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TTC FIRST BABY - New cycle, let's go girls !

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Lila34830 · 10/10/2024 10:19

Follow up form TTC BABY #1 - cycle buddies.
For all the girls trying to conceive their first baby !

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KT199 · 30/10/2024 15:09

Lila34830 · 30/10/2024 14:09

Hey girls, the drama continues on my side, as I noticed a lot of ewcm last night, so decided to test this morning and LH was 0.3, it has now risen to 0.48.... so I think we may be onto a late ovulation as my base level lh is always 0.1/0.2 max 🤔 might be why progesterone test came back negative ? I swear my body is playing tricks. I'll keep on testing lh over the next couple of days and DTD if needed. So confusing I swear

This defo sounds like late ovulation!!! And your PDG would have been really low if you haven’t yet ovulated. Hopefully that means you’re not automatically out this month! 🤞🤞

Lila34830 · 30/10/2024 14:09

Hey girls, the drama continues on my side, as I noticed a lot of ewcm last night, so decided to test this morning and LH was 0.3, it has now risen to 0.48.... so I think we may be onto a late ovulation as my base level lh is always 0.1/0.2 max 🤔 might be why progesterone test came back negative ? I swear my body is playing tricks. I'll keep on testing lh over the next couple of days and DTD if needed. So confusing I swear

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Lila34830 · 30/10/2024 13:41

Alice1030 · 30/10/2024 12:11

Thanks @Lila34830

Sorry for jumping into your convo, but I find it so hard not to look for reassurance on everything!

I will stick around on this thread as it’s nice to be with people in the same situation 😊

No apologies needed this thread is opened to anyone TTC their first baby :) xxx

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KT199 · 30/10/2024 13:15

Alice1030 · 30/10/2024 09:17

Hi ladies,

I did make another post (new here) but thought it might be better to join this one, hope that’s okay!

Im only on my first cycle of TTC this month, but got quite optimistic when I had light pink implantation bleeding at 7dpo. It has carried on the last couple of days but now more of a light brown.

I have a fairly long luteal phase so AF not due until 15dpo, but tests on 11dpo were negative so not feeling hopeful now.

Anyone had similar?

Hey, sorry I haven’t. I’ve only ever had spotting 1 day before AF arrives. Hopefully someone else can help x

Alice1030 · 30/10/2024 12:11

Thanks @Lila34830

Sorry for jumping into your convo, but I find it so hard not to look for reassurance on everything!

I will stick around on this thread as it’s nice to be with people in the same situation 😊

Lila34830 · 30/10/2024 11:21

Welcome @Alice1030 !
I haven't had anything similar, I did have brown spotting one cycle but it turned out to be a very very odd light AF.
I heard some women test positive on 12 even 13 dpo so I would test again maybe if I were you ? Xx

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Alice1030 · 30/10/2024 09:17

Hi ladies,

I did make another post (new here) but thought it might be better to join this one, hope that’s okay!

Im only on my first cycle of TTC this month, but got quite optimistic when I had light pink implantation bleeding at 7dpo. It has carried on the last couple of days but now more of a light brown.

I have a fairly long luteal phase so AF not due until 15dpo, but tests on 11dpo were negative so not feeling hopeful now.

Anyone had similar?

Lila34830 · 30/10/2024 07:46

@KT199 yes I will defffo check thank you !
I wouldn't go at the back , especially straight in the morning 😂 but the front seemed more accurate than the mouth idk why, maybe because when I'm ill I take my temp in mouth and it often varies from one reading to another... but I haven't taken my temp in months tbf...
received the thermometer today ☺️

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KT199 · 30/10/2024 07:40

Lila34830 · 30/10/2024 07:24

Girls I have a very stupid and weird question for you but .... where do you put the thermometer when you temp ? 😂
Because I genuinely read some people putting it down there, and tbh I think it's the most accurate way to temp ?
Or am I weird ?

I do mine using wrist temp. But you can do it from the front or back downstairs or mouth.. just whichever your most comfortable with. I’d just check your thermometer is definitely okay to use used in the nether regions if this is what you go for!

Lila34830 · 30/10/2024 07:24

Girls I have a very stupid and weird question for you but .... where do you put the thermometer when you temp ? 😂
Because I genuinely read some people putting it down there, and tbh I think it's the most accurate way to temp ?
Or am I weird ?

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Lila34830 · 30/10/2024 07:15

@slothbat my progesterone test of Monday confirmed it ! But I have pcos so it does happen I guess. I never focused on ovulation before ttc, last month I had a LH surge so not sure tbh ! Waiting to hear back from consultant ...!

And yes I find it almost a bit more relaxing not having to DTD as much or lh testing ! Exhausted me this month 😂

Af is due on 6 nov for me !

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slothbat · 30/10/2024 07:13

Lila34830 · 30/10/2024 06:52

@KT199 @slothbat morning girls !
I'm ok today thank you ! Just waiting for next cycle really since I know I didn't ovulate I guess I'm kind of ready to move to the next cycle !

How are you feeeling? Any symptoms ??

@QuirkyPiglet idk if I said welcome already so just in case, welcome !!

Has that ever happened before not ovulating? It does suck this whole journey!!
It's so strange although in the TWW im glad not to be constantly testing to see when LH surges etc! No symptoms at all for me, 7DPO today, just trying to keep busy at work! Not really hopeful this month as just been so stressed with work and life in general! Xxx

Lila34830 · 30/10/2024 07:04

@KT199 I'm hoping it's a bfp for you lovely 🤞🏼
And don't, people who " didn't even try" also feel the need to say it. When realistically, no one cares how much or how little you tried !

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KT199 · 30/10/2024 07:03

@Lila34830 I’d be the same!!

