Bonkers Anonymous… the most successful TTC thread in the world... so good even the Graduates want to stay!

Hi
oh chocolateeclair....ive only just popped on...sorry not much conversation from me at mo....i just wanted to say darling im so very very sorry to hear what has happened to you , darling you seem to be coping so well...its such an awful sad time for you....I know when we lost our little darling, without goin into too much detail one of the things my work did was got us a beautiful miniture rose bush...its in a pot in the garden, dh and i brought a small fairy figurine for the garden and they stand side by side, my 'thing' which also upset me that i had nothing to 'show' the little one had been there iykwim, now every yr we put little t.lites (one for each yr) on the date which was birthday and just have a little cuddle....our little one this yr sort of understood so we told her what we were doing...now she calls the rose bush and fairy .....the babies r.bush etc...very sweet and moving.....
another thing which we wasnt told at the time (prob cause i had complications and so much trauma.) but found out we should have ttc after next period again...as preg hormones still wizzing around....
darling i wish you all the luck in the world...take care my darling and give yourself time to grieve....
to everyone else...good luck darlings!
il try and be around but my healths a bit crap at the mo!
all my love and hugs
xxxxxxx

Right, seing as I'm going to be around ttc again, I thought I'd be brave and start the new thread! here

I guess we don't need to start using it yet, but didn't want MJIM or HM2J to get back off their hols and not be able to find us cos it ran out!

CE xx

angel - the fertile days according to FF are the 3 days before ov plus ov day itself. Your temp will rise on ov day and your opk should show +ve 24-36 hours before ov. And (TMI alert!)your CM should go to EWCM 24-48 hours before ov.

Does that make sense? I take all 3 into account!

LOL at 'starting too early'! This has soooo happened to us. Too tempting to get cracking and then by ov day he doesn't want to again! .

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HC - sorry for BFN, but as you say it is VERY early! Keep symptom spotting for the next 5 days! glad you are ok about it and still smiling

Baileymist (he he!) - I am a temp taker too. i reckon you should give it a go. Thermometer only cost about £3 and FF does all the brainwork. It gives me satisfaction anyway to take temp each morning! You can also clearly tell that you have def ov'd which is good!

Mandy - you still crack me up! Oysters, hmm, not sure; champagne, deffo!, how about asparagus???? Perhaps some new lingerie? It's fun trying really isn't it!?!

soosy - hope your dr's appointment goes well. What would you expect to happen next do you think? Hope you are feeling a bit more like yourself.

Well, I survived my 1st day back.It was nowhere near as bad as I thought it would be. I got 3 lovely cards, one off my colleague who had the MMC in January (you may remember me feeling sad at the time about this). She really said just the perfect thing and it did help. The kids were their usual crazy selves which was lovely! (I even enjoyed telling a couple off!)

Thanks again for everyone who was thinking nice things for me this morning.....I felt your vibes xx

Welcome back Angel/baileymist,

Just wondered whether you are still planning on going to Oz over Christmas? I don't think I got the update on that one. Love the new name by the way, how did you come up with it? I am always interested to know how people choose their MN names. Mine is the Spanish version of my real name plus the first initial of my surname. That's because I'm a Spanish teacher, so wanted a bit of a Spanish feel to it!

CE - how was work today? And how are you feeling? You said you were going to be going in to hospital (I think) on Monday - is that still the case? Hope that goes ok too.

Love to everyone else

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PS: Thanks HM2J! Have a great holiday. Although you've probably already gone.
Waves to everybody. x

Hi Juanita, weather?s a little better now, no?

Ceebee, wow, Josh is sooo cute and it looks like he has a gorgeous personality to match.

Hi Soosy, nice to see you, hope you?re ok.

Hi Angel, nice to see you. What a pain with you colleague!

HC, sorry to hear about the hay fever, hope it eases soon. Good luck with the Ebaying.

Hi there Baileymist waves

Thinking of CE, hope all went OK today.

I?m jokingly working on shopping list for the next BD Fest - 08 (summer of love) ? 27/6 ? 1/7. Am thinking some naughty bottles of Cava? Pink perhaps? And candles, and a couple of oysters a bit closer to the time? (well they sure worked magic for our wedding night)

Have a nice day all. x

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Hi all

Sorry I am a lurker these days too, trying not to get obsessed with the whole TTC thing and get on with other stuff. Also difficult with colleague constantly peeking at my machine cos she knows we are TTC and is so nosey ...!

But just to say CE, I have logged on just this morning and am so upset to hear your news. I feel so upset for you and I hope you are okay. But you seem to be coping well and your DH is a gem. I have read actually that MC are really common, but no-one talks about them, I think it's something like 1 in 4 and as you say, at least you know you can get preggers. Hope work is okay today. Chin up and we are all thinking of you.

Lots of love and hi to everyone else.

xxx

PS I am going to name-change as colleague keeps calling me "Angel" (as in "darling" etc - think she might be stalking me?!)

HC - what's happened this morning

Ceebee - he is sooooo adorable!

soosy nice to see you on here with a very timely reminder!

CE - thinking of you today hope it goes ok.

Wave to everyone else

Hello everyone, I am here, lurking for the moment, haven't decided what to do yet and have to make what's known as a follow up appointment.

I just really wanted to mention that we are at 920 posts and so should be looking for a new home!

Sx

CE - thanks for your lovely comments - of course I think is absolutely adorable I also love his blond hair/dark eyes and really really hope it stays like that - however both me and DH have very dark brown hair so it is likely that in time, his will darken aswell I probably have told you his name and not bothered about keeping it secret - he is called Josh (or Jish if you ask him) and well spotted about his age - he is 2 in July! Sorry - just gone on then but I do love talking about him

awww ceebee - he is adorable! How old is he? nearly 2? and the blond hair dark eyes combo is very sweet. He's going to break hearts you know!!!! (Did you tell us his name or do you keep it private on here?)

This might cheer you all up a little - DS decided he wanted one of my hairclips in this morning.

here is the evidence - how pretty does he look DH was not impressed and unfortunately wouldn't let me take him to nursery with it still in!

CE - good luck tomorrow and hope it all goes ok - will be thinking of you!

HM2J - have a fantastic holiday

HC - hope the testing goes well tomorrow

Hi to everyone else.

x