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2dpo buddies please join!!

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LLLTB · 12/10/2024 18:13

Hey im currently 2dpo today so looking for buddies to go along with as the wait till test time is sooo long!!!

This will be my 3rd but havent been actively trying 😂 had an accident with husband around fertile window then was like fuck it and we did it 4 more times over my fertile window 😂 we would be more than happy so thought we'd just go with it.

No symptoms yet

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Figtree11 · 22/10/2024 09:44

How many dpo are you @JoMummyJessica ?
Yeah I’m 11dpo today - not had any symptoms so not holding out much hope really so don’t think I am going to test

JoMummyJessica · 22/10/2024 07:51

@Figtree11 not today, I'm trying to give myself a break, AF due Sunday so going to hold off till sat at least! Got frers coming today so giving them to my oh to make sure I'm not tempted!
Cramping and everything has pretty much stopped now so thinking just PMS but we will see!
When are you thinking of testing? Are u 11 dpo today?

Figtree11 · 22/10/2024 07:42

I’m not sure I can see that @JoMummyJessica Have you done another today?

JoMummyJessica · 21/10/2024 21:41

Decided to do my last cheapie tonight before bed, held wee in for around 2 hours (I'm going a lot)
I'm sure it's just my eyes but don't know how to take this test, pretty sure negative but just want some opinions, I know lighting is bad so bad photo so can't see much but can see something with naked eye

2dpo buddies please join!!
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LLLTB · 21/10/2024 15:53

I have the premom test strips and they keep throwing me because they have these huge indent lines on everyone 😭 keeps making me think theres a faint line but there isnt as i can see the indent when i angle it to the side.

So fed up just want af to come or a faint line. Im going to have to bin the premom tests tho, might go boots to get some others instead.

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JoMummyJessica · 21/10/2024 14:27

Figtree11 · 21/10/2024 12:38

@JoMummyJessica usually I’d be testing, but I just don’t think I can deal with the disappointment anymore. I find it puts me in a terrible mood so trying to see if waiting til AF arrives makes me feel any better!

That's reason I didn't want to test but I just can't help myself but every morning I get the bfn I'm just down so makes tww even harder I think I'm going to try hold off till thu, af due Sunday x

Figtree11 · 21/10/2024 12:38

@JoMummyJessica usually I’d be testing, but I just don’t think I can deal with the disappointment anymore. I find it puts me in a terrible mood so trying to see if waiting til AF arrives makes me feel any better!

JoMummyJessica · 21/10/2024 11:26

@Figtree11 I wish I had your strength! I'm 9dpo and been testing since 6dpo

Figtree11 · 21/10/2024 10:30

I’ve got everything crossed for you all that it’s just too early to show up on tests yet.

I’m 10dpo today and haven’t tested yet. No symptoms really, just the odd very mild stomach ache

JoMummyJessica · 21/10/2024 09:51

I've just ordered some frer tests from amazon, coming tomorrow but as I'll only be 10dpo I'm going to try wait till Wednesday or thu if I can, I have some cheapest left so may take them tomorrow and wed to satisfy my addiction haha! Af due Sunday

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LLLTB · 21/10/2024 09:13

Ive had more negative tests too. Slept with a pad on as i was so crampy last night, woke up with the big gush feeling down there and assumed it was af but checked and it was just loads of cm. I have a very had a very irregualr cycle this year but has become more regular the last 3/4 months due to loosing weight. Im on cd 27 and last month that was my shortest cycle of the year so far and i had all the signs of ovulation around the time we dtd 4x. Im going to wait a couple of days now to see if af comes. Cycles before last were about 33 days so ill do another after then if af dosent come,

I really hope we see some positives in here 🙏

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JoMummyJessica · 21/10/2024 07:18

@Thistimearound until she shows keep ur head up, weird that your getting cramps when usual don't, I get all the symptoms under the sun before AF so I can't tell difference!

9dpo today and stark white test this morning, not feeling good this cycle but we will see!

Thistimearound · 21/10/2024 06:15

I’m out too. Used my last test this morning. Should be due on my period soon anyway.

And yep like @LLLTB I’m cramping a lot. I don’t even cramp (or have any symptoms at all) before or during a period - other than checking my dates in the app it’s always a surprise when AF arrives. With the cramping / weird feelings I have and slight nausea I’m either pregnant (clearly not) or a bill ill! Seems the later!

Good luck @JoMummyJessica .

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LLLTB · 20/10/2024 21:13

Hows everyone for cramping?

Im actually cramping so bad it really hurts, i dont normally cramp this much. Normally a few days before af comes but its always very mild. Since about 3/4dpo i have been having cramps on and off everyday.

Actually think i might sleep with a pad on as it feels like a af with vengence is coming!

Boobs are still really sore aswell, which i do get slight sore boobs about a week before period but again ive had sore boobs for since about 3/4dpo.

