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January TTC Support Group 💚

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MyGardenDaisies · 10/12/2024 14:03

Hello!

Since I created the December one, making one for January!

A supportive place to chat for those that are:

  • starting to TTC in January
  • will be testing ovulation/pregnancy in January

all welcome! 🤗

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Sugarcube84 · 03/01/2025 21:14

Thankyou @abi555 and @MyGardenDaisies I’m going to wait until after I’ve missed my period next weds so fingers crossed I’ll be joining you

SarahB88 · 03/01/2025 20:11

@Lcc5261 I think the apps just not picked up your peak properly then like me. I’ve been the same as you and reckon I ovulated a couple of days ago, maybe even yesterday but more likely day before. We’ve just been DTD every other day to cover ourselves. Exciting that we are cycle twinies!

Irishstout · 03/01/2025 20:02

This is all a bit eeek but I'm going to join in here. We've decided that we're going to start trying this month for our first. I'm 35 and a little overweight so I'm betting it might take a while.

So I should ovulate around 26th.

This whole thing is a new world to me!

Fingers crossed for everyone

Lcc5261 · 03/01/2025 19:37

@SarahB88 yeah for last 2/3 days I’ve had egg white CM, cramps and tender boobs so I do think I’ve ovulated but this is my first cycle ttc #2 after coming off the mini pill so I’ve no idea what my cycle is like atm x

SarahB88 · 03/01/2025 19:29

Lcc5261 · 03/01/2025 19:15

@SarahB88 ill try that thank you ☺️ x

I also check for what my cervical mucous is up to and any ovulation bloating/pains so that I know it all matches up x

Lcc5261 · 03/01/2025 19:15

@SarahB88 ill try that thank you ☺️ x

SarahB88 · 03/01/2025 18:59

@Lcc5261 yeah I was worried too but one of the lovely girls on here said it’s a common problem for the app to not pick up the test properly. You can also try closing the app and taking another photo in different light.

Lcc5261 · 03/01/2025 18:56

@SarahB88 ahh thank you! I’ve not used it before so thought I’d give it a try. I did wonder as some of my lines have been good.

SarahB88 · 03/01/2025 18:47

@Lcc5261 my numbers look like this on premom too. I just ignore the numbers and look at the line progression then go in and set my peak manually. I’ve had lines exactly as dark as the control in real life and only got a reading of 0.25 on premom, a lot of it is to do with lighting of the photo.

Lcc5261 · 03/01/2025 18:00

Hi, I’m new to posting on here! Can anyone help with my ovulation tests. I just don’t get them at all, unless I’m testing too soon and need to hold out a day or two xx

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Renee33 · 03/01/2025 16:37

Hi everyone another lurker here. Every month I say we are trying officially, but then we don't follow through 🤣. So this month might be the actual first month we actually try for baby number 3.

I am CD 7 today and should ovulate CD17. Congrats to those of you that have your BFPs, wishing the best for all xx

@MyGardenDaisies I am sooo happy for you, been following for a while. Congratulations 🥳

Marvelftw · 03/01/2025 16:30

@MyGardenDaisies congratulations! What wonderful news to start the year!

I’m about to enter cycle 2 in a couple of days. I’ve been taking vitamin D and folic acid regularly since last month (also started some agnus cactus to preemptively help with cramping). I told myself I didn’t want to get too into my head of doing OPKs, but I have ordered some just to make sure I ovulate when the apps say I do.

MyGardenDaisies · 03/01/2025 16:16

@Sugarcube84 congratulations!! Come join me in September Due Date thread xx

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abi555 · 03/01/2025 15:49

@MyGardenDaisies congratulations!!
@sugarcube84 wow that's a lovely line for 9dpo - congrats!!

I tested yesterday and today (8 and 9dpo) because I clearly have no willpower whatsoever and both stark white BFN's. Realise its still v early so trying not to be too disheartened but it's hard not to. Although in some ways when I know I'm not pregnant I feel better as find the anxiety in TWW all consuming and prefer the first half of a cycle when it's not overtaking all my thoughts and can get on with other parts of life!

Sunshine924 · 03/01/2025 14:57

MakeMeJuno · 03/01/2025 10:44

If you had a CP I would take that as a very strong sign you are ovulating! I think false positive tests are very rare especially if you did more than one. I am trying to hold off the OPKs and just DTD every other day from now until CD18 when I will do one... they are you are super fertile after a CP because your body was primed for pregnancy so fingers crossed!!