Im okay, no symptoms tbh no. Not feeling hopeful. Last night found out one of my best friends is 12 weeks, happened first time for her, so feeling a bit deflated today. I’m so glad we have this thread, as hearing that yesterday made me feel so alone in this journey of it taking a little longer.. but to be able to reach out this morning is so helpful.

Held off testing but think I will do tomorrow morning at 10DPO, maybe Friday at 11DPO. AF due Sunday..

Lila34830 · 30/10/2024 06:52

@KT199 @slothbat morning girls !
I'm ok today thank you ! Just waiting for next cycle really since I know I didn't ovulate I guess I'm kind of ready to move to the next cycle !

How are you feeeling? Any symptoms ??

@QuirkyPiglet idk if I said welcome already so just in case, welcome !!

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QuirkyPiglet · 30/10/2024 06:47

Good morning ladies ☺️

KT199 · 30/10/2024 06:37

Welcome ladies!! ☺️ @lovealways97 @Clara202

@slothbat @Lila34830 Morning girls! How is everyone feeling today?! ☺️

slothbat · 30/10/2024 06:22

@lovealways97 @Clara202 Morning and Welcome!!! ❤️❤️❤️

@Lila34830 hey lovely! How are you feeling today? Xx

Lila34830 · 30/10/2024 06:21

Toppstileslover · 29/10/2024 22:30

Ok so I had static smiley Sunday I’ve 3 DTD in the bank including today, annoyingly didn’t yesterday but hopefully one will stick! If not will go for 3-4 times again next month. I’m not sure if I have a job following restructuring so at least I’ll think about that (and how to get a new one!) instead of my uterus!

🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼✨✨✨✨✨🌸🌸🌸🌸

it would be a lovely birthday present and I love cancerians…it’s a July baby month!

good luck gals I’m going to check out a bit so I don’t go mental but I’ll be back in a few ….love our little corner! Such posi vibes.

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Aw so sorry to hear about your job !!!
We will be here when you come back ! 🩷 and I hope you come back with the best news !
Xxx

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Lila34830 · 30/10/2024 06:19

Welcome @lovealways97 @Clara202 !
Best of luck 🤞🏼!!!

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lovealways97 · 29/10/2024 23:13

hi all, we begin TTC either tomorrow or Thursday! been testing with clearblue digital twice a day since flashing smiley appeared.

Clara202 · 29/10/2024 22:54

Can I join ladies? 38 ttc #1. Only started last month, so this is only cycle 2. Ewcm on Sunday morning, so DTD Sunday afternoon. Got a flashing smiley on Sunday evening, and a static smiley on an old pink expired clear blue stick on Monday afternoon. DTD again on Monday night. Assuming today was ovulation day but who knows eh?! Away with work today-Thurs so that’ll be it for our efforts for this month. Counting this as 1DPO and starting the tww.

Toppstileslover · 29/10/2024 22:30

Ok so I had static smiley Sunday I’ve 3 DTD in the bank including today, annoyingly didn’t yesterday but hopefully one will stick! If not will go for 3-4 times again next month. I’m not sure if I have a job following restructuring so at least I’ll think about that (and how to get a new one!) instead of my uterus!

🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼✨✨✨✨✨🌸🌸🌸🌸

it would be a lovely birthday present and I love cancerians…it’s a July baby month!

good luck gals I’m going to check out a bit so I don’t go mental but I’ll be back in a few ….love our little corner! Such posi vibes.

pastelpink0 · 29/10/2024 18:48

littlebluu · 29/10/2024 18:13

@pastelpink0
I'm the same I get a really quick surge, literally a matter of hours - they say it's like 24-36hrs from when you start to see a surge and then 8-12hrs from your peak - so make sure you keep testing lh so you can identify when it's starting to lower and make sure you've defo found your peak - but if your peak was tonight then yeah I'd say you'd be due to ovulate tomorrow.

Personally I start DTD when I start to see the line get a bit darker, usually this lasts for like 3 days so I try leave a day between, then on the day of the peak and then the day or 2 after just because the time for ovulation to happen isn't exact I just try and cover every opportunity 😅

It's alot and it's exhausting and it really isn't the most romantic but we do what we can 😆

This month we only managed to do the day before peak, the day of peak and the day after but obviously they say sperm lives up to 5 days so I think as long as you're DTD on the days around peak, it should be enough.

It's actual headache inducing isn't it 😅😅

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Thank you for this!! We DTD last night so I think we'll skip tonight and DTD tomorrow - last month was a bit too intense so we'll prob stick to every other night.

Oh it's enough to drive you mad! 😳 and you're right, it's so exhausting and it's just constant.

Thanks again for the advice, Amazon has literally just delivered another box of LH tests so will make sure to crack on 🤪

littlebluu · 29/10/2024 18:13

@pastelpink0
I'm the same I get a really quick surge, literally a matter of hours - they say it's like 24-36hrs from when you start to see a surge and then 8-12hrs from your peak - so make sure you keep testing lh so you can identify when it's starting to lower and make sure you've defo found your peak - but if your peak was tonight then yeah I'd say you'd be due to ovulate tomorrow.

Personally I start DTD when I start to see the line get a bit darker, usually this lasts for like 3 days so I try leave a day between, then on the day of the peak and then the day or 2 after just because the time for ovulation to happen isn't exact I just try and cover every opportunity 😅

It's alot and it's exhausting and it really isn't the most romantic but we do what we can 😆

This month we only managed to do the day before peak, the day of peak and the day after but obviously they say sperm lives up to 5 days so I think as long as you're DTD on the days around peak, it should be enough.

It's actual headache inducing isn't it 😅😅

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