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TTC buddies Baby #1 - anyone ?

622 replies

Lila34830 · 28/09/2024 17:01

Hey ladies 👋🏽
Just thought I'd post this to find some buddies in the TTC journey as a clueless gal trying for baby #1 ! 🫶🏽
Ovulated today, so I guess the 2WW starts ! ⏰
Anyone else starting their 2WW ? ☺️

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pastelpink0 · 05/10/2024 21:25

KT199 · 05/10/2024 20:55

It is rubbish, but if we don’t get out BFP’s I feel a little better going into next month knowing I’ve got people I can chat with about it! We will have to continue with this thread or create a new one, it’s been really helpful for my mental health having you all to vent/talk/sound crazy to!! So a big thank you to all of you for that! 🙂

Agreed! As much as I hope at least one of us gets a BFP this month, at least we're all in this together

Lila34830 · 05/10/2024 21:14

HeartyPanda · 05/10/2024 20:33

Evening dinos,
i see that most of us feel out, i can add myself too, im like @Lila34830 no symptoms or gut feeling… im not even tempted to go buy tests for next week…
little bumped abt it to be honest!
im making comfy food and planning to binge watch something tonight.

I'm the same I don't even feel the need to test which tells me I'm deffo out , it's been a bit of a bummer week so I think I've lost the potential excitement for it too this month... just want af to arrive and onto the next cycle !

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Lila34830 · 05/10/2024 21:13

KT199 · 05/10/2024 20:55

It is rubbish, but if we don’t get out BFP’s I feel a little better going into next month knowing I’ve got people I can chat with about it! We will have to continue with this thread or create a new one, it’s been really helpful for my mental health having you all to vent/talk/sound crazy to!! So a big thank you to all of you for that! 🙂

I second that 100%. It's been great amongst the stress and tiredness !
Who knew the dino club would be born 😂
Let's not lose hope one of us might turn into a 🪨 this month

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KT199 · 05/10/2024 20:55

It is rubbish, but if we don’t get out BFP’s I feel a little better going into next month knowing I’ve got people I can chat with about it! We will have to continue with this thread or create a new one, it’s been really helpful for my mental health having you all to vent/talk/sound crazy to!! So a big thank you to all of you for that! 🙂

HeartyPanda · 05/10/2024 20:33

Evening dinos,
i see that most of us feel out, i can add myself too, im like @Lila34830 no symptoms or gut feeling… im not even tempted to go buy tests for next week…
little bumped abt it to be honest!
im making comfy food and planning to binge watch something tonight.

Lila34830 · 05/10/2024 19:53

@KT199 evening gal, nothing to report either here. No symptoms at all apart from tender boobs but that's typical for me at this time of the cycle. Not tested yet, but I don't even feel like it's worth it this month 😭 onto the next one I guess 🤞🏼
(I'll still test at 12 dpo LOL)

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KT199 · 05/10/2024 19:19

slothbat · 05/10/2024 19:13

@KT199 Evening lovely! I've got really bad pain on one side and my lower back has it most the day don't know if it's in preparation for AF as I felt awful last month before my period! How are you feeling? Xx

Ahh! Sounds good though, but equally it’s so scary to get your hopes up then be disappointed so understand why you don’t wanna jump to any conclusions.

Yeah I’m feeling good, no symptoms in all honesty just feel very normal. But I did manage to stop myself testing today, so that’s a small win for me as last cycle I was testing twice daily, even though I said I wouldn’t test after my first negative. And I think mentally, I feel loads better having not tested.. probably as the disappointment feels REAL when you see that negative test!

slothbat · 05/10/2024 19:13

@KT199 Evening lovely! I've got really bad pain on one side and my lower back has it most the day don't know if it's in preparation for AF as I felt awful last month before my period! How are you feeling? Xx

KT199 · 05/10/2024 19:08

How’s everyone feeling this evening? Is anyone having any symptoms? Or have any gut feelings? 🙂

Lila34830 · 05/10/2024 19:00

@KT199 oh god.. that's what we saw, 17 songs or something ... wheat a shame

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KT199 · 05/10/2024 18:48

Lila34830 · 04/10/2024 21:52

@KT199 let me know how the joker was!! I heard it's a huge musical and I'm so disappointed 😭

Sounds like all gonna have the most wholesome weekend ! Much needed !

In response to the joker, it was not the one 🥲 completely deviated from how they said the two met, the musical element was too much and literally nothing happened. Very disappointed!

pastelpink0 · 05/10/2024 18:39

@littlebluu Ahh that must be tough! Really hope the timing works out for you this month 🤞🏻🤞🏻 I agree, the thought of going through this every month seems so daunting, especially since we've only just started.

Time is going so fast (how is it October already??) but yet when you're in the TWW time just dragssssss by! That's why I'm so glad we can all huddle together in this little corner of MN and talk with other people who understand 😊

It's sooo annoying that most of the early pregnancy symptoms also happen to be symptoms of PMS! Im questioning every single little symptom I have 🤦🏻‍♀️ I ate a bit of cheese last week that tasted weird and thought it meant something was happening with my body... but no, I'm just crazy 😂

slothbat · 05/10/2024 13:07

@Lila34830 Hey! Yeah try hold off as long as possible (easier said than done!) 😂😂 just so disappointing to test early with a BFN!

Hoping there are lots of BFPs in the next couple of weeks ❤️❤️❤️

Lila34830 · 05/10/2024 13:03

Morning all, just catching up, I'm 7/8 dpo I think, still too early for me to test 😭 waiting until AF is due if I can (lol watch me test in a couple of days 😂)
Hope one of us (or many?) get their bfp soon xxx

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slothbat · 05/10/2024 13:03

Nope! A week feels like a lifetime!!! Xx

Parks17 · 05/10/2024 12:31

slothbat · 05/10/2024 12:15

@Parks17 omg I've felt the same week! Had what I felt was a cold coming the past two nights but nothing materialised also 8/9DPO AND BFN so again like you not resting again now till next week!

