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TTC after loss part 5

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Ella31 · 04/08/2024 18:18

Just continuing our old thread. I've added anyone who has asked to stay on here. As always, anyone who is trying after a loss is welcome to join and those who have been lucky since are welcome to encourage those who are still waiting for their rainbow (if you want to stay of course )

Also for the next thread, I'm going to let someone else take over creating the new one if people don't mind. I've a lot on at the moment with tests and I'm back to work in the next few weeks after my bereavement leave with my boys. So if anyone would like to take the mantle, feel free.

Im 2dpo today and have another ultrasound on Wednesday to see if follicle has burst followed by pdg blood test.

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@Figtree11

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moosey89 · 12/09/2024 16:29

That's great news @Ella31 - hope your sickness doesn't last too long!

Well - I just got a phone call to say I've got the job I have been interviewing for! So excited, not sure how to handle TTC at this stage....I have 1 months notice in my current job, given how long it takes us to conceive I'm thinking we just keep trying because the odds are against us but I don't want to screw over a new company....guess it would be a 3 month maternity leave if we get pregnant in the next 4 or 5 months! Cross that bridge if we come to it I guess.

ApplesNest · 12/09/2024 16:17

Ella31 · 12/09/2024 15:52

Sorry I've been so absent. Dying sick the last few days. Scan went well. I'm 8 weeks tomorrow.

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That’s great news @Ella31, hope you feel a bit better!

ApplesNest · 12/09/2024 16:15

lilyvioletroses · 11/09/2024 09:21

I hope I'm asking in the right place. I can't tell if I'm going mad or not but I'm sure I can see a line. Can anyone help please?

I see something, very faint. See if you can take another photo. It’s tricky trying to get the focus on tests, almost like amateur photography and capturing it at the right angle with enough light and clarity!

My lines started out like that, faintest of faint and then got stronger every other day.

LucyCL · 12/09/2024 16:02

Ella31 · 12/09/2024 15:52

Sorry I've been so absent. Dying sick the last few days. Scan went well. I'm 8 weeks tomorrow.

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I am so glad the scan went well.

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Ella31 · 12/09/2024 15:54

ThelastRolo20 · 10/09/2024 06:56

Sorry about the BFN, they're always so disappointing ❤️

@Ella31 I hope your appointment with the consultant/ your scan goes well today. Will be thinking of you x

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Thanks @ThelastRolo20 all good thankfully. Very nauseous so trying to survive at the moment. Hope you are good

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Ella31 · 12/09/2024 15:52

Figtree11 · 11/09/2024 01:26

@Ella31 i hope you got on ok today?

@Ncl31 I’m sorry about the bfn. I’m impatiently waiting for AF to finish

Sorry I've been so absent. Dying sick the last few days. Scan went well. I'm 8 weeks tomorrow.

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DonnaWhat · 11/09/2024 18:39

lilyvioletroses · 11/09/2024 09:21

I hope I'm asking in the right place. I can't tell if I'm going mad or not but I'm sure I can see a line. Can anyone help please?

It's not a very clear picture. Can you retake it?

lilyvioletroses · 11/09/2024 09:21

I hope I'm asking in the right place. I can't tell if I'm going mad or not but I'm sure I can see a line. Can anyone help please?

TTC after loss part 5
Figtree11 · 11/09/2024 01:26

@Ella31 i hope you got on ok today?

@Ncl31 I’m sorry about the bfn. I’m impatiently waiting for AF to finish