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TTC FIRST BABY - New cycle, let's go girls !

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Lila34830 · 10/10/2024 10:19

Follow up form TTC BABY #1 - cycle buddies.
For all the girls trying to conceive their first baby !

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Itstime2023 · 06/11/2024 17:24

Lila34830 · 06/11/2024 07:53

Guys when this page gets full I should really name the new page the Dino club 🤣🤣🤣

Please do 😂🦕

pastelpink0 · 06/11/2024 17:10

HE93C · 06/11/2024 14:59

Does anyone ever have the issue with trying to detect ovulation on the strips as I drink so much water throughout the day I think that’s affecting my strips. most of the time I get no line at all, occasionally I get faint lines - never had one as dark as the test line but I worry that due to drinking throughout the day, if I test later then it’s not accurate cos of how watered down it is - is that a thing or am I imagining it?

How long have you been Lh testing for? I've only been testing 2 months but the first month, all my lines were faint (I was testing every day).
This month my lines started pale but got very very dark out of nowhere, which didn't happen last month!

Do you test once or twice a day? First month I tested only once a day but this month I tested twice a day for 2 weeks. Some days I would test in the morning and it would be darker than when I test in the evening, or the other way around

HE93C · 06/11/2024 16:45

KT199 · 06/11/2024 16:25

I have tested this theory and even after a 30 minute hold my line was still as dark as the test line so I’m not sure how much it effects it. It didn’t seem to for me!

Makes sense. I have just never had one as dark as the test line, so don’t know if I’m missing it or if it’s due to the water intake.

KT199 · 06/11/2024 16:25

HE93C · 06/11/2024 14:59

Does anyone ever have the issue with trying to detect ovulation on the strips as I drink so much water throughout the day I think that’s affecting my strips. most of the time I get no line at all, occasionally I get faint lines - never had one as dark as the test line but I worry that due to drinking throughout the day, if I test later then it’s not accurate cos of how watered down it is - is that a thing or am I imagining it?

I have tested this theory and even after a 30 minute hold my line was still as dark as the test line so I’m not sure how much it effects it. It didn’t seem to for me!

Heartypandaa · 06/11/2024 15:15

HE93C · 06/11/2024 14:59

Does anyone ever have the issue with trying to detect ovulation on the strips as I drink so much water throughout the day I think that’s affecting my strips. most of the time I get no line at all, occasionally I get faint lines - never had one as dark as the test line but I worry that due to drinking throughout the day, if I test later then it’s not accurate cos of how watered down it is - is that a thing or am I imagining it?

I know right !!! I try to limit drinking 2h before testing...

Gemmaemilyx · 06/11/2024 15:00

@Heartypandaa I know I often wonder what the hell im doing sometimes and just wait but here we are 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@Lila34830 thank you! I feel like a right numpty as I told my bestie I may have a faint line too 🤣 time will tell! Xx

HE93C · 06/11/2024 14:59

Does anyone ever have the issue with trying to detect ovulation on the strips as I drink so much water throughout the day I think that’s affecting my strips. most of the time I get no line at all, occasionally I get faint lines - never had one as dark as the test line but I worry that due to drinking throughout the day, if I test later then it’s not accurate cos of how watered down it is - is that a thing or am I imagining it?

Lila34830 · 06/11/2024 13:30

@Toppstileslover glad to hear you're feeling better!! Do you have any symptoms ?

@Gemmaemilyx oh god 😭 keep us updated ! You're still early though !

I am 5/6 dpo today but no symptoms at all appart from a bout of dizziness this morning out of the shower ? Not even sure this is related 😂

@Heartypandaa keep testing. ! I had given up testing and cm came back and I ended up ovulating at CD24 or something ridic like this !

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Heartypandaa · 06/11/2024 13:20

@Gemmaemilyx thank you hope so too!
I have no idea about cervix position, this will be next level for me haha, but im curious and should do my research on the subject 🤞🏻

Toppstileslover · 06/11/2024 12:47

Hi girls - thanks for the posi vibes and great to hear we are all in this midlife stage together! We’ve done the right thing in pushing our careers and waiting for the right person :)) it’s lovely to hear we are all in the same boat.

bit more positive about everything today though am worried this extreme house stress we are having isn’t going to help my chances!

i am 9 days post static smiley which I assume is dpo and have rationalised my house nightmare. Having baby a priority! More emotional than normal this week.

really am going to try very hard not to do an early test and wait until AF due next week (no better pregnancy test 😂) but now want to to focus on that (but shouldn’t focus on that either!)

Gemmaemilyx · 06/11/2024 12:06

Heartypandaa · 06/11/2024 11:48

@Gemmaemilyx yes still early, good luck to you 🤞🏻 the wait isn't easy especially after your CP! My cycle is all over the place after my Cp, still having loads of CM and the LH test are still negative 🤦🏻‍♀️ dunno what to think as normally i should be expecting AF in a week!

Oh bless you! Hopefully you just missed the peak as you said and BD at the right time 😃 increased CM can be a sign!! My cervix is almost unreachable whereas usually at this point it’s low so hopefully something! Xx

Heartypandaa · 06/11/2024 11:48

@Gemmaemilyx yes still early, good luck to you 🤞🏻 the wait isn't easy especially after your CP! My cycle is all over the place after my Cp, still having loads of CM and the LH test are still negative 🤦🏻‍♀️ dunno what to think as normally i should be expecting AF in a week!

