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14 dpo bfn is there still hope ?

55 replies

ramdom · 28/08/2024 22:56

Hi all , I hope someone can give me a little bit more insight and baby dust

I am currently 14 dpo I tested this morning and got a bfn

At 6dpo I had severe sharp twangs and stabbing pain on and off in the same spot in my right side near my groin area

Since 6dpo I've had cramping which died down and I get the occasional ache and cramp daily on and off
I have been more tired and less motivated
My boobs have been tender to touch I felt like a sudden pain in the right boob quickly
And today my left boob felt itchy

Af was due today but hasn't arrived

Am I out or is there still some hope of a bfp in the next few days ?

I hope to hear soon 🥺🥺 xx

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heartheart89 · 02/09/2024 22:26

Fingers crossed for you! However have you considered the cramps you felt at 6/7 dpo could have been you actually ovulating? Especially since no sign of period yet? X

Saschka · 02/09/2024 22:12

You can just skip periods - it happened to me a couple of times when I was ttc.

ramdom · 02/09/2024 22:05

Annie119 · 01/09/2024 21:16

Just pink not bright blood at all so that made me so hopeful but with my previous pregnancy I tested positive about 3 days before AF was due.

i know I shouldn’t compare but hard not to. Baby dust to us both 🥹

I think it's cause we both tested in afternoon

Hopefully morning urine works better for us both

We are not out until af shows

I'll keep you updated
When are you going to test again ? X

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Annie119 · 02/09/2024 21:12

ramdom · 02/09/2024 20:46

I'm going to test tomorrow ,, I'll be 6 days late and I'll be on cycle day 39 I'll use my first pee in the morning and hope for the best

I did test this afternoon I am 5 days late and was bfn it messed up my whole afternoon and evening tonight
The test did say use first morning urine so I'll hope for the best tomorrow morning instead

I just hope I get a bfp tomorrow or im going to just feel so hopeless and confused
This is the longest cycle I've had im sure im pregnant
I've had cramps since I felt implantation sharp digs on 6dpo predicted

Tomorrow I'll be predicted 19dpo

I just am just totally all over the place in my head about all this it's awful

Awh I really really hope you get a positive result tomorrow!! Keep me updated!

I couldn’t resist today and took a digital clear blue…bfn 🙈 I used it around lunch time so not my first pee either but just feel like my period is 2 days late now so surely it should show up by now??

Not sight nor sound of AF yet though but I am assuming that’s me out this cycle just wish my period would start now. My cycles are always very predictable 28 days so I’m very confused now, particularly with the bleeding that I had presumed was implantation 🥹

really hope you get your positive tomorrow 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

ramdom · 02/09/2024 20:46

I'm going to test tomorrow ,, I'll be 6 days late and I'll be on cycle day 39 I'll use my first pee in the morning and hope for the best

I did test this afternoon I am 5 days late and was bfn it messed up my whole afternoon and evening tonight
The test did say use first morning urine so I'll hope for the best tomorrow morning instead

I just hope I get a bfp tomorrow or im going to just feel so hopeless and confused
This is the longest cycle I've had im sure im pregnant
I've had cramps since I felt implantation sharp digs on 6dpo predicted

Tomorrow I'll be predicted 19dpo

I just am just totally all over the place in my head about all this it's awful

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Annie119 · 02/09/2024 10:58

ramdom · 01/09/2024 23:23

Yeah don't compare you might not be producing hcg fast enough x

Try again in few days time

And the blood does sound like implantation bleeding so these are good signs
Stay positive :) and keep me updated x

Thanks!! Still no signs of AF so here is hoping but will hold out for a few days if I can before I test again. What about you, when do you plan to retest or how are you feeling? They do say to wait until period is 3-4 days late for best results so heres hoping for us both!

sel2223 · 02/09/2024 09:23

How you getting on OP?

I have long cycles and definitely ovulate late. I don't track but I do know that the app predictors are only a very rough guess and can't be relied on.

In both pregnancies I've waited till a week after I've missed a period to test and I've had a strong BFP.
Never tried testing before that.

ramdom · 01/09/2024 23:23

Annie119 · 01/09/2024 21:16

Just pink not bright blood at all so that made me so hopeful but with my previous pregnancy I tested positive about 3 days before AF was due.

i know I shouldn’t compare but hard not to. Baby dust to us both 🥹

Yeah don't compare you might not be producing hcg fast enough x

Try again in few days time

And the blood does sound like implantation bleeding so these are good signs
Stay positive :) and keep me updated x

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Annie119 · 01/09/2024 21:16

Just pink not bright blood at all so that made me so hopeful but with my previous pregnancy I tested positive about 3 days before AF was due.

i know I shouldn’t compare but hard not to. Baby dust to us both 🥹

ramdom · 01/09/2024 21:08

Annie119 · 01/09/2024 21:02

Hi ladies, jumping on as I’m in the same boat. AF due today but no sign, been a long TWW. Had light bleeding for an hour or two the week after ovulation which I had hoped was implantation bleeding. Took a pregnancy test on Friday and it was negative (it was an early detection test) so I don’t know is that me out this month or not. no pregnancy symptoms but no PMS symptoms either so just have to wait I suppose.

