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TTC buddies Baby #1 - anyone ?

622 replies

Lila34830 · 28/09/2024 17:01

Hey ladies πŸ‘‹πŸ½
Just thought I'd post this to find some buddies in the TTC journey as a clueless gal trying for baby #1 ! 🫢🏽
Ovulated today, so I guess the 2WW starts ! ⏰
Anyone else starting their 2WW ? ☺️

OP posts:
KT199 · 09/10/2024 12:28

slothbat · 09/10/2024 11:59

Hey! I think I've started my AF on cycle day 26? I'm never ever early!? Xx

Hey! Sorry to hear this, how are you feeling?
Wonder if the TWW has caused you a little extra stress this time round? Xx

slothbat · 09/10/2024 11:59

Hey! I think I've started my AF on cycle day 26? I'm never ever early!? Xx

LuckyDuck93 · 09/10/2024 09:47

Em3009 · 08/10/2024 20:08

Do any of you recommend natural cycles? Just want some real opinions before I go for it!

I used it for contraception & it was great, I still have it now but also use the premom app for scanning my LH tests etc, they're both within 1 day of each other for predicted ovulation.
The bonus I find with NC is that if I wake up and take my temp, it saves it until I upload it later, so I can do my temp half asleep and if I doze back off and forget what the temp was it doesn't matter!

KT199 · 09/10/2024 08:32

Morning ladies, after the spotting yesterday AF is definitely here this morning. I knew I was out so no further disappointment just glad a new cycle is here to try again.

Hope some fossil announcements take place this week, got my fingers crossed for you ALL!! ❀️πŸͺ¨

littlebluu · 08/10/2024 21:34

@Lila34830 Honestly πŸ˜…πŸ˜…
It's so unromantic 🀣
I'm sure DH is loving it but I'm exhausted hahah!

Lila34830 · 08/10/2024 21:05

@littlebluu if that can make you feel better I only get one peak ! 🀣 and thank god because it's already hard enough for us to DTD for a week straight

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KT199 · 08/10/2024 21:02

Em3009 · 08/10/2024 20:51

Thank you! I will have a look at FF too! X

No problem! I renewed my subscription 2 months ago not realising about FF but used NC as birth control for a year prior. If you do want to sign up, feel free to message me for a referral code as it will give you 20% off your subscription and a free thermometer πŸ˜‚ (if you can’t find any better discount of course!!) x

KT199 · 08/10/2024 20:51

littlebluu · 08/10/2024 20:00

Hold on...the fact there's a 2nd lh peak to look out for just complicates things so much more 😫😫 Genuinly will be DTD for about 12 days straight at this point πŸ˜… Husband will be loving life 🫣

Don’t worry not everyone gets this second peak!! You only tend to get a second peak or multiple peaks if you have PCOS or if you don’t naturally ovulate after your first peak, your LH will rise again and you will have 2nd stronger peak to try make ovulation happen. Chances are if your having a period 10-14 days after your LH peak you are ovulating from that first peak you’ve found xx

Em3009 · 08/10/2024 20:51

KT199 · 08/10/2024 20:49

Hey! So I can defo recommend it, but I ended up stopping temping with the thermometer and now use my Apple Watch automatically. The problem I had was more me, I was forgetting, moving, not taking temp at same time ect ect but you can set your watch to do it auto at same time everyday and you do nothing. But what I will say is, you can download an app called fertility friend (FF) and that does what natural cycles does, for free.. so you don’t need to part with the Β£70. Don’t get me wrong the FF app looks almost prehistoric whereas NC is more updated in terms of looks, but they do the same.. infact FF has more tracking capabilities and you can let it us OPK data over temp if you think your not reliably testing which NC doesn’t allow. Had I known about FF before NC, I wouldn’t have paid for it.

Thank you! I will have a look at FF too! X

KT199 · 08/10/2024 20:49

Em3009 · 08/10/2024 20:08

Do any of you recommend natural cycles? Just want some real opinions before I go for it!

Hey! So I can defo recommend it, but I ended up stopping temping with the thermometer and now use my Apple Watch automatically. The problem I had was more me, I was forgetting, moving, not taking temp at same time ect ect but you can set your watch to do it auto at same time everyday and you do nothing. But what I will say is, you can download an app called fertility friend (FF) and that does what natural cycles does, for free.. so you don’t need to part with the Β£70. Don’t get me wrong the FF app looks almost prehistoric whereas NC is more updated in terms of looks, but they do the same.. infact FF has more tracking capabilities and you can let it us OPK data over temp if you think your not reliably testing which NC doesn’t allow. Had I known about FF before NC, I wouldn’t have paid for it.

Em3009 · 08/10/2024 20:08

Do any of you recommend natural cycles? Just want some real opinions before I go for it!

littlebluu · 08/10/2024 20:00

Hold on...the fact there's a 2nd lh peak to look out for just complicates things so much more 😫😫 Genuinly will be DTD for about 12 days straight at this point πŸ˜… Husband will be loving life 🫣

Lila34830 · 08/10/2024 18:54

Tanks @KT199 I am relieved as idk what I would have done otherwise !

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KT199 · 08/10/2024 18:53

Lila34830 · 08/10/2024 17:36

AF is here for me ! Just showed up full blown ! But I was told by surgeon that I can ttc next cycle as my surgery is very soon so I'm thrilled. I'm not leaving the dino club :) xxx

Sorry to hear, but I bet you are low key relieved after saying the surgery would be risky if pregnant! Let’s hope the first cycle after your op is a lucky one for you!! Great news for you, that you can carry on ttc so quickly after your op! Xx

Lila34830 · 08/10/2024 18:41

@Sugarcube84 exactly ! Nature does things well I guess. Still hoping for some of you to be positive !

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Gemmaemilyx · 08/10/2024 18:40

@Celine88 oh trust me as soon as I got In the door from work I was POAS 🀣🀣🀣🀣 nothing on IC. Possibly a faint on the FRER. but not holding my breath!! Xx

Celine88 · 08/10/2024 18:37

@Gemmaemilyx oh wow lots of symptoms! Hope it s not a tummy bug πŸ€’ - I admire your strong will I would have caved in and tested by now just to be sure haha! @Lila34830 sorry you're AF arrived today bit good to hear you can start TTC again straight after xx

Sugarcube84 · 08/10/2024 18:25

Lila34830 · 08/10/2024 17:36

AF is here for me ! Just showed up full blown ! But I was told by surgeon that I can ttc next cycle as my surgery is very soon so I'm thrilled. I'm not leaving the dino club :) xxx

Well as disappointing as it is as least the timing works well around your surgery

Gemmaemilyx · 08/10/2024 17:42

I have suddenly started gagging and feeling nauseous in the last 3 hours, I’m hoping it’s a good sign and not a tummy bug!! Haha!!

Gemmaemilyx · 08/10/2024 17:39

Lila34830 · 08/10/2024 17:36

AF is here for me ! Just showed up full blown ! But I was told by surgeon that I can ttc next cycle as my surgery is very soon so I'm thrilled. I'm not leaving the dino club :) xxx

Sorry to hear about AF arriving but at least you’re not on TTC standby for too long !! 🩷🩷

Lila34830 · 08/10/2024 17:36

AF is here for me ! Just showed up full blown ! But I was told by surgeon that I can ttc next cycle as my surgery is very soon so I'm thrilled. I'm not leaving the dino club :) xxx

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Gemmaemilyx · 08/10/2024 17:12

Parks17 · 08/10/2024 17:08

@Lila34830 My apps are not accurate as some months I don't get a period BUT it's showing as 15th October - I think I'm gonna test over the next few days and see... most recent test is BFN but that was mid afternoon

@KT199 yeah BFN so far :( I'm not sure about the LH with Endo as i've been off the pill for 2 years and very irregular and have not been able to track ovulation properly until this months when I finally got that peak 11 days ago!

@Gemmaemilyx Oh wow - it might be! Maybe need to DTD to cover all bases?!

I would certainly try just incase! She found out she was pregnant 9 days after her period was due with a very faint BFP πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒ hopefully you’re already pregnant as the girls have said though!! Xx

Parks17 · 08/10/2024 17:08

@Lila34830 My apps are not accurate as some months I don't get a period BUT it's showing as 15th October - I think I'm gonna test over the next few days and see... most recent test is BFN but that was mid afternoon

@KT199 yeah BFN so far :( I'm not sure about the LH with Endo as i've been off the pill for 2 years and very irregular and have not been able to track ovulation properly until this months when I finally got that peak 11 days ago!

@Gemmaemilyx Oh wow - it might be! Maybe need to DTD to cover all bases?!

Gemmaemilyx · 08/10/2024 16:42

Parks17 · 08/10/2024 15:42

No worries it's so confusing!! I've tested this morning and BFN!

I've read stories of people who got a peak and then BFP a few days later but it's so hard not to get my hopes up - I'm trying to be positive but honestly I'm just confused more than anything.

My friend thought she ovulated on CD 19 due to peak but after 2.5 years she realised it’s actually CD 27 when her second peak arrived and finally pregnant after all this time! Could this be ovulation do you think? X

continuallyconfused · 08/10/2024 16:30

Trying best to remain calm but had weird CM today and a google says it could be early pregnancy πŸ‘€ Have also been having horrific reflux, beyond the norm for me and not responding as usual to treatment. Give me strength to not test till Saturday when period is due πŸ™πŸ»
Still feeling quite PMS'y so head's a bit all over!!

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