Gemmaemilyx · 06/11/2024 11:37

Morning all,
my tests are still the same so I’m thinking it’s either serious line eyes or a bad evap on the easy at homes, I’m only 9/10dpo though so still time 😊 how’s everyone doing today? Xx

Lila34830 · 06/11/2024 08:04

@HE93C right I see, maybe you body is taking some time to adjust. Take care of yourself x

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HE93C · 06/11/2024 08:03

Lila34830 · 06/11/2024 07:57

Morning lovely, Damn, is it heavy ?
Sorry to hear that !
New cycle, new mindset, sending you love xxx

I had a tiny bit when I wiped yesterday so was wondering if it was coming or if it was spotting etc but then this morning it seems to be more so I’m guessing it’s a period. Not heavy but I never am too heavy.

Only my 2nd period since the MC (6.5week ago) so wonder if my ovulation wasn’t at the time I thought it was if my cycle is still a bit messed up.

thank you xx

Lila34830 · 06/11/2024 07:57

HE93C · 06/11/2024 07:55

Started bleeding this morning so think it must be period coming a day early. Think that’s me out for this cycle but fingers crossed for everyone else!! X

Morning lovely, Damn, is it heavy ?
Sorry to hear that !
New cycle, new mindset, sending you love xxx

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Lila34830 · 06/11/2024 07:56

slothbat · 06/11/2024 07:55

Morning all! I'm still reading your posts and excited for all of you! I know there will be some more BFP this month!! I feel lost not chatting to you so I'm here to stay 😂😂😂😂

Lmao same here I just feel like the morning message to the group has become a routine !
I'm here to stay too but not too long tho 🤣 would love a bfp at some point please !

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HE93C · 06/11/2024 07:55

Started bleeding this morning so think it must be period coming a day early. Think that’s me out for this cycle but fingers crossed for everyone else!! X

slothbat · 06/11/2024 07:55

Morning all! I'm still reading your posts and excited for all of you! I know there will be some more BFP this month!! I feel lost not chatting to you so I'm here to stay 😂😂😂😂

Lila34830 · 06/11/2024 07:53

Guys when this page gets full I should really name the new page the Dino club 🤣🤣🤣

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Lila34830 · 06/11/2024 07:52

@Nay34 welcome !!! It's so nice of you to say that our little corner is so positive and encouraging ! 🫶🏽 I really think the same ! I have come across some horrible women on other threads, belittling and dismissive and I had to report a comment once !

It's so brave of you to come back home and start a new job you should be proud of yourself !
Welcome to what we call the " dino club " 🦕 because we're all slightly older than the average for a first baby ! (I mean, barely older because being in your 30s is nowadays is so young !!!)

We are in sync re cycle then ! I'm 5/6 dpo too ! No symptoms so far though !

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Nay34 · 06/11/2024 07:38

Lila34830 · 05/11/2024 10:15

Hi ladies, just catching up on all the messages.
Looks like all of us are mid/late 30s. I personally focused on my career, reaching my goals and being financially stable before considering having a baby. I think for centuries women have been made to think that their only goal in life should be having babies. We should be proud of all we achieved before hand, there is no such thing as " too late " life wise (of course biologically it's another story). 🫶🏽

I'm 5 dpo today but strangely feel calm and collected so I really want to hold off testing for as long as I can and ideally until af is due ... I feel like I will be able to as mentally I feel at peace. Very weird for me to say after so much worry about my ovulation lol

Thank you for sharing, it's so lovely to read familiar stories. I've been lurking on this thread for a little while, it's a very different space here compared to some of the other ttc threads I have been on. You ladies are so positive and supportive ❤️

I'm 34, I also focused on career, moved from
the countryside to London. I was with a partner for 8 years until he decided we were better off as friends.. it really came out of the blue and I thought that our future was together. After that I made a bit of a dramatic decision to quit my job, move back home and try to start a new life. I now have a small business and met someone new, we've been ttc for 9 months now, I'm 34 he's 39.

I've been tracking using premom for 6 months, last month I had my bloods done which confirmed ovulation. I'm currently 5 dpo!

I watched a YouTube video recently which explains what's happening at each dpo if the egg is fertilised - it's friggin amazing! The fact that our bodies are capable of that is amazing and also reassures me as to why it can take a while for it to make little miracles inside of us.

Baby dust to each and everyone on this crazy journey xxx

Lila34830 · 06/11/2024 06:13

@pastelpink0 I'm in the same boat! I'm 5/6 dpo ... I'm trying to pretend nothing is happening and I am not waiting for anything 🤣🤣🤣

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pastelpink0 · 05/11/2024 23:18

@KT199 one week down, one to go! This TWW feels like an absolute age haha

QuirkyPiglet · 05/11/2024 19:04

Hi ladies. I’m back, took a few days away from MN to try and stop obsessing 😔 I’m 11dpo right now. I came back to check in with everyone and see your news so I am going to read back and see what is happening. Sending baby dust and hugs to everyone