TTC May 2023 💖 Previous MC March 2023 (thread 5)

@Paws4thought oh wonderful news!!! sounds like you've got what I have aswell and hopefully they might monitor it for you. I would push them too say how anxious it's making you. But delighted to see this xx

@xxcxdonxx i hyped myself up that nothing had changed so was delighted when I saw how much little blob had grown. Also, these early symptoms can come and go yesterday. I felt like normal, but today, I feel like the tiredness has hit me like a tonne of bricks. Xx

Oh @Paws4thought what a day you have had! So pleased to see everything was well. I wonder if they will suggest more regular scans with EPAU when you see them tomorrow to monitor the growth of it.

Amazing @Jadeypie , crazy how much develops over a few days! Is that you until
your 12 week scan then?

I’ve still not called EPAU about mine, I don’t know why i’m nervous to do it. I think it’s the thought of being back in there 😟
I don’t feel very pregnant the past day or so and I am worried somethings happened.

@Paws4thought really plsd to see this! I think these bleeds happen more than ppl realise as somerimes you dont actually bleed with them, it just heals itself. I bet your so releived 🙂
@Jadeypie i had mine measured each week only cos i had weekly scans. Then one scan, poooffff , it was no where to be seen lol

@Jadeypie @supertrooper101 Just got back, heartbeat still there, I honestly can't believe it, they said there's a bleed on left of uterus and sac is on right so hopefully won't affect each other 🤞 I've got nhs scan tomo so will try to find out more then and hopefully will all still be OK x

@Supertrooper101 oh well that makes sence about implantation because I sure did feel it with this one. She said it's not big and not to worry so I'm not. Xx

@Paws4thought thinking of you xx

@Jadeypie sub heamatomo or something. I had one for weeks. Kept growing, shrinking, spliting. No consistency at all. Did eventually dissapear though. One scan lady said it can be trauma to the womb when it inplants deep. Then i think when the placenta takes over things change in there so it begins to heal. It was sumat like that lol i took ala for mine.
@Paws4thought such a hard time for you, you must be so stressed 😔 keep us updated 🤞

@Jadeypie they didn't see anything on Wednesday scan, not sure if they can just develop though, I hadn't even considered I'd miscarry naturally cause all the others were no heart beat seen on scan so assumed this would be same x

@Paws4thought awww keeping everything crossed for you!! They said to me I have one of those bleeds in the womb like a bruise crnt think what it's called. You might have one of them maybe? Sorry your going through this xxx

@Jadeypie congratulations! You must be relieved 😌

I've got a private scan this afternoon, not holding out much hope, I lost some big blood clots last night, it turned to brown spotting pretty quickly but just can't help thinking the worst.

Just a little update been for my other scan today was shocked with the change. Yoke seen so they have discharged me from them now feel relieved xx

Oh amazing @Jadeypie, what a perfect little blob 😍 Monday is quite quick but I’m sure even at this early stage there will still be some development.

Pleased to hear that your spotting has calmed down @Paws4thought , maybe all the moving and stretching going on just caused a little bit of bleeding.

Thanks @Westy22 that’s good to know, I’ll need to give them a call. I bet the early stage doesn’t feel that far away but also a lifetime ago now you have your little boy here.

Totally agree @Jadeypie so nice we still have this group going x

Thanks girls 🥰 yeh I agree crnt moan for them keeping a eye on me. She did say if it wasn't for my history she would of just left me be after seeing things on track and my blood levels rising the way they should.

I'm glad we still have this group going yous all r just a great support group xx

@Jadeypie ah that's fab news, Monday does seem soon but better than having to wait a long time. I've continued the progesterone as I was and spotting seems to have calmed down now :)
@xxcxdonxx I hope they get you in for a scan at your epau, as you say better all in one place, the private place I went to first time round was fine though and they rescanned twice to see if any progress before confirming mc.
@Westy22 i thought the same about us all being together, just hope we all continue with good news 🤞

I'm glad everything is looking good for you all ladies @Jadeypie @Paws4thought @xxcxdonxx I do not envy the anxiety you are all going through right now ❤️ I remember it so well and the days felt long. I booked a private scan at 10 weeks @xxcxdonxx and it really helped me calm down a little bit for maybe a few days and it was mad how much you could see 🙈

I agree it's a bit quick to see you again @Jadeypie but tbh I would've took every check in I could in those early days.

