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THE DINO CLUB #1

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Lila34830 · 11/11/2024 09:22

Follow up of the two following threads of TTC Baby number 1 🦕🦖

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Lila34830 · 13/12/2024 09:42

Happy Friday ladies 🩷
Haven't tested yet as I felt a bit poorly last night and this morning I had to rush to work as I was late so I shall let you know this evening or tomorrow !
Tomorrow AF is due so I guess a test will be more relevant too now !

I also wanted to touch base on something, has any of you felt very conflicting emotions at the thought of being pregnant ? As in pure joy but also worries such as finances (we are comfortable so idk why I worry that much), or the thought of not being just the two of you with your partner ever again and being scared of it ? Or thinking would I be strong enough to handle a baby ? I have beaten myself up for having thoughts like this popping up in my mind thinking that I am a bad person. And I just wanted to get it out there as I know our group is a judgement free club.

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KT199 · 13/12/2024 09:33

Morning ladies, thank god it’s Friday!!

@Lila34830 have you tested this morning?! Holding out hope over here for you 🫶🏻

Gemmaemilyx · 12/12/2024 18:31

@Lila34830 oh no I didn’t realise you were totally out of them 🤣🤣🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼 when you do one xx

Toppstileslover · 12/12/2024 10:36

Thank you ladies 🩷 I don’t think it’s sunk in! I wanted to come and tell you immediately when I did the FRER one last Saturday but I know these things aren’t always guaranteed and have to manage my expectations!

So this month if you remember I didn’t track at all because I wanted a month off / we were on holiday on the week before Flo thought I would be ovulating (which I thought was always a bit late). I only did the CB Smiley tracking the month before and was much earlier! We (very unusually!) DTD every day - OH is convinced it was this extra effort.

In short, don’t know how many dpo. I was 3 days before I was due on AF… so about 12? Maybe you should try tomorrow? ✨✨✨✨✨✨ really want this for you!

KT199 · 12/12/2024 10:07

@Lila34830 yeah im hoping that by seeing the EPU they will see this kinda thing all the time and maybe not be to brash! I actually cried when he told me the test was negative, I didn’t understand how it could be and obviously thought in that moment everything was over and the spotting was about to change to normal flow😢

@Gemmaemilyx thank you that story is actually reassuring as I wondered what would happen when chances are my scan won’t show anything as I’ll only be 5+1 on scan day from ovu and 5+5 based on LMP.

@Toppstileslover So pleased to see your two lines!!! Congratulations!!

Lila34830 · 12/12/2024 10:05

Gemmaemilyx · 12/12/2024 10:00

@Lila34830 eekk that’s willpower!!! Hope you see 2 pink lines when you manage to test 🤞🏼🤞🏼. Xx

Well it's not so much will power as my tests haven't arrived 🤣🤣🤣
I'll let you know. I will try and hold off until tomorrow if I can !

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Gemmaemilyx · 12/12/2024 10:00

@Lila34830 eekk that’s willpower!!! Hope you see 2 pink lines when you manage to test 🤞🏼🤞🏼. Xx

Lila34830 · 12/12/2024 09:57

You're all so nice 🩷
I have not tested girls, I am 10 dpo I think, day 30 of my cycle and AF due Saturday. I am waiting for the pre mom tests and holding my wee 😂

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HE93C · 12/12/2024 09:44

My notifications arent working on here so I keep missing things but sounds like some exciting times for some of you dinos.

@Lila34830 got everything crossed for you this month, you’re not out until your period arrives don’t forget! Xx

Gemmaemilyx · 12/12/2024 09:15

@KT199 and I feel your pain with the comment. My GP asked me to ring her when I had another positive test so I did and she asked why I was ringing… because you told me to 🤣🤣 I went on to say my tests are getting darker and this didn’t happen with my CPs so I’m optimistic. Her reply was ‘yes but remember it’s still reeeeeallly early’ 🙄

sorry just seen your comment before of no more bleeding! That’s amazing news!! My friend had brown spotting about 5/6weeks and she’s now 14 weeks and all good!! Xx

