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December TTC Support Group (pt2)

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MummyV2021 · 20/12/2024 00:04

Hello! Setting this up to carry on from the previous thread that's now full!

This is a space for those that are:

  • TTC in December
  • Got a negative in November and are preparing to try again
  • We're trying in November and testing in December

All are welcome, fingers crossed for more BFPs!!

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SCK2024 · 04/01/2025 19:25

SCK2024 · 04/01/2025 19:00

Hi ladies! ✨✨✨
I have 1 boy (9)
OH has 2 boys (9&13)
Planning for one together ❤️

CD 9

1DPO (1st + today!)

We are like 🐇 regardless of trying, always have been, catching the fertile window won’t be a problem 😂

Back to the TWW 🙃💃

Getting pregnant seems to be taking forever! 🫠

SCK2024 · 04/01/2025 19:00

Hi ladies! ✨✨✨
I have 1 boy (9)
OH has 2 boys (9&13)
Planning for one together ❤️

CD 9

1DPO (1st + today!)

We are like 🐇 regardless of trying, always have been, catching the fertile window won’t be a problem 😂

Back to the TWW 🙃💃

Sunch · 31/12/2024 12:31

MummyV2021 · 31/12/2024 09:46

@Sunch I'm doing ok! I'm ok emotionally about the CP, had my cry and know deep down it was never going to be viable so try not to dwell, as clinical as that sounds. I know I'm definitely a little fragile mentally as had 2 early losses before my little boy and that hit me hard anxiety wise and massively impacted my entire pregnancy. I now have the added fear that I'm going to keep having CPs because of my age and the quality of my eggs so I need to step back from tests - both pregnancy and ovulation. Going to just go with the flow these next few cycles and listen to my body. My cycles will probably be all over the place anyway so no idea when I might ovulate or have my next period!

Sounds like you have a good plan in place. My friend who did IVF was recommended acupuncture so it's definitely a thing! It definitely can't hurt to try things that might help things along! Really hope this cycle brings you a BFP 🥰 xx

@MummyV2021 aaaaawww I’m sorry that you went through the CPs and it’s okay to feel how you’re feeling.
I agree sometimes it can get overwhelming and trigger anxiety so removing yourself from testing may free you mentally. Our babies are on their way - let’s hold on to that. Your mental health is of upmost importance - take care of that and everything else will fall into place. Wishing you a fabulous new year x

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MummyV2021 · 31/12/2024 09:46

@Sunch I'm doing ok! I'm ok emotionally about the CP, had my cry and know deep down it was never going to be viable so try not to dwell, as clinical as that sounds. I know I'm definitely a little fragile mentally as had 2 early losses before my little boy and that hit me hard anxiety wise and massively impacted my entire pregnancy. I now have the added fear that I'm going to keep having CPs because of my age and the quality of my eggs so I need to step back from tests - both pregnancy and ovulation. Going to just go with the flow these next few cycles and listen to my body. My cycles will probably be all over the place anyway so no idea when I might ovulate or have my next period!

Sounds like you have a good plan in place. My friend who did IVF was recommended acupuncture so it's definitely a thing! It definitely can't hurt to try things that might help things along! Really hope this cycle brings you a BFP 🥰 xx

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Sunch · 30/12/2024 20:01

MummyV2021 · 30/12/2024 19:46

Thanks @Sunch 🥰 had my scan this morning and they confirmed it was a complete miscarriage, uterus empty and closed and lining back to normal. Also did another pregnancy test which was negative so confident there isn't a pregnancy hiding somewhere it shouldn't. Whilst it's obviously not the best outcome, it's the best in the circumstances and I can now move on from this rollercoaster cycle! How are things with you?

@MummyV2021 oh, so sorry you are going through this. My gosh, us women are so strong, honestly this journey that we are on, we literally have to just keep getting back up. I’m glad you’re physically okay but how are you mentally and emotionally?

Im okay, gearing up to go at it again in January. Have had a good break and also been reading up on acupuncture which I think I’m going to give a go. Read lots of good things and worth a shot, at the very least will help with trying not to stress x

Applecrumble9 · 30/12/2024 19:51

MummyV2021 · 30/12/2024 19:46

Thanks @Sunch 🥰 had my scan this morning and they confirmed it was a complete miscarriage, uterus empty and closed and lining back to normal. Also did another pregnancy test which was negative so confident there isn't a pregnancy hiding somewhere it shouldn't. Whilst it's obviously not the best outcome, it's the best in the circumstances and I can now move on from this rollercoaster cycle! How are things with you?