Hcg could be low right now wait a couple more days x

Baby dust to you I hope get a bfp

What colour was the blood ? X

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Annie119 · 01/09/2024 21:02

Hi ladies, jumping on as I’m in the same boat. AF due today but no sign, been a long TWW. Had light bleeding for an hour or two the week after ovulation which I had hoped was implantation bleeding. Took a pregnancy test on Friday and it was negative (it was an early detection test) so I don’t know is that me out this month or not. no pregnancy symptoms but no PMS symptoms either so just have to wait I suppose.

ramdom · 01/09/2024 20:37

Ksh5460 · 29/08/2024 17:24

Joining cos I’m in a similar position! Expected period for tomorrow but have absolutely no PMS signs or pregnancy signs? Feel like a weird state of limbo 🤪 normally I do get sore boobs, cramps and bloating a few days before my period and definitely the day before, but none of that right now! had a BFN 2 days ago and today, but both didn’t use FMU so I’m holding on to hope 🤞🏻also I normally track using OPK but was away for 3 days this cycle and unable to track and as a result think I missed my peak on tests, so not actually sure when I ovulated and hoping for a late one! When I tested positive previously (ectopic) it was a day before my expected period, so I am also feeling the doubts. Going to wait until Saturday to see if my period comes, if not I’ll test again then! Fingers crossed and baby dust for the both of us xxx

Oh next cycle will be your cycle ✨ lots of baby dust sending your way

I am 18 dpo no AF or symptoms
I will test on 20 dpo with morning pee I hope I get a positive if not I'll be feeling in such limbo x

I'll keep you posted

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Ksh5460 · 01/09/2024 16:37

ramdom · 01/09/2024 10:33

Hey how's your bleeding today ? X hope your okay

Unfortunately it’s my period haha, oh well, try again next cycle! Hope you fare better than me this cycle. I would have thought you’d definitely get an accurate result by now on a test - when are you testing? X

ramdom · 01/09/2024 10:33

Ksh5460 · 29/08/2024 17:24

Joining cos I’m in a similar position! Expected period for tomorrow but have absolutely no PMS signs or pregnancy signs? Feel like a weird state of limbo 🤪 normally I do get sore boobs, cramps and bloating a few days before my period and definitely the day before, but none of that right now! had a BFN 2 days ago and today, but both didn’t use FMU so I’m holding on to hope 🤞🏻also I normally track using OPK but was away for 3 days this cycle and unable to track and as a result think I missed my peak on tests, so not actually sure when I ovulated and hoping for a late one! When I tested positive previously (ectopic) it was a day before my expected period, so I am also feeling the doubts. Going to wait until Saturday to see if my period comes, if not I’ll test again then! Fingers crossed and baby dust for the both of us xxx

Hey how's your bleeding today ? X hope your okay

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ramdom · 31/08/2024 13:05

Ksh5460 · 29/08/2024 17:24

Joining cos I’m in a similar position! Expected period for tomorrow but have absolutely no PMS signs or pregnancy signs? Feel like a weird state of limbo 🤪 normally I do get sore boobs, cramps and bloating a few days before my period and definitely the day before, but none of that right now! had a BFN 2 days ago and today, but both didn’t use FMU so I’m holding on to hope 🤞🏻also I normally track using OPK but was away for 3 days this cycle and unable to track and as a result think I missed my peak on tests, so not actually sure when I ovulated and hoping for a late one! When I tested positive previously (ectopic) it was a day before my expected period, so I am also feeling the doubts. Going to wait until Saturday to see if my period comes, if not I’ll test again then! Fingers crossed and baby dust for the both of us xxx

Hopefully it's just implantation bleeding for you was it allot of blood ?

I am still showing no AF symptoms and no AF has arrived for me I am 17 dpo (predicted) I am 4 days late

I am trying to hold out as long as is can till I test to avoid disappointment if hcg levels haven't risen much or just in case AF arrives x

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Ksh5460 · 31/08/2024 12:27

ramdom · 29/08/2024 22:51

Fingers crossed for us both and lots of baby dust ✨ af still hasn't arrived for me tomorrow I am 2 days late no symptoms of af just the occasional light cramp

I'm so convinced 6dpo I had implantation cramps

I am not testing for a few more days because it ruins my whole mood

I hope your af doesn't arrive and we both get what we are hoping for !!