Thanks for the encouragement @MakeMeJuno. I'm fairly sure I was pregnant and your right can two tests lie; but it was then just like a normal AF just 5 days late... Really really hope it's true about being fertile. We are going for the every other day approach too so fingers crossed it works!! It's so hard not to become consumed by this isn't it.

KittyFantastica · 03/01/2025 13:28

Tentative congrats @Sugarcube84!

I'm either 5 or 6DPO over here, and had a massive plummet in BBT this morning. I'm nowhere near AF arriving, but I didn't have a dip like this when we conceived our little boy, and it's difficult not to compare. Trying not to be disheartened.

MummyV2021 · 03/01/2025 13:19

Marie1990x · 03/01/2025 12:49

@Sugarcube84 definitely positive! Congratulations 🥰. Nice to see so many BFP’s in this group already!

@MummyV2021 that’s so frustrating. Can you call them and mention you’re still testing positive? Or even your gp? Could they do a blood test?

My GPs don't do blood tests so that's not an option sadly. I'm going to wait until Monday to test again as then it will have been a week since my scan and negative test at the hospital. All very strange!

Sugarcube84 · 03/01/2025 12:58

Thanks @Marie1990x and @MummyV2021 i’ll report back tomorrow ☺️ fingers crossed

Marie1990x · 03/01/2025 12:49

@Sugarcube84 definitely positive! Congratulations 🥰. Nice to see so many BFP’s in this group already!

@MummyV2021 that’s so frustrating. Can you call them and mention you’re still testing positive? Or even your gp? Could they do a blood test?

Sugarcube84 · 03/01/2025 12:08

Just because I’m crazy I’ve done another one, this wasn’t even fmu so I’ll hold out and do another tomorrow but this is the closest to a line I’ve got in the 5 cycles 😊

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MummyV2021 · 03/01/2025 11:58

Sugarcube84 · 03/01/2025 11:57

cant believe I’m saying this but line eyes please im 9dpo which I know is early but caved and tested… what do you think? All came up within the time frame

Eek!! I can easily see lines on both of those tests! How exciting!!

MummyV2021 · 03/01/2025 11:57

@SarahB88 @MakeMeJuno as they could see nothing on the scan on Monday and everything had passed, plus the negative urine test they were happy it was a complete miscarriage and didn't advise further testing I assume because theirs was negative. I wasn't going to test ovulation this cycle but I've just done an OPK and it's a strong positive, although assume my peak was probably yesterday if my symptoms are anything to go by. So who the heck knows!

I might do another HCG test next week to see if it's gone negative and if it hasn't speak to the hospital - they gave me a number to call for any follow up questions. I'm having no other symptoms outside of ovulation so I don't think it's an ectopic.

Sugarcube84 · 03/01/2025 11:57

cant believe I’m saying this but line eyes please im 9dpo which I know is early but caved and tested… what do you think? All came up within the time frame

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Lcc5261 · 03/01/2025 11:18

@AmazeB me! I seem to be getting a line but it’s not getting darker. Though I’ve had lots of cm that looks like ovulation cm and had the cramps, so I’ve no idea 🤷🏼‍♀️

MakeMeJuno · 03/01/2025 10:45

MummyV2021 · 03/01/2025 09:26

Morning ladies!! Firstly, congrats @MyGardenDaisies what lovely news!! So pleased for you!!

I'm on CD14 today and have been having ovulation cramping and bloating since last night so would seem my cycle hasn't been affected by my early MC at all! (I didn't realise it was classed as an MC once you hit 5 weeks, so thought it was another chemical!)

Anyway, I was still having light bleeding until yesterday (so pretty much 2 weeks in all). When the hospital did a urine PG test they said it was negative so I just went with that. However, I thought I would do my own this morning just to be sure and there's still a faint line! I didn't think it was possible to ovulate with HCG still in your system? I've also NEVER had it take this long for my tests to go fully negative! So annoying!

Did they offer to scan you again? I think if I was still having positive tests no matter how faint I would want a scan just for peace of mind. I could be wrong but I don't think it's possible to ovulate with HCG still in your system. Do you have any OPKs to see what they are showing? Wishing you all the best but please do keep an eye xx