Very sorry to hear this, but thankfully you are safe and don't have an ectopic x sending you well wishes and again, i am so sorry for your loss xx you are not alone x

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MummyV2021 · 30/12/2024 19:46

Thanks @Sunch 🥰 had my scan this morning and they confirmed it was a complete miscarriage, uterus empty and closed and lining back to normal. Also did another pregnancy test which was negative so confident there isn't a pregnancy hiding somewhere it shouldn't. Whilst it's obviously not the best outcome, it's the best in the circumstances and I can now move on from this rollercoaster cycle! How are things with you?

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Sunch · 30/12/2024 17:09

MummyV2021 · 29/12/2024 15:14

Thanks @Sunch. Just been seen by consultant who checked me out and is happy I’m not in immediate danger of a rupturing ectopic. She’s taken urine sample and said they’ll wait for the bloods to come back and then likely book me to come back for a scan in the next day or 2. Apparently they don’t have the facility to scan on the day out of hours. So think I just need to wait another half hour then I should be able to go

@MummyV2021 its good you got seen to, but annoying that they only do so much. Keeping fingers crossed that all is well when you manage to have a scan

WestiesAreMyBesties · 29/12/2024 18:32

@SCK2024 I'm not sure. When we went for a scan before doing the IUI there was only one large follicle on one side and a group of smaller follicles on the other side. I'm assuming only the large one was viable but I can't be sure 🤷🏻‍♀️

SCK2024 · 29/12/2024 18:23

WestiesAreMyBesties · 29/12/2024 17:09

Guys! Guys! Guys!
I think this second IUI worked!
The first few days show a dark line but that was just the trigger shot. You can see when the trigger shot left my body (still have no idea what happened on day 6. It must have been a faulty one) but then you can see the line getting darker again!
What do you think? Is this my cycle?! Did it work??

Interesting! 🧐 did you double ovulate?! ✨

WestiesAreMyBesties · 29/12/2024 17:09

Guys! Guys! Guys!
I think this second IUI worked!
The first few days show a dark line but that was just the trigger shot. You can see when the trigger shot left my body (still have no idea what happened on day 6. It must have been a faulty one) but then you can see the line getting darker again!
What do you think? Is this my cycle?! Did it work??

December TTC Support Group (pt2)
SCK2024 · 29/12/2024 15:51

MummyV2021 · 29/12/2024 15:16

Never any judgment here lovely, everyone has their reasons. It's nobody else's business. I haven't used hertility so can't comment sorry, hopefully someone else has and can share experience. How long have you been TTC? Over 35 you can speak to GP about your fertility if you've been trying for more than 6 months without success

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Thanks lovely 🌸
Trouble I’m a nurse and my staff can see my consultations from my own practice.
it’s a tricky one.
I am going to ask work to be taken off the spine as I was a patient at my work before becoming staff.
I have ordered a hertility home kit, I should get it in 3-5days and will keep anyone interested updated xx

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MummyV2021 · 29/12/2024 15:16

SCK2024 · 29/12/2024 14:27

i am guessing the spotting / light bleed was my period (2days long).

I have 1 child (10yrs) to my last partner.
my current partner has x2 boys (13&9yrs)
we want one together.

We are both 37.

We found out last year (August 2023) i was pregnant but due to personal circumstances we had to terminate which I was so upset over.

i feel this is karma 😔

we are both trying to conceive now.

has anyone ever used Hertility?

I want to check my hormone levels x

please no judging

Never any judgment here lovely, everyone has their reasons. It's nobody else's business. I haven't used hertility so can't comment sorry, hopefully someone else has and can share experience. How long have you been TTC? Over 35 you can speak to GP about your fertility if you've been trying for more than 6 months without success

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MummyV2021 · 29/12/2024 15:14

Thanks @Sunch. Just been seen by consultant who checked me out and is happy I’m not in immediate danger of a rupturing ectopic. She’s taken urine sample and said they’ll wait for the bloods to come back and then likely book me to come back for a scan in the next day or 2. Apparently they don’t have the facility to scan on the day out of hours. So think I just need to wait another half hour then I should be able to go

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Sunch · 29/12/2024 15:13

bsummer · 28/12/2024 19:22

I had a missed miscarriage November 2023 at 17 weeks , and have been TTC ever since ! I was almost 100% certain that AF was on the way due to cramps and all other symptoms ive felt every month for the last year . I have just taken a cheap asda test thinking it would be negative , and I can't believe it🥹 the line came up straight away!