It's crazy how all 3 of you are going through this together at the same time ❤️

So everything is where it should be thank God. She was happy with what we saw I'm just 5 weeks so a little blob but I'm happy it's further than last time and it's not another ectopic! She wants me back Monday for another scan I thought this was abit soon could of gave it a week so some change could happen x

My friend recommend a place nearby that she had a good experience with. While I’m still anxious I’d prefer to be told bad news by a medical person so hopefully EPAU will see me.
I know what you mean @Jadeypie , my wee girl has just turned 4 and pregnancy seems a million years ago! I’m sure I would have cramps then too but I would have been so naive to it all.

Thinking of you for your scan tomorrow 💜

@xxcxdonxx I haf a private scan with James and the lady was lovely some places like to get you in and out and don't give you a good time so if you do go private just check a few out.

I've been getting little cramps on and off and have to keep reminding myself not to panic. I feel like I crnt even remember what it was like with James, and it was o ly 4 years ago xx

@Jadeypie i’m nine weeks just now. No, I’d need to call myself which I’ll do next week I think and see what they say. I’ve never been for a private scan but my other option would be to do that if EPAU won’t see me.

It’s a horribly anxious time! I was lying down yesterday as I felt so nauseous and my husband was saying how it was good sign etc. I just can’t take any comfort in symptoms as I don’t trust them! I’ve been getting some
cramping too which I know is normal but it’s just that horrible little voice telling me something has gone wrong xx

Pleased to see that @Paws4thought 🙂
Honestly dont think the anixety ever leaves unfortunatley... keep us posted @Jadeypie for saturday and @xxcxdonxx dont blame you, its awful being in the dark until the main scans

@xxcxdonxx how many weeks are you now? Great that you've had your booking ap another milestone to tick 🫠 also don't blame your for wanting another scan before 12 weeks can the midwife request it for you?

I think after this scan I can let myself be excited then I've already past the hcg levels milestone so that's helped my nerves.

I didn't think I would suffer so bad with anxiety I obviously knew it would be worrying after a loss but the anxiety this bad never expected it xx

Oh brilliant news, @Paws4thought delighted for you!
These early weeks are really tough going, every day feels like a milestone to tick off.

I had my booking appointment yesterday and I’ve got my 12 week scan booked for a few weeks time.
I think I’m going to request a reassurance scan in between times as I don’t want to wait until 12 weeks to find out if I’ve miscarried again.

That’s great @Jadeypie , even the reassurance that things are growing in the right place is good just now.

@Paws4thought oh I'm made up! Was thinking about you yesterday! Just got to keep taking tiny milstones at a time! Have u switched places for the progesterone?

I'm still feeling calm strangly Saturday I'm expecting to see nothing it's way too early. Maybe just a sack to show its in the rights place I was surprised they asked me in so soon but my hcg levels are increasing big x

@Jadeypie @xxcxdonxx thank you both for reassurance :) scan went well, they couldn't see any obvious bleeding and could see heart beat, booked for a scan next Wednesday at 7 weeks so just got to keep everything crossed, as that's been bad news last 2 times.
Good luck for your scan on Saturday @Jadeypie
Have you got any scans booked? @xxcxdonxx

Thinking of you today @Paws4thought 💜

@Paws4thought awww sorry to hear that too ❤️ i agree with @xxcxdonxx and try the other way possibly will be your cervix annoyed. I'm glad your scans tomorrow for peace of mind you must feel up the wall xx

Little update from me hcg is flying up so I'm getting a scan sat morning to check now if it's in the right place. I feel calm for the first time since finding out so I'm taking the moment before the nerves kick in for sat. 10 in the morning so least I don't have to wait round! Xx