@Toppstileslover AHHHH amazing news!!! Congratulations 🩷🩷🩷 so happy for you! Xxx

@Lila34830 did you test this morning ?! 👀 xx

Lila34830 · 12/12/2024 09:13

@Toppstileslover OMGOMGOMG ! So happy to read this in between two work emails.
Couldn't be happier for you !!!
These are such strong lines ! How many dpo were you when you found out ?
Massive congratulations, the Dino club is getting smaller and smaller but the Dino mum club is getting bigger !
And thanks so much for your nice wishes, I'm sure it will be my turn at some point ! 🩷

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Gemmaemilyx · 12/12/2024 09:11

@KT199 oh no what an idiot! I had a scan for my daughter due to blood & cramping. I was 5w 2 days from LMP but actually only 4 weeks 5 days from ovulation. Went for my scan and deemed it as pregnancy with unknown location. They sent me for bloods and said to come back in a week for another scan.

the bloods came back with hcg and progesterone and they told me my hcg fits with the scan and it was only early days and my progesterone levels showed my progesterone was supporting the pregnancy well. I then went back 2 days later for repeats to ensure a double in hcg and then back for a scan where they saw a little baby.

So from my experience don’t panic if they don’t see anything I’m sure they will suggest bloods and get you to come back and the bloods really helped me relax 🥰🥰 good luck I hope all goes well!! Has the bleeding stopped? Xxx

Toppstileslover · 12/12/2024 08:22

My darling dinos I’m so sorry….you have been so amazingly supportive and I just disappeared! Battling internal trauma and cannot believe it itis 😂😂😂

So I was in my TWW
then I was going out last Saturday so I thought I’d do a FRER as just felt a bit different….Got one of my tests below, told my gorgeous hubby straight away (but he was like you can’t tell anyone! So I didn’t 😂 — not sure he understands Dino club anyway) then I really freaked out and ended up going for 30 mins

then I went and bought 3 more tests
I’ve done 2 more
AF was due on Tuesday so it’s still early days
just done another one this morning
trying to wait 7 days late to do the clear blue weeks one

also been offered a new job (in my company!) so I was sat there in meetings all week worrying about that as it’s all a bit conflicted! I can see my boss texting me whilst writing this! So that’s my only thing but I’m 37, always prioritised my career and I can’t put it off any longer. We really want a family and this is so special!

I’am still a bit nervous that it might go away as it’s AF due week! So I’m going to lurk here for a bit longer whilst I process it! It is very much wanted and I am beyond excited just conflicted and also always worry things go wrong.

@Lila34830 you deserve this so much sis, you are the most supportive ever

@KT199 sooooooo pleased for you!!!!!!

sending every good vibe I have to you guys this week for the stickiness for them to stay 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷

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Lila34830 · 12/12/2024 08:12

KT199 · 12/12/2024 08:07

@Lila34830 oh wow you’ve had bad luck with tests this month 😂😂 it least there’s still hope as you’ve not been given an answer yet!!

@Heartypandaa Thank you doing my best to try not to get too caught up in it.

@Lila34830 @Gemmaemilyx thanks ladies, I haven’t had anymore but rang my GP and expected him to just be like “it’s normal stop worrying” instead I had to go in and he has referred me to EPU for a scan to check the location (even though I’ve tried to explain I’m too early for a scan) and he also gave me a mild heart attack as he made me do a pregnancy test and said it was negative. Brought it over to me and I was like I can see a line coming through, so he blamed the lighting when he just hadn’t left it long enough. I was looking for some reassurance and all he could say to me was “misscarriage is really common this early on” so my head is a little fried but what will be will be and only time will tell!

Oh my god I'm so sorry you had to deal with such an incompetent human being. This is absolutely unacceptable, but on the + side, you will have an early scan and be taken care of by people who actually know things about pregnancy. I noticed you said him, so I guess your GP is a man. I have recently asked to be taken care of by women only, just because of this type of uneducated / uninterested doctors who aren't bothered / not knowledgeable about women conditions.
Let us know how you get on. From what I read spotting is usually very normal at this stage, try and not panic too much 🩷 sending you love and support darling x

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KT199 · 12/12/2024 08:07

@Lila34830 oh wow you’ve had bad luck with tests this month 😂😂 it least there’s still hope as you’ve not been given an answer yet!!