That’s super exciting!!! Hope it’s a sticky bean

Sunch · 29/12/2024 15:13

MummyV2021 · 29/12/2024 12:55

Ladies - my drama continues! Thought I was having a straightforward CP - period a week late, slightly longer than usual and stopped bleeding on Christmas Day. Hadn't tested again as didn't think I needed to. However, started light bleeding again last night so did a test and still quite a strong BFP (some progression from 10 days ago but not enough to get me excited). Went to bed and still light bleeding this morning. Having some dull/mild twinges in lower left side and lower back so called 111 and been told to go to A&E to be scanned to rule out ectopic. There's a lot of people here so might be here a while 😩

Oh @MummyV2021 i hope everything is okay. A&E is a nightmare so hope you will be seen to quickly and get some peace of mind xx

SCK2024 · 29/12/2024 14:27

i am guessing the spotting / light bleed was my period (2days long).

I have 1 child (10yrs) to my last partner.
my current partner has x2 boys (13&9yrs)
we want one together.

We are both 37.

We found out last year (August 2023) i was pregnant but due to personal circumstances we had to terminate which I was so upset over.

i feel this is karma 😔

we are both trying to conceive now.

has anyone ever used Hertility?

I want to check my hormone levels x

please no judging

SCK2024 · 29/12/2024 14:22

MummyV2021 · 29/12/2024 12:55

Ladies - my drama continues! Thought I was having a straightforward CP - period a week late, slightly longer than usual and stopped bleeding on Christmas Day. Hadn't tested again as didn't think I needed to. However, started light bleeding again last night so did a test and still quite a strong BFP (some progression from 10 days ago but not enough to get me excited). Went to bed and still light bleeding this morning. Having some dull/mild twinges in lower left side and lower back so called 111 and been told to go to A&E to be scanned to rule out ectopic. There's a lot of people here so might be here a while 😩

I have my fingers crossed for you ❤️❤️❤️❤️

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MummyV2021 · 29/12/2024 12:55

Ladies - my drama continues! Thought I was having a straightforward CP - period a week late, slightly longer than usual and stopped bleeding on Christmas Day. Hadn't tested again as didn't think I needed to. However, started light bleeding again last night so did a test and still quite a strong BFP (some progression from 10 days ago but not enough to get me excited). Went to bed and still light bleeding this morning. Having some dull/mild twinges in lower left side and lower back so called 111 and been told to go to A&E to be scanned to rule out ectopic. There's a lot of people here so might be here a while 😩

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Applecrumble9 · 29/12/2024 12:51

bsummer · 28/12/2024 19:22

I had a missed miscarriage November 2023 at 17 weeks , and have been TTC ever since ! I was almost 100% certain that AF was on the way due to cramps and all other symptoms ive felt every month for the last year . I have just taken a cheap asda test thinking it would be negative , and I can't believe it🥹 the line came up straight away!

So sorry for your loss, and the biggest congratulations on your positive test, fantastic news 🥰

WestiesAreMyBesties · 29/12/2024 09:36

bsummer · 28/12/2024 19:22

I had a missed miscarriage November 2023 at 17 weeks , and have been TTC ever since ! I was almost 100% certain that AF was on the way due to cramps and all other symptoms ive felt every month for the last year . I have just taken a cheap asda test thinking it would be negative , and I can't believe it🥹 the line came up straight away!

Congrats!! 🥳🎉

WestiesAreMyBesties · 29/12/2024 09:33

OscarVictorEcho · 23/12/2024 22:11

Hi...continuing on here from the last thread. AF is 3 days late so I sent my partner to pick up a pregnancy test while he was out doing the Christmas food shop this morning and I got a BFP! This was my 4th cycle TTC no 2, but only the first cycle where I did ovulation testing. Ovulation happened on CD17 which was a bit later than I expected so I'm wondering if we were having sex too early in the previous cycles!

Congratulations!!! 🥳🎉

bsummer · 28/12/2024 19:22

I had a missed miscarriage November 2023 at 17 weeks , and have been TTC ever since ! I was almost 100% certain that AF was on the way due to cramps and all other symptoms ive felt every month for the last year . I have just taken a cheap asda test thinking it would be negative , and I can't believe it🥹 the line came up straight away!

December TTC Support Group (pt2)
SCK2024 · 27/12/2024 14:18

I have the lower abdo cramps- constant for 3 days now and nausea, noticed small amount of blood in the toilet after I had a pee, and just now when I went for a pee, nothing major, is stringy Implantation bleeding a thing mucus salmon pink?