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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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2dpo buddies please join!!

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LLLTB · 12/10/2024 18:13

Hey im currently 2dpo today so looking for buddies to go along with as the wait till test time is sooo long!!!

This will be my 3rd but havent been actively trying 😂 had an accident with husband around fertile window then was like fuck it and we did it 4 more times over my fertile window 😂 we would be more than happy so thought we'd just go with it.

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Figtree11 · 14/10/2024 11:44

Please can I join? I’m 3dpo today.
Didn’t ovulate til CD34 following 2 losses in the past year & complications from the last one.
Had quite a lot of ovulation pain this month, but now feeling better. Want to try & hold out testing until my period is due

JoMummyJessica · 14/10/2024 11:19

I've been looking into symptoms too as I've had bit of cramping on my left side but maybe down to ovulation (hoping) prob never noticed before as this is first month trying (had 2 previous misscarriages) so think I'm defo symptoms spotting! Fingers crossed for us all this cycle

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LLLTB · 14/10/2024 11:03

Im going to try hold out aswell but know i will struggle. Weird today my boobs are very sore without even touching them which is weird unless im going to come on af next week 🤷‍♀️ im sure its way to early for those kind of symptoms if i were pregnant

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JoMummyJessica · 13/10/2024 19:30

I'm going to try hold out till my period due date as I don't want to get my hopes up too early due to the other misscarriages! Found out with my daughter at 9dpo and the two which ended un misscarriages I found out at 8dpo so I'd rather wait!
I'm saying this now but come 8dpo I will probably cave and test anyway

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LLLTB · 13/10/2024 18:53

@JoMummyJessica aw yes i feel you on that! My eldest daughter is also 5 and like a teenager 😭 i also have a 3 year old daughter aswell but she is super chill 👌🏻

@Thistimearound aw yeah i had been thinking about it alot bit money is always in the back of my mind. Although this yeah we have been alot betted off financially so defiantly can cope with another. I just think when they are older there will be more family to spend time with if theres 3 of them 😄

Im going to try hold out testing till atleast 10dpo. With my second i got a positive test at 9dpo and once i start testing i find it hard to stop 😂

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Thistimearound · 13/10/2024 17:53

Similar situation here - about 4 or possibly 5 DPO.
Also trying for number 3. We’ve actually spent YEARS going back and forth on whether we wanted or could afford this and finally decided that we do and we can and that (especially given my age) it’s now or never. Despite the fact that it’s month one and we’ve spent years and years debating it, I feel like this feels very much like the right decision.

Started by telling myself I wouldn’t obsess or track or test early and of course I’m doing 2/3 already and probably will test early too..

JoMummyJessica · 13/10/2024 16:50

LLLTB · 13/10/2024 13:14

Aw sorry for your losses must be hard, defiantly a hard 2 week wait. Didnt think i wanted a 3rd but now theres a high chance i am im finding i do really want another 😬😅

How old is your first? @JoMummyJessica

I know this 2 weeks wait is just a nightmare however I know if I do get bfp I'll just be as nervous waiting for my scan, hoping NHS will scan me early due to my previous misscarriages!

My daughter is 5 (going on 15) she keeps asking for a little brother or sister too x

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LLLTB · 13/10/2024 13:14

Aw sorry for your losses must be hard, defiantly a hard 2 week wait. Didnt think i wanted a 3rd but now theres a high chance i am im finding i do really want another 😬😅

How old is your first? @JoMummyJessica

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JoMummyJessica · 13/10/2024 09:30

Hey, think I'm 2 dpo today, had positive opk on Friday 11th, trying for baby #2. Since having baby 1 we have had 2 misscarriages 1 in 2020 and 1 in May this year so fingers crossed for our rainbow baby! Going to be a long 2 weeks