Keep me informed and posted on your journey :)

Started mild cramps last night and had some minor bleeding this morning, so presume AF will make her full appearance later today 🥲 fingers crossed for my next cycle! How are you doing? X

ramdom · 29/08/2024 22:51

Ksh5460 · 29/08/2024 17:24

Joining cos I’m in a similar position! Expected period for tomorrow but have absolutely no PMS signs or pregnancy signs? Feel like a weird state of limbo 🤪 normally I do get sore boobs, cramps and bloating a few days before my period and definitely the day before, but none of that right now! had a BFN 2 days ago and today, but both didn’t use FMU so I’m holding on to hope 🤞🏻also I normally track using OPK but was away for 3 days this cycle and unable to track and as a result think I missed my peak on tests, so not actually sure when I ovulated and hoping for a late one! When I tested positive previously (ectopic) it was a day before my expected period, so I am also feeling the doubts. Going to wait until Saturday to see if my period comes, if not I’ll test again then! Fingers crossed and baby dust for the both of us xxx

Fingers crossed for us both and lots of baby dust ✨ af still hasn't arrived for me tomorrow I am 2 days late no symptoms of af just the occasional light cramp

I'm so convinced 6dpo I had implantation cramps

I am not testing for a few more days because it ruins my whole mood

I hope your af doesn't arrive and we both get what we are hoping for !!

Keep me informed and posted on your journey :)

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Ksh5460 · 29/08/2024 17:24

Joining cos I’m in a similar position! Expected period for tomorrow but have absolutely no PMS signs or pregnancy signs? Feel like a weird state of limbo 🤪 normally I do get sore boobs, cramps and bloating a few days before my period and definitely the day before, but none of that right now! had a BFN 2 days ago and today, but both didn’t use FMU so I’m holding on to hope 🤞🏻also I normally track using OPK but was away for 3 days this cycle and unable to track and as a result think I missed my peak on tests, so not actually sure when I ovulated and hoping for a late one! When I tested positive previously (ectopic) it was a day before my expected period, so I am also feeling the doubts. Going to wait until Saturday to see if my period comes, if not I’ll test again then! Fingers crossed and baby dust for the both of us xxx

ramdom · 29/08/2024 13:29

Augustisnearlydonesogoodbyesun · 29/08/2024 13:23

I had a dd after dtd on day 23 of a 28 day cycle.. Dp worked away so was def then.. No positive test until 2 weeks late!! Dd was born a week late on hospital dates..

Thankyou this really gives me hope that you had late ovulation in your cycle and you conceived

Dtd
14/08/2024
16/08/2024
20/08/2024
23/08/2024
27/08/2024
28/08/2024

I'm 1 day late and no signs of af
So let hope at least one of these swimmers have caught me and on the day of missed period hcg wasn't high enough 🤣lol

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Augustisnearlydonesogoodbyesun · 29/08/2024 13:23

I had a dd after dtd on day 23 of a 28 day cycle.. Dp worked away so was def then.. No positive test until 2 weeks late!! Dd was born a week late on hospital dates..

ramdom · 29/08/2024 13:20

Rory17384949 · 29/08/2024 12:57

You might have ovulated a day or two later than you thought so definitely still hope until AF actually arrives!

Intercourse on 14/08/2024 and 16/08/2024

Clear blue has these predictions for ovulation dates

I am just hoping my hcg levels was to low to detect when I tested ✨ baby dust to me please 😭 I know I felt implantation day 6dpo and 7dpo right side pricking and digging and since then I have had on and off aches and cramps

I just can't do another test because yesterday ruined my whole mood with the pfn

14 dpo bfn is there still hope ?
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Rory17384949 · 29/08/2024 12:57

You might have ovulated a day or two later than you thought so definitely still hope until AF actually arrives!

ramdom · 29/08/2024 12:52

LemonBitter · 29/08/2024 12:22

If still no AF there's still a massive chance! Good luck xx

Thankyou I really hope so , 🥰🫂 I just need these hcg level to rise and give me a BFP !! Lol

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LemonBitter · 29/08/2024 12:22

If still no AF there's still a massive chance! Good luck xx

ramdom · 29/08/2024 11:46

LemonBitter · 29/08/2024 08:27

Hey @ramdom yes I got a negative on the day my period was due and a vvvvvvvvfl on the day after. A positive 2 days after on a stick but negative on digital then positive on digital 3 days after ☺️ have you tested today?

This really gives me hope thankyou for the positivity
I've not tested today I'll hold out until next week so I don't keep getting disappointed

I have no af symptoms etc and I really hope I get my bfp ( fingers crossed ) xx

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