2dpo today, company welcome :)

Really sorry @Confusedmermaid1 hoping next month is a better month for you x

@lockdownbabyx that's a good line progression! Really sorry for all your losses and totally understandable about the anxiety. Have you told anyone IRL yet?

@Confusedmermaid1 really sorry to hear that! So annoying timing wise with the test too. Fingers crossed for this cycle!

@lockdownbabyx that line progression is looking good!! Keep us posted with any other tests. I don't think there's any way to escape the anxiety after any number of losses is there 😔 sending lots of baby dust your way and hope this ones a sticky one for you!

Hi Ladies, same for me this morning 11 DPO AND bfn. Feeling really heavy down below since last night feel AF is on its way.

@MummyV2021 literally 10 mins after posting AF had arrived 🙄 it’s so annoying because I checked before ‘wasting’ a test 🙈
Keeping my fingers crossed for you!

@pcbrb really sorry to hear that! Fingers crossed this next cycle is your cycle!

@Confusedmermaid1 I'm in a similar boat to you... 11DPO today, due AF Monday. Got a BFN again this morning so will probably not test again until Monday now! I know I'm still not out but it feels like I am!

10 dpo and bfn on an easy@ home this morning
Premom says my period is due today but I think it’s reacted to the fact my last cycle was unusually short.. my other app says Monday
Going to try and wait until Monday if AF doesn’t come over the weekend but I’ve been having worse cramps so I’m not overly hopeful
Good luck to everyone still waiting and sorry to those who are in the next cycle.. hopefully we get our bfp soon!

Really sorry lovely, hope you get your bfp next month. This ttc is so unpredictable. Hope you get to do something nice for yourself this weekend x

Thanks! But was not implantation related ☹️

I'm out :( AF showed this morning so my new cycle starts today! I will stay around anyways, to see all the BFO that I know will be in this group 🥰🥰🥰 good luck to the ones that are still not out ✨🤞🏼

Got my fingers crossed for you @pcbrb hope it's implantation related x

Interesting, I might try that next cycle if this cycle isn't my time! Although I swear even during ovulation my cervix was low and firm... I can always feel it very easily! But maybe I'm not being consistent enough to spot the differences

@MummyV2021 this is the first cycle checking my cervix, and yes, I think I have noticed the changes.. directly in the beginning after the period it was really low and firm.. I could feel it without even introducing my whole finger.. then it kept going higher and higher until Ovulation day, which was super high super soft and open.. when I say super soft I mean really extreme super soft.. after that it came lower to a medium position and medium softness and the last two days it has been between medium and high in the position.. a little bit open though

I would recommend to check always at the same time and every day if you're checking for the first time, so you can compare what means high, medium, low, soft and hard for you.. and I've noticed that is better to check in the evening, cause in the early morning the cervix is anyways always high

Don't apologise for being lengthy! This is a safe space to share this stuff! Sounds promising for sure, will keep fingers crossed for you! Do you notice if your cervix changes position at all? I've read all sorts about cervix position and firmness at different stages in the cycle, but I swear mine never changes!!

So hard, it really is! I feel like it's consuming my thoughts at the moment! Not being as productive as I could be at work that's for sure! I'm still having pulling sensations/mild cramps and all seem to be on the left hand side (which I think is the side I ovulated on... I should have made a note!) but it could just be my mind playing tricks on me!

Well, with my background, I would think that AF is more possible.. but just time will tell..

Background: this is my third cycle off Nuva Ring.. the first cycle was 24 days length, the second 21 days length.. today I'm in CD24 🫠 the first two cycles I did not control ovulation so I don't know how kind my LP is, if I have a normal LP, AF should come on Monday or Tuesday.. but if I have a short LP it could come anytime, including tomorrow for example, what would make my cycle 24 days exactly as long as the first one.. but as I have read, implantation bleeding can also happen in 9 dpo, which I am today, so I'll have to wait..

Also another fact, maybe TMI, so girls, beware and don't read further if you don't minke TMI 😂😂 the last two times before AF I got one day of spotting, beginning light and then getting darker until AF was fully there.. when I checked my cervix with my fingers after some hours of spotting, they came out with blood, and so I confirmed am AF would come the next day.. now I checked my cervix and it just came out with CM.. but this was the first spot that I had, not even in my underwear but in the paper while wiping.. if I wipe again in some hours and see some pink blush I'll check my cervix again and see how it looks like.. but as I said, i suspect AF is coming! But I hope it is really the implantation bleeding 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼

And sorry for the long text!

@pcbrb Would it be possible it could be implantation bleeding?

@ThatSnugSwan oh yes it's really tough! I just wiped from peeing and saw a super super light pink shade :/ I was wondering if AF was coming because of the lower back pain I got today plus a little bit of cramping.. I guess she is making her entrance ☹️

8/9 dpo for me today, Af was meant to be due in 2 days but I actually ovulated 4 days later than usual so think Af isnt due now till early next week. Of course Ive been testing because the ocd part of me cant help it. All bfn. Im getting the very odd tender sensation in my boobs but then the next morning fine again. Today I noticed thick white CM after having a wee so hoping its a good sign. Floored with a bad cold at the minute too so not sure if the headache is from been sick or is it a symptom because in my first two pregnancies headaches were my first sign. No point to this post really just need to get it all out, this ttc is so tough mentally isnt it

It was another BFN for me this morning 🥺 10/11DPO so trying to stay positive as know there's still time

@lockdownbabyx can definitely see a line there!!

Thanks a lot @lockdownbabyx and yes is not a lot like a lot is staying in my inderwear, but every time I wipe, there always CM there, sometimes a lot 😅 sometimes just some of it.. and in my underwear just a little bit! Thanks for sharing :)

And again for reassurance, I also see a vvvfl like a light shadow 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 so I'm wishing to see a progression through the next days ♥️✨

Yes definitely darker and easier to see! Fingers crossed! Eek!! Xx