TTC after loss part 5

I am 7dpo and trying to stay positive. I have said to myself if we do get a BFP that would be amazing. If AF comes it’s also amazing and my body is regulating after MC. Fingers crossed for everyone xx

I'm doing ok. Going to give this month our best shot and then the testing will be a few days after af is due so at least we'll know what the story is a week after that

@Mummysparrow Thank you, that sounds really good, could you send me the code please? How have you been? A holiday in the sun sounds lovely! x

@Babydust99 Just catching up on the messages, I am so sorry, it's awful getting a false positive... I had one a few months back on a first response and it was awful. How are you feeling now? x

@Figtree11 Sounds like you have a good chance this month being away and nice and relaxed in the sun. Very jealous of all if the sunny holidays 😎 x

I hadn't been tracking and it's been much more relaxing... well as relaxing as ttc can be lol. But I found 2 opk tests left so took one yesterday (when I would normally get my positive opk and ovulate) but it was negative and took the other today, also negative. I have stopped most of my supplements, so maybe that big change has messed up ovulation. Or maybe I ovulated even earlier like on cd11.
We have an event tonight, getting hair and makeup, all dressed up and staying over in the hotel after so that will be nice for a change.

How is everyone else getting on? x

Thanks! I figured it was worth wasting a pack of cheap tests rather than forking out on a frer! I can pop it out my mind for a few days and be patient! I probably would have paid if I was more optimistic about our chances this month. We are reliant on early ovulation as we were too knackered later in the week!

@Mummysparrow the weather has been bliss. Hot & sunny everyday luckily for us! Hope you have an amazing time in Turkey.

@Superscientist i’m sorry it was negative, but sounds like it was too early to test, so hopefully better news on Monday

@Superscientist 😂 love it. I sometimes use cheapie ones earlier then 10dpo if I have the itch to test (I use ones from Amazon) but I generally I know I won't get a Positive on cheapies before 11dpo so i may use a FRER before then

@Figtree11 oh lovely. I hope you have avoided the bad weather which some of Greece has had. I am going to Turkey. I am sharing the room with my daughter so not going to have much chance to DTD whilst away.

@Mummysparrow I'm very much an all or nothing person. I'd be testing hourly! 😂

I did take a wander to the shops and got a test. Only cheap supermarket own ones so I'm probably too early to test with them. It was negative I'll be waiting for Monday before using the other one.

I hope the timing gods are smiling down on you both. Next month will be a bit tight for us as my partner is away with work.

@Mummysparrow I’m in Greece. Where are you going to? I hope ovulation comes soon. I’ve been the opposite, hoping ovulation has happened while I’m away 😆

Where are you on holiday @Figtree11 ? I am off on Holiday in a weeks time and I can't wait.
I am cd7 so I am hoping ovulation comes next week before I go on holiday but with how it has been I am not pinning my luck on it.
Fingers crossed for you @Superscientist
I am impressed at those who manage to wait to test. The longest I hold out to is 9dpo 😂

@Superscientist i’ve everything crossed for you. Let us know how you get on.

I’m on holiday until Saturday. Then it’s a year to the day since I found out I was pregnant for the first time. Sometimes struggle to think why is it that my life has turned out like this

I estimate that I'm 9-13dpo. I had EWCM on cd 10 and 11. Day 13 is the estimate for ovulation based on lmp and my average cycle length. My period is due Monday. I'm trying to hold out until the weekend. It will probably the next time I'm at the shops anyway.

Fingers crossed the EWCM is a sign. Try not to over think things. How long is left of your holiday?

@Superscientist how many DPO do you think you are? Sounds like lots of positive signs

Thank you - I did have what I think was ewcm for like a week, but haven’t been ovulation testing while away so don’t know if it is anything

CD23 here, trying to stay distracted. My boobs are tingly, I do wonder if I ovulated early. I don't track it but I would have to have ovulated early to have conceived. I've lost half a kilo too which happened in previous pregnancies. I was going to buy a test yesterday but the car broke down. I don't want to test to early and obsess about barely visible lines!

I'm glad you are enjoying your holiday, it's understandable that it's still on your mind. I hope you feel signs of ovulation soon x

How is everyone?

I’m on holiday which has really helped with the TTC blues, although it’s never far from my mind like usual.
CD19 and don’t think I have ovulated yet.

I’m sorry @Babydust99 I hope you get a plan of action going forwards after the testing

@Babydust99 we're in a similar boat. It sucks doesn't it. All my tests are completely normal too. If we don't conceive again by July (or if we have another loss) I think I'm done TTC and we're going down the adoption pathway. It's been 7 years (actively trying for over 4) and 3 MMCs, tons of tests, and I'm just exhausted.

Hopefully the testing will give you some answers. Even when a thing becomes your normal it can still occasionally blindside you, just because it's something that happens more frequently it doesn't always make things easier. There's no right or wrong way to feel or act. If you feel ok that's good but it's ok if you're not or something in between or moving between both situations.

Thanks everyone. I'm used to it now after 4 losses and over 2 years ttc. We are getting fertility testing done next month so we at least know if there is something more than sticky blood going on

I'm cd21 and getting inklings that I might have conceived. My breasts are tingling and I've lost a bit of weight (which I have done with my previous pregnancies). I had EWCM on days 10 & 11. I had said I wouldn't test until after my missed period. I did 5 days after with the previous ones not intentionally though. It feels like a long wait but don't want to stress about barely visible lines! It feels like it might be a long week!

Oh I'm sorry @Babydust99. Squishy cuddles. Take care of yourself x

Sorry to read this. Hope your ok x

Thanks everyone. Af has showed up this afternoon, 3 days late 🥴

Congratulations @Babydust99 it very much looks positive to me

@Ladyinpink1 I am using naître supplements. The vitamins are liposomes and they are easier for the body to absorb. The reviews are amazing so thought it was worth a try. Very pricey but if it helps in a month or two its worth it. I got a discount on it as well. I believe I was sent another discount code for 20% off of anyone wanted it.

Could you contact the person prescribing the injections for advice?
They will have an idea on balancing the risk of not staying them early enough Vs potentially having them unnecessarily if your start taking them and you get your period