@Heartypandaa Thank you doing my best to try not to get too caught up in it.

@Lila34830 @Gemmaemilyx thanks ladies, I haven’t had anymore but rang my GP and expected him to just be like “it’s normal stop worrying” instead I had to go in and he has referred me to EPU for a scan to check the location (even though I’ve tried to explain I’m too early for a scan) and he also gave me a mild heart attack as he made me do a pregnancy test and said it was negative. Brought it over to me and I was like I can see a line coming through, so he blamed the lighting when he just hadn’t left it long enough. I was looking for some reassurance and all he could say to me was “misscarriage is really common this early on” so my head is a little fried but what will be will be and only time will tell!

Heartypandaa · 12/12/2024 07:06

Lila34830 · 12/12/2024 07:05

@Heartypandaa omg it doesn't even stop there. I had ONE test left yesterday, it was a clear blue digital ultra early, and guess what - THE BATTERY WAS DEAD 😂 it never lit up no matter how long I put it in urine.
This is it now, receiving my premom today thankfully but I feel like this month just isn't it 🤣

@KT199 I hope you're ok 🩶

Girl the universe is conspiring against you haha. Or maybe telling you to wait a little bit longer 😇

Lila34830 · 12/12/2024 07:05

@Heartypandaa omg it doesn't even stop there. I had ONE test left yesterday, it was a clear blue digital ultra early, and guess what - THE BATTERY WAS DEAD 😂 it never lit up no matter how long I put it in urine.
This is it now, receiving my premom today thankfully but I feel like this month just isn't it 🤣

@KT199 I hope you're ok 🩶

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Gemmaemilyx · 11/12/2024 23:05

@KT199 how are you doing now? Hopefully the brown blood is the last you’ll see of it 🤞🏼🩷 xxx

Heartypandaa · 11/12/2024 18:59

@KT199 oh dear, you would think that the bfp is the end of the roller coaster, sadly it's not, i know from experience the anxiety doenst leave, but as terrifying as it is, there s absolutely nothing you can do about it. Stressing will only make it worse, only time will tell. I know for sure that brown spotting isn't always a bad sign, many women have healthy pregnancies after spotting, as long as it s not red, dont worry. Listen to your body and seek help maybe a scan will reassure you. Wishing it all works out for you.

@Lila34830 first LH tests and now hcg test trolling u 😆 im exited for you really, you are obviously still early on ur dpo, hopefully u get you bfp soon so u can go and creat the dino mum club already 🥰

Lila34830 · 11/12/2024 14:20

Keep us updated @KT199 ! Sending you love, deep breath, brown blood is often nothing. Might be the egg burrying itself a little deeper xxx

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Gemmaemilyx · 11/12/2024 14:19

@KT199 oh no! Hopefully it’s just some old implantation blood if it’s brown!! Keep us updated and rest up 🩷🩷

KT199 · 11/12/2024 13:44

I’ve had brown spotting today when wiping urgh 😔 trying to keep calm but easier said than done. I’ve had a little cramping too but nothing really painful. Feeling so anxious even though it could be normal and regardless it’s completely out of my control x

Lila34830 · 11/12/2024 08:31

curliegirlie · 11/12/2024 08:26

Yes, Clear Blues do seem to be rubbish, especially for early testing. They just seem to rely on brand recognition to keep them going I reckon. I'd stick to red dye tests...Good luck, what DPO are you now?

They truly are, it's annoying that they are the only early detection ones!
I am 9 dpo today (I think) x

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curliegirlie · 11/12/2024 08:26

Yes, Clear Blues do seem to be rubbish, especially for early testing. They just seem to rely on brand recognition to keep them going I reckon. I'd stick to red dye tests...Good luck, what DPO are you now?

Lila34830 · 11/12/2024 07:56

Thank you girls 🩷 pre mom tests ordered for next cycle 😅

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