So not sure whats going on im very confused 🤷‍♀️

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JoMummyJessica · 20/10/2024 15:38

LLLTB · 20/10/2024 15:31

Done a first response test which is completly negative. I do think im out now, im sure at 10dpo i would have seen even the faintest line.
I have gone all spotty too so think af will be here soon. Cant lie i feel a little deflated

Af not here yet so ur not out yet but I understand how u feel I'd be same, if I don't get faint line by tue/wed I'll be the same!
Some people don't get bfp or even faintest line till day af due so u never know!
Baby dust for us, if not this cycle maybe next x

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LLLTB · 20/10/2024 15:31

Done a first response test which is completly negative. I do think im out now, im sure at 10dpo i would have seen even the faintest line.
I have gone all spotty too so think af will be here soon. Cant lie i feel a little deflated

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JoMummyJessica · 20/10/2024 09:56

Thistimearound · 20/10/2024 09:31

Yes it’s clearly illogical isn’t it? It’s only two weeks and testing early is such a fools errand … but yet, the need to know is so strong!

I didn’t buy any tests until I was into the second week and then bought just the two pack of FRERs because I didn’t want to be testing every few hours with internet cheapies… and told myself I’d use it with FMU on Saturday morning.. but I just couldn’t wait. I feel like such an idiot really.

I’ve got one left and logically I should just keep it and wait until I’m late (unlikely, given I got a negative already) but my plan is tomorrow morning FMU.

I was there on Friday holding my stupid negative test up to the light and shining my camera phone behind it.. I honestly don’t think I’ve ever seen such a negative test in my life!

I’m really with your OH on that we should just wait!

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It's so hard isn't it, I keep looking at the pics and zooming in and seeing something then I don't and I just feel deflated!
I've just snapped at my 5 Yr old which I don't normally do and I know it's cause of the stress I'm feeling and how deflated I am! Feel awful so now I feel upset! Wouldn't say could be pregnancy though as my mood swings are bad just before af anyway but the fact I snapped at my dd, I never do that and I know if I hadn't have tested I don't think I would have been this deflated!
Don't even think I'm making sense but good to have a rant sometimes especially with people going through same!

Thistimearound · 20/10/2024 09:31

JoMummyJessica · 19/10/2024 20:05

I sometimes feel that way, times I don't feel anything and think oh I'm out but slight twinge and I'm thinking too maybe that's it, it's hard isn't it! My oh doesn't understand he says we will just wait to see if af arrives but I hate these 2 weeks!
Been feeling waves if sickness too but unsure if that's because of worry or being anxious, symptom spotting is the worst!
Praying for bfp for all of us! X

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Yes it’s clearly illogical isn’t it? It’s only two weeks and testing early is such a fools errand … but yet, the need to know is so strong!

I didn’t buy any tests until I was into the second week and then bought just the two pack of FRERs because I didn’t want to be testing every few hours with internet cheapies… and told myself I’d use it with FMU on Saturday morning.. but I just couldn’t wait. I feel like such an idiot really.

I’ve got one left and logically I should just keep it and wait until I’m late (unlikely, given I got a negative already) but my plan is tomorrow morning FMU.

I was there on Friday holding my stupid negative test up to the light and shining my camera phone behind it.. I honestly don’t think I’ve ever seen such a negative test in my life!

I’m really with your OH on that we should just wait!

JoMummyJessica · 20/10/2024 07:29

LLLTB · 20/10/2024 07:17

Mine is negative this morning at 10dpo, i really would have thought id get a v faint line atleast by now 😕

Thank u, ur not out till af shows x

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LLLTB · 20/10/2024 07:17

Mine is negative this morning at 10dpo, i really would have thought id get a v faint line atleast by now 😕

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LLLTB · 20/10/2024 07:06

@JoMummyJessica i can see something on those 😅 fingers crossed it is a line for you and develops. Im going to do a morning one in a min

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JoMummyJessica · 20/10/2024 05:05

Once again can't sleep so took a test at 4am! I'm sure I can see something again but my eyes I think are defo playing pranks on me!

2dpo buddies please join!!
JoMummyJessica · 19/10/2024 21:47

LLLTB · 19/10/2024 20:16

@JoMummyJessica mine is a weird sicky feeling like in my throat, like i want to gag 🙈 so strange. I ordered some of the first response tests that are suppose to be the most accurate ones. Its being delivered tomorrow so will do one of those tomorrow

I was going to order some but not going to order till middle of next week, if I have them I know I'll test straight away! Thunm I'm going to wait to see if I get a faint on one of the cheapies first! I spend so much on test so going to stick with these for now until I see potential if that makes sense!
Keep me updated, sending baby dust

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LLLTB · 19/10/2024 20:16

@JoMummyJessica mine is a weird sicky feeling like in my throat, like i want to gag 🙈 so strange. I ordered some of the first response tests that are suppose to be the most accurate ones. Its being delivered tomorrow so will do one of those tomorrow

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JoMummyJessica · 19/10/2024 20:05

LLLTB · 19/10/2024 19:46

@JoMummyJessica im 9dpo today, honestly its driving me mad! Cramps have gone away again and now having waves of feeling sick which never happens to me, i didn't even get any sick feeling with both of my girls 🤷‍♀️

I sometimes feel that way, times I don't feel anything and think oh I'm out but slight twinge and I'm thinking too maybe that's it, it's hard isn't it! My oh doesn't understand he says we will just wait to see if af arrives but I hate these 2 weeks!
Been feeling waves if sickness too but unsure if that's because of worry or being anxious, symptom spotting is the worst!
Praying for bfp for all of us! X

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