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THE DINO CLUB #1

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Lila34830 · 11/11/2024 09:22

Follow up of the two following threads of TTC Baby number 1 🦕🦖

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Lila34830 · 31/01/2025 22:14

Well, it turns out I had a feeling I had not ovulated, and I was right! I did an LH test this evening, positive, so we DTD. That's it for this week, I tend to ovulate a few hours after my peak as I get ovulation pains. I guess the 2WW officially starts tomorrow for me.
Have a good evening dinos 🤍

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Lila34830 · 31/01/2025 08:39

Gemmaemilyx · 31/01/2025 08:37

@Lila34830 oooh at least you’re ahead of the game and don’t have to wait longer! Keep us updated! I found this time I had no symptoms whatsoever in the TWW, apart from the night before the positive I got pinching on my left side. But otherwise the whole sickness, needing to pee more etc didn’t start until I was around 7 weeks. So if there are no symptoms I’d certainly take it as a good sign in my experience (even though I was adamant it wasn’t my month due to lack of symptoms) . Keep us updated on the TWW! So excited that hopefully this is your month 🙏🩷

I will do !!! I will not take nausea as a sign because I've had horrendous acid reflux recently and I feel nauseous with it 😂 so that won't be a sign for me !
Hopefully it's a successful month ! I shall let you know !

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Gemmaemilyx · 31/01/2025 08:37

@Lila34830 oooh at least you’re ahead of the game and don’t have to wait longer! Keep us updated! I found this time I had no symptoms whatsoever in the TWW, apart from the night before the positive I got pinching on my left side. But otherwise the whole sickness, needing to pee more etc didn’t start until I was around 7 weeks. So if there are no symptoms I’d certainly take it as a good sign in my experience (even though I was adamant it wasn’t my month due to lack of symptoms) . Keep us updated on the TWW! So excited that hopefully this is your month 🙏🩷

Lila34830 · 31/01/2025 07:23

@Clara202 I'm so sorry to hear this ! I honestly managed to regulate my period but I have severe pcos and one month (the girls are witness here!) I think I tested for 24 days straight before I could have a positive LH test and it was absolutely draining ! If I were you I would push for some help from the GP (although we know how unhelpful they can be ...!) good luck girl keep us updated.

@Gemmaemilyx I'm glad you have the possibility to scan yourself and honestly so would I if I was working in this field !! My friend had bleeding through her whole pregnancy and apparently it was normal. Must be nerve wrecking ..!

I said I wouldn't LH test but I did all yesterday and this morning just in case I had a late peak but definitely looks like I must have ovulated on Tuesday or Wednesday 😅 so I am now 2 or 3 dpo. I had not missed the TWW at all. But weirdly I'm quite relaxed (so far) probably because I know I won't do it again if it doesn't work this month. I'll take a break and chill for a bit.

What a journey !

Xxx

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Gemmaemilyx · 30/01/2025 21:08

@Lila34830 I’m good thankyou! Had more bleeding on Tuesday so WFH on Wednesday to keep rested but spotting again today. Luckily my manager is amazing. I’m very fortunate to be able to scan myself as I’ve said before but the anxiety of it all is horrendous still.

oooh yes maybe you had just missed the peak! I found that I had EWCM which finished the day of ovulation (day after peak)! Fingers crossed for you!! 🤞🏼🩷

Clara202 · 30/01/2025 18:59

@Lila34830 my first 3 cycles my luteal phase was 9 days, the last one was 11 days and I’m now on day 14. I’m not sure why or if it’s a good or bad thing. My periods are strange also, I think I mentioned it here before but they’re so light and dark now rather than the typical red I was used to pre pill. I think I’ll have to just book some private scans now and see if anything is up.

Lila34830 · 30/01/2025 17:33

@Clara202 you could have ovulated later than predicted? There's no late period only late ovulation as the luteal phase never changes !

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Clara202 · 30/01/2025 16:23

@Lila34830 I’ve been testing since day 11 and stark white unfortunately

Lila34830 · 30/01/2025 15:43

Gemmaemilyx · 30/01/2025 15:42

@Lila34830 how exciting!!!! What cycle day are you? Keeping my fingers crossed for you!! Xxx

Thank you lovely !
How are you ??

I am CD19, I usually peak around 18/19 so I think I missed the peak, unless it's tomorrow but I wouldn't think so since I have no more EWCM!

