1dpo crew

Ah really @Junip2, I’m trying not to worry it’s just so strange isn’t it! Ahhh that’s exciting to think about!

@CatLady93 ive had a little look and yes definitely a sharp pain however said it’s too early for that usually occurs in second trimester. It’s just freaking me out abit with it being in the exact same spot and just below the belly button. I guess time will tell and I am a worrier.

No shoulder pain and no it seems to come and go regardless of what I’m doing, I was wondering around Tesco when it started and I’m back home now and still on-going

Sorry @CatLady93 didn’t finish writing my sentence to you - meant to say what a lovely idea for your weekend. Putting the tree up is always exciting!

I’d also be happy to - what a lovely idea @CatLady93 . And what a lovely idea!

@KT199 our babies will be due the same time! I literally just had the same btw - a really sharp pain right where you described. And immediately I thought wtf. I think it’s normal though, I remember having all sorts of weird things like this with my first.

Ahhhh @Junip2 how exciting!! Congratulations 🙌

Oo yeah I’d happily keep in touch @CatLady93!

Got myself very worried, I’m having a sharp pain which lasts for a second or two on and off and been going on for the last hour which is just left and a tiny bit lower than my belly button! No idea what it is, but obviously Dr Google has said Ectopic so now I’m freaked out

@FlakyAquaQuoter sounds a lovely weekend, just what is needed I am sure! You’ve inspired me, I might also do some xmas crafts - it’s nice to get into the spirit of things isn’t it!

@CatLady93 totally agree with everything @FlakyAquaQuoter said! I think places like mumsnet will have you believe that so many people get early BFPs when in reality they don’t. I know with my first, I must have been around 14/15dpo before I even got a faint line. Have you got much planned for your weekend/ anything to take your mind off it?

@GirlWithTheYellowHat ah cool, so still more time and if AF hasn’t arrived then you’re still in with a chance!

@CatLady93 I did retest with a digital and to my surprise I got a BFP. Honestly shocked and feeling very very grateful. Don’t think I’ve processed it at all to be honest!

At @Junip2 if my watch is to be believed, I think I'm maybe 12 days DPO. But everything's all over the place after the medical miscarriage. I may be less than this

@Junip2 - Those positives look great! I've been using the same strips and didn't even get an evap line 😅 they're known for not being the best in terms of darkness mind.
I think it'll be a case of staying safe and warm inside over the weekend. The weather looks a bit while and I can't think of much worse than being out in it. I'll be visiting tesco (again!) For some baking ingredients and imagine we will do a nice mixture of baking, movie nights, painting and Xmas crafts!

@CatLady93 - Sorry to hear of your BFN 😔 but, not only is 10dpo early, but you've also got to factor in the type of test. In years gone by, a FRER was the test you'd be looking for a BFP on first, but recently they were discontinued and then re-released. All my googling tells me the new ones actually aren't as sensitive. So while a 10dpo is possible, it's unlikely. And finally, while you've tracked your cycle etc so likely know when ovulation occurred, you know a rough time frame, around 24 hours, and if it had been at the end of that 24 hours you've got a few more days to wait. You've got this!!!

@CatLady93 ahh I am so sorry about the BFN - did you do an early test? To reassure you, 10dpo is still so early, you might have only just implanted, so you’re still in it for this cycle! And you’ve had other symptoms too, so honestly I am still very positive for you!!
I totally know what you mean about trusting your body. I have a pretty bad relationship with mine too and never trust things will actually work. Easy to say, but try not to feel too down..your BFP could just be around the corner❤️

@GirlWithTheYellowHat sorry about the BFN :( how many dpo are you?

Tested this morning and it was BFN. I could just be mega hormonal I guess. Will test again next Friday before my night out if no AF but I'm not hopeful.

Anyone else test this morning?

Thank you ladies @Junip2 @CatLady93 definitely the kind of thing I needed to hear. I think my best tactic is gonna be the same as the TWW, keep myself busy and stop thinking 😂

I see something there @Junip2 🙈🤞 but I would always double check a cheapie!

So I did a couple of cheapies this morning with FMU. These came up in the time limit,
but I am always stressing re indents as I’ve been stung in the past. What do you guys think? I might pop to the shops today and get an early detection🤔

Morning ladies!

@FlakyAquaQuoter glad you enjoyed your wine - a well deserved treat. Sounds like you’re feeling a bit more hopeful moving into another cycle once you’ve got the finances. Any nice plans for the weekend until Monday?

@CatLady93 I admire your patience and determination to wait!!! I on the other hand can’t even go one day without waiting. 0 self control over here.

@KT199 I would say totally normal like @CatLady93 said! With my first there progression was quite slow, and my little girl is now 2, so clearly no issues there!

Awwww no way @FlakyAquaQuoter I’m so sorry your testing negative, have you done anymore tests?

As for me, I’m trying to live in the moment and be happy / excited but I’m really nervous in all honesty. I stupidly did another test last night and started to spiral a little as there was no progression from the day before. I took it at roughly the same time, the first day was on about a 6 hour hold (no idea how I managed it) and yesterday was 4 hours so just trying to tell myself it’s just that! I think for my own sanity I need to not test, but easier said than done when all you do is think the worst and look for reassurance 😟

I'm not too bad thank you, bit wobbly but awaiting the affectionately named "wtf" appointment to be booked in at the clinic after official test day on Monday. I think it's then that I'll learn of any differences in treatment plans and find out when I can go again. Financially I'll just have to make it work!

Well done for remaining strong! Can absolutely understand your impatience and I have everything crossed for you! What day do you plan to test?

Good luck! I think I'd have rather had the BFP, but in it's absence, wine will do!