It's so awful isn't it - my OH was saying 'just wait it's only another week!' as if every single day hasn't already felt like a full month!! They just don't get it.

KT199 · 05/10/2024 12:25

The temptation to test at 8DPO has got to loads of us, and we’ve all had the same result sadly ☹️. Fingers crossed we’ve just tested too early and some of us will see some changed results next week. I’m 9/10DPO and after testing yesterday afternoon forced myself to go for a wee this morning instantly with no test present. Wanting to wait now until Monday/Tuesday as originally planned.

Had 0 symptoms so not hopeful, as I clearly had a build up of progesterone 6/7DPO with the bloating and sore boobs which have disappeared since, as they would when progesterone levels decrease and let AF come along.

But I do have a busy weekend, so hopefully keeping myself and mind elsewhere and what will be will be!

slothbat · 05/10/2024 12:16

@Parks17 *testing 😂😂😂

slothbat · 05/10/2024 12:15

@Parks17 omg I've felt the same week! Had what I felt was a cold coming the past two nights but nothing materialised also 8/9DPO AND BFN so again like you not resting again now till next week!

slothbat · 05/10/2024 12:14

@littlebluu Hey! I have the same intention as you to do absolutely nothing!!! It's been manic this week at work so this weekend I plan to do as little as possible! I have really bad cramps today so thinking AF is on the way! So just watching crap on TV feeling sorry for myself 😂😂😂

Parks17 · 05/10/2024 12:14

HeartyPanda · 05/10/2024 11:41

Good morning dinos, how are you feeling today?
any one testing today?

Hellooo!

Just catching up on all the posts

Felt like I was getting a cold during the night, kept waking up with a chesty cough and runny nose. Felt some sharp pin prick pains for about half an hour. It's so hard not to symptom spot.

Told myself no more testing until at least 10dpo, but woke up this morning 8dpo and tested. Of course nothing.

What about you?

littlebluu · 05/10/2024 11:50

Good Morning (just) Everyone!

Hope everyone is planning on having the most stress free weekend they can manage!
I promised myself no baby or house-hunting stuff today and to use Saturday to do absolutely zero...what's the bets it'll get to 5pm and I'll be testing 😆😆

What's everyone got planned?

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littlebluu · 05/10/2024 11:47

HeartyPanda · 05/10/2024 11:46

Oh welcome dear, i hope you get your positive quickly so you dont go through what we are going through with multiple cycles trying… the journey isnt easy but worth it for sure. Try to be positive even if it’s not easy, eventually it will happen for all of us. Wishing a good luck

Thank you! 🥰

HeartyPanda · 05/10/2024 11:46

littlebluu · 05/10/2024 11:41

Hello 👋
We happen to be in the same boat because that's exactly how I felt too! I feel like this has been the longest month of my life, my husband works away alot and so was away a few days surrounding ovulation, whoch is hard enough to pinpoint with 4 different apps telling you different dates 😅😅 But I was hopeful that we managed to catch it the days before and after ovu.

Today I'm 12dpo and still showing negative on single hcg strips. Tried a clearblue yesterday and negative too even tho I got that post-test broken blue line after like 3 hours and my heart jumped into my throat.

Started spotting last night, very light pink but today I feel that dreaded dull cramp in mu upper thighs so I definitely think it's AF 😮‍💨
I've been getting twinges and shooting pains in my lower left side all throughout the TWW and also had very dull, foggy headaches quite a few days but maybe that's just been me symptom spotting.

The thought of doing this all over again, and every month until a positive, is really daunting 😫

I'm so glad there are people I can now share all of these experiences with, it gives me such peace of mind to know people are also going through the same!

Looking forward to hearing g more about your journey! (Sorry for the novel) 🤣

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Oh welcome dear, i hope you get your positive quickly so you dont go through what we are going through with multiple cycles trying… the journey isnt easy but worth it for sure. Try to be positive even if it’s not easy, eventually it will happen for all of us. Wishing a good luck

littlebluu · 05/10/2024 11:41

pastelpink0 · 05/10/2024 08:23

@littlebluu Whereabouts are you in your cycle?

This is my first month trying to conceive too and I know 100% how you feel! I'm only 5 DPO and feel sooo swept up in this whole thing. Before we started this journey of ttc I knew it might take us a while to conceive but now that we've actually started, I feel like we've left it too late and I just desperately want to see that positive test. But like you I know my chances this month are slim.

Hope you're doing ok and I have all my fingers crossed for you 🤞🏻 xx

Hello 👋
We happen to be in the same boat because that's exactly how I felt too! I feel like this has been the longest month of my life, my husband works away alot and so was away a few days surrounding ovulation, whoch is hard enough to pinpoint with 4 different apps telling you different dates 😅😅 But I was hopeful that we managed to catch it the days before and after ovu.

Today I'm 12dpo and still showing negative on single hcg strips. Tried a clearblue yesterday and negative too even tho I got that post-test broken blue line after like 3 hours and my heart jumped into my throat.

Started spotting last night, very light pink but today I feel that dreaded dull cramp in mu upper thighs so I definitely think it's AF 😮‍💨
I've been getting twinges and shooting pains in my lower left side all throughout the TWW and also had very dull, foggy headaches quite a few days but maybe that's just been me symptom spotting.

The thought of doing this all over again, and every month until a positive, is really daunting 😫

I'm so glad there are people I can now share all of these experiences with, it gives me such peace of mind to know people are also going through the same!

Looking forward to hearing g more about your journey! (Sorry for the novel) 🤣

🩵