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Gemmaemilyx · 30/01/2025 15:42

@Lila34830 how exciting!!!! What cycle day are you? Keeping my fingers crossed for you!! Xxx

Lila34830 · 30/01/2025 15:21

I did an ovulation test just in case and it's very much negative. So I guess we did time it right and I ovulated as predicted by the sonographer ! We shall see...!

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Lila34830 · 30/01/2025 12:43

Omg fingers crossed for you let us know @Clara202 !!

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Clara202 · 30/01/2025 12:41

Lila34830 · 30/01/2025 12:33

@Clara202 thank you girl, how many dpo are you ???

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Lila34830 · 30/01/2025 12:33

@Clara202 thank you girl, how many dpo are you ???

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Clara202 · 30/01/2025 12:27

@Lila34830 I would stop testing but DTD, you have nothing to lose by giving it another go.
@Toppstileslover you'll be missed but after all that I think a break sounds like just the ticket. Look after yourself and we’ll see you on the other side. I’m sure I’ll still be here, wondering when I’m ovulating or as I am now, wondering where on earth my period is 😵‍💫

Lila34830 · 30/01/2025 10:50

@Toppstileslover you will be missed in the group, but as you said, mental health over anything else 💕 take care of yourself ! 🤍🤍🤍 have a week deserved rest, I hope you're ok, sending you hugs and Dino love xxxxx

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Toppstileslover · 30/01/2025 10:43

I personally think we can send ourselves absolutely crazy with testing, DTD around the time, the sperm lives for 5 days and it’s all pot luck whether they meet. You know you were about to release an egg (which can still take a few days / hours) and it needs to travel down the tubes etc.

you’ve done all the things! 💖💖💖 staying sane the most important thing!

my bleeding is stopping now after my surgery. So im going to delete MN / anything baby related for a bit until I get my period again (4-8 weeks) and hopefully I’ll feel more enthused about procreation once more. Will check in on dinos then! Sending so much sparkly ttc baby dust 💖💖💖

Lila34830 · 30/01/2025 09:46

Thanks so much for your advice @KT199 I think we will DTD today just in case as you said, and that will be plenty then !. I feel like I probs missed the peak as I didn't test for 2 days but equally I am questioning whether the peak will happen later as my cycles aren't regular ! Arggg.
I think I'll trust the universe, and my body, as this morning I have creamy discharge (tmi always) and no more EWCM.
I hope you're ok 🤍
I got married last June, you will have the time of your life, it was the best day of my life !

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KT199 · 30/01/2025 09:41

Lila34830 · 30/01/2025 08:30

Morning dinos 🩶
I hope everybody's well, recovering, growing, taking a step back, I feel like end of 2024'has thrown massive curveballs at all of us.

I wanted your opinion. As you know this month I had not planned on ttc and then on cycle day 16 (Monday) went for an ultrasound and the lady said I was about to ovulate within 24/48 hours as I had a dominant follicle measuring 15mm.
We DTD Monday and Tuesday. Decided not to yesterday as technically sperm regenerates every 3 days + 2 DTD sessions would be enough. BUT.
Monday morning I had ONE ovulation test left (because I had not planned on tracking) and I took it and it was negative. Quite low, my usual LH level around 0.2/0.3
However Monday Tuesday I had plenty of ECWM.
I decided to order more tests given that we are giving it a shot this month. I received them yesterday evening. Went to test my LH and it was almost stark white ! Same this morning! I wonder whether I missed the peak on the strips (but obvs DTD at the right time) or whether my follicle is still growing. OBVS none of you can tell me, but I don't know whether to DTD and keep on tracking, or whether to trust the EWCM and timeline. I feel like peeing on strips for another 2/3 days is going to trigger me tbh as I don't want to approach this month like this. I also have no more EWCM, it stopped yesterday, leading me to think I ovulated.
This is probably the longest message I've ever written on here I'm so sorry for the novel but I just wanted to know what the Dino club would do ☺️
Sending you all love 🤍

Morning lovely,

I think if you thought it was a sign and to TTC and did cover when the sonographer said I would trust the universe in that, that was your window of opportunity if you don’t want to get too caught up in the peeing on a stick. Your other option is to just DTD today “just in case” and cut the peeing on a stick out to save the stress too. I’d probably go with the latter.

I think testing and not finding a peak is most likely what’s happened as your LH surge is meant to be 24-48 hours before your ovulation. I’ve read a lot around follicles and once dominant they grow 2mm a day and can ovulate from around 18mm but could also grow a little more. But this would still be in line with what you was told on Monday. Fingers crossed for you 🫶

Lila34830 · 30/01/2025 08:30

Morning dinos 🩶
I hope everybody's well, recovering, growing, taking a step back, I feel like end of 2024'has thrown massive curveballs at all of us.

I wanted your opinion. As you know this month I had not planned on ttc and then on cycle day 16 (Monday) went for an ultrasound and the lady said I was about to ovulate within 24/48 hours as I had a dominant follicle measuring 15mm.
We DTD Monday and Tuesday. Decided not to yesterday as technically sperm regenerates every 3 days + 2 DTD sessions would be enough. BUT.
Monday morning I had ONE ovulation test left (because I had not planned on tracking) and I took it and it was negative. Quite low, my usual LH level around 0.2/0.3
However Monday Tuesday I had plenty of ECWM.
I decided to order more tests given that we are giving it a shot this month. I received them yesterday evening. Went to test my LH and it was almost stark white ! Same this morning! I wonder whether I missed the peak on the strips (but obvs DTD at the right time) or whether my follicle is still growing. OBVS none of you can tell me, but I don't know whether to DTD and keep on tracking, or whether to trust the EWCM and timeline. I feel like peeing on strips for another 2/3 days is going to trigger me tbh as I don't want to approach this month like this. I also have no more EWCM, it stopped yesterday, leading me to think I ovulated.
This is probably the longest message I've ever written on here I'm so sorry for the novel but I just wanted to know what the Dino club would do ☺️
Sending you all love 🤍

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Lila34830 · 28/01/2025 21:35

Omg @Toppstileslover 😭 bless you ! Sending you big hugs and all my strength. Looks like you're sharing the extra shit time with @kt199 Hang in there girl, don't pressure yourself for TTC . One thing at a time ! And take care of yourself 🩷
Thank you for the " popping follicle" (sounds so funny said like this). We only DTD yesterday and today, as I don't have it in me this month either. I'll definitely be happy
To have a break until summer if this cycle doesn't work.

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Toppstileslover · 28/01/2025 21:05

Awww hey girls and my extra special girl @KT199 💖💖 who is having an extra shit time

I had surgery last Wednesday after an horrendous local experience and as @KT199 counselling oh my goodness the hormones are all over the place and I cannot stop crying! It’s awful!

I have to wait another two weeks then do a pregnancy test for a BFN, then wait for the period cycle to come back. Can’t even think about DTD to be honest. At least everyone I tell has had a MC which has made me feel slightly better (but don’t know how people function crying all the time 😂)

sending sooooo much luck to that popping follicle @Lila34830 💖💖💖💖

Lila34830 · 28/01/2025 13:12

@KT199 I can't wait for this to be resolved for you too. I'm so glad you have an amazing wedding to look forward to, with some drink involved !
Keep us updated and take care of yourself 🩷

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KT199 · 28/01/2025 13:11

Awwww it’s so good to hear from you @littlebluu & @Lila34830 fingers crossed for you this cycle!!

Ahhh thank you everyone ❤️ I’m very excited about getting married I just want this horrendous experience over with.

My scan has showed retained products so feeling pretty frustrated in all honesty, but there’s a plan in place now for a second surgery Friday and I’ve had the tablets in the meantime to see if my body will react to them but doesn’t appear to have done anything. After a lot of crying and begging they agreed I didn’t have to wait 3 weeks after the surgery to be checked, so booked me in on Wednesday to have a look so fingers crossed this resolves it.

Lila34830 · 28/01/2025 12:42

Hi girlies, I missed this chat !

I hope everybody is ok 🩷 I'm literally never on there appart from when someone messages on here 🦕
I had a scan yesterday and it showed a dominant follicle on my right ovary that was ready to pop and release an egg. (I wasn't really going to the scan for that reason but I thought it's a sign!)So we decided to DTD yesterday and tomorrow against all odds. If it doesn't take we will wait until after summer!

@KT199 hope your scan was ok ? Congratulations on your wedding ! 🩷🩷🩷

@littlebluu looks like we are in the same boat this month ! Let me know how you are getting on!

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