TTC after loss part 6

Welcome newbies but sorry you find yourself here. Sorry to those who are having a confusing cycle and for AF arriving, it’s just so disheartening isn’t it.
New cycle might be the one though keeping fingers crossed for everyone xxx
cycle day 9 here haven’t been testing looks or bbt last 2 months as I’m finding it so stressful, hoping a lucky week of DTD regularly will do the trick. Would be the best Christmas prezzie though xx

@Heartypandaa AF has arrived in full force this evening 🥺
so I’m feeling a little deflated right now. I totally understand where you’re coming from though. I used to have very very long cycles with my PCOS, the only reason they’re more regular now is due to medication.
have you had any tests?

Hello ladies hope you are doing better than i am 🥺

@Ncl31 keep testing you still have a chance if no af sign 🤞🏻
@Confusedmermaid1 that's promising girl baby dust to you then, keep us updated

I'm feeling rubish CD29 not knowing where i stand is so hard. And the days are going so so so so slow! Am i the only one?

14DPO and BFN.
no sign of AF yet, hope it arrives soon. DH is away from 29/11 for 3 weeks so we will miss next cycle.
it’ll give me chance to relax around Christmas and enjoy a few festivities I guess

Fingers crossed for you 🙏

7dpo and I am trying to be more chill this month but the craziness has already gotten to me and I have already tested. I have had some cramps, bad indigestion and boobs are slightly sore.
Although the test is negative, I feel like it isnt completely white if I zoom in 🤦
Going to try to hold off testing again until 9dpo

CD22/6dpo

Should be feeling more optimistic than last month as my last cycle was only 21 days with spotting starting at around 5dpo (ovulated later this month) and I’m trying to stay positive but I’ve been so crampy so I’m sure AF will be arriving soon 🙈 I even had a dream that I wasn’t pregnant this month last night 😅

DH is the eternal optimist and he’s got a ‘good feeling’ apparently so let’s hope he’s got enough optimism for the both of us 😂

I’m due to get my NHS fertility appointment next month (been on the waiting list since August) so I’m just going to wait and get the hycosy done by them.

@Notsure31 sorry to hear that, it sounds like you’ve had a tough time!

What cycle day is everyone and how are we all feeling?

I’m a long time lurker but thought it might be the right time to join the thread. To explain my story I had 3 back to back losses in 2021 and no living children. My losses were with a previous partner, we broke up shortly after. I spent a bit of time healing before meeting my current partner. I already had a diagnosis of Hashimotos before my pregnancies. My losses were a missed miscarriage, chemical pregnancy and blighted ovum in that order, the blighted ovum was tested and it was a chromosome issue but neither me nor my ex partner had the translocation. I’ve had all the recurrent miscarriage testing locally and also had a referral to Tommys in 2022 where I had additional NK cell testing and as part of the Cerm trial which found endometritis. I took part in the full trial and suspect I had the placebo, however I’ve recently had a repeat hysteroscopy for this locally which can back clear. Me and my current partner are now going to ttc next cycle. He had a basic sperm test through the GP, he has no children or history of ttc but is aware of my worries due to my difficulties, this came back fine and he has a high sperm count. We have both been taking proceive and additional omega 3 and co-q10 and vitamin D. We have both been aware and trying to make lifestyle changes. The break has probably done me good but I’m so anxious about ttc again and having more losses. I also conceived first cycle every time last time and I know it’s irrational because it’s normal for it to take a little while but I know it will send me worrying if I don’t conceive first cycle as I previously always have. Is anyone in a similar boat? I also had a diagnosis of endometriosis when I was 19 (now 32), I’ve never had another flare up but recently have been having more heavy periods and more painful, I’m under gynaecology because of my losses but I’ve been struggling to get them to investigate this past having the hysteroscopy.

I’m 34. So I’ve had all my hormones
checked with the GP and everything was normal and progesterone level suggests I ovulate.
There isn’t anywhere local by me that does hyfosy but found a clinic about an hour away that does it for £495 but will only offer this test if you’ve had an initial consultation and an ultrasound which is another £200.
its so expensive :(

Yes it was private.

Most big fertility clinics with a private side will let you have 1

Just type private hyfosy and your nearest city into Google

Had it done at a fertility clinic

Def worth doing

Dya mind me asking if your under or over 35 ?

Additionally - i really rate hertility health

Have used them twice

150 gbp very well spent

Theyll do many hormone bloods for you and amh - ovarian reserve

@worldwidetravel2017 no did you book this private? where did you get it done?
I’ve been referred to fertility clinic but wait is up to 12 months to be seen

Hello ladies,
Hope to join you all, i had a MC earlier this year and a chemical last month... been on this journey for a year...

Currently my cycle is a mess after the cp dont know if i ovulated or not so just waiting for the next cycle to start.

I really sympathize with what @Figtree11 said on her old post, almost a year since first lost, should be here with my 3 month old baby... regretting not having starting ttc earlier really.

Hi

Have you ever paid for a private hyfosy to get your tubes checked ?

That would be my advice

We had an early miscarriage last yr

But even so - this year - a private hyfosy showed blocked tubes

Nhs wait was 4 months here

So we paid 515 gbp for a private 1

Have u had a hyfosy to check your tubes ?

Thinking of booking a private scan with window to the womb to see if there’s any reason why I'm not able to get pregnant. Anyone else had one?

My temp is still high today and I just tried to feel my cervix which is so high I can barely touch it.
So who knows. Currently 12DPO with AF due Tuesday.

welcome @Reyttc im sorry y our find yourself here.
its difficult but so many of us are in the same boat and this group is very supportive.

Please can I join? To cut a long story short I had a mmc 15 months ago and we’ve been trying to get pregnant again ever since. We had a potential chemical in June where we had a positive test but then my period came a week late.

Just started initial fertility tests with the NHS, so far we’ve confirmed I’m ovulating and my progesterone levels and thyroid levels are all fine. My partners results have also come back as normal too so now I’m on a waiting list for further testing with the NHS fertility clinic.

Today is either 2dpo or 3dpo as I had peak LH tests 24 hours apart, both the exact same measurement on Premom… I think I’m more likely 2dpo as I’m guessing my true peak would have been the morning of the second day but I didn’t test until later.

Thanks. I’m okay. I think I knew I was letting myself run away with it so wasn’t too disappointed this morning.

Whiter than white this morning. I’ve had nasty evaps before on those tests so I don’t know why I still use them.

I see it very faintly in the first picture. I hope it's good news for you this morning x