 early squack
ff still wont let me do thing with charts

Ahh! Cal

It's rubbish isn't it? I cried the other day and Dh had no clue what was going on, I just felt very emotional about the whole thing.

I think it's a good idea to try to explain to Dh how you feel.
IME it's when we bottle it up and then let loose that they think we're crazy.
They get the ranty emotional side without the build up and frustration we've experienced over days.

Tested tonight bfn. Still no period though.

Is it likely that I could get a +ve after I'm due (yesterday)?

Cals,

Don't worry. Vent away! This is what the thread is for! It is tough keeping such a big secret from people you are close to in your RL. Lots of times I have wanted to tell family members and friends, but it is just sooo private can't bring myself to. That is why MN is so fantastic!

Must be a good night for wine. Just had some fizzy myself. Lovely Will be even better when I can enjoy a glass on my patio We'll get there.

Thanks Cal, I'll come on here as soon as I get in and let everyone know.

I'm sorry you are upset Cal. I'm sure your DP will understand if you talk to him.

Hi all, hello newbies! Sorry, quick post as its taken me ages to read everything today!

I feel like i'm due on AF and really disappointed, just sitting crying and I know DP will just think I'm being stupid.

I just wanna be pg . I don't really know why I'm posting coz I know you all feel the same too, just no one knows we're trying except you lot and if I can't tell someone I'll explode.

Best go finish dinner off . Hope you have a good night everyone - and good luck tomorrow Kay, x.

Well I've just tidied up, I'm off for a glass of wine.

I was due on yesterday LL.

Right ladies i am off to enjoy a nice glass of wine and soda....

see you all tomorrow..

cheers cosmo kay good luck for tomorrow is very excited

Hi Kayz - yummy - could just eat a takeaway right about now. Sure you will be absolutely fine tomorrow.

Tink - So, Saturday's the day. Am in Manchester on Sat without internet access but will check on Sunday to see how you got on. Everything crossed for you.

Evening ladies.

I hope you are all well.

I feel strangly optimistic about the scan tomorrow. I think because the doctors seemed so relaxed about it, it has relaxed me. DH is still a bit worried bless him. He has treated us to a takeaway.

hi squack ff wont let me do all @ once have tried
dont know when lp is last period was 55 days came off pill end of jan
cosmo i am have just bought tesco test testing sat 15 dpo

Hi LL, that is good to know. I'll keep an eye on the EWCM. Have had plenty of tummy cramping the last couple of days.

Hello Cosmo glad you are ok. I think I ov on CD12 this month which is quiet early as well...

Hi ladies,

Tink - good luck. Bet you are counting down the days until you can test! Exciting stuff.

Squack - you've been taking pregnancy tests to pieces?! Good work. Fingers crossed over here for you as well.

Glaskham - welcome to our thread.

Playing - hello - how's the wait treating you?

GJ - yup, looks like it is only the four of us strapped into the wagon. Sure the time will fly by though and we will be symptom spotting before we know it!

Kayz - hope everything is OK.

LL - sorry DP is finding job stressful. But glad we have some company from you in the wagon. It is getting lonely, we need some more 'waiters'.

I got EWCM today CD10. Only a bit though, so am not sure I am about to ovulate. Seems early? Obviously the hormones are going bonkers post pill. Perhaps the bleeding gums and spotty neck were linked to OV for me?? Hopefully I will get back to normal soon.

Hey to everyone else x

oh squack you are so good. Lots of CM is a sign of pg isn't it?!? When were you due on?

I have tons of CM.

Nope I'm waiting.

My chart looks good and if my temp is high again tomorrow then I might test with FMU, but I only have ebay cheeps.

I have to admit I'm actually tempted to wait until i have 18 high temps

squack have you tested again today??

No Tink you click on all 3 at the same time, then search

Have another go. Your chart looks much better than those stats.

What's your LP Tink?

i see i click one box at a time and add up each percentage :-

i got comparing ov day,coverline,intercourse:-

ov day - m-2%,ov65%,prg31%
coverline-m-2%,ov70%,prg26%
intercourse-m-3%,ov67%,29%

think this right

Good luck for tomorrow Kayz

Go into ff, click on chart gallery

Click on "find charts like yours"

select the following boxes Ovulation day, Coverline, & Intercourse Pattern. Then click on "search"

Bingo!

Oh Kay thats great. You can celebrate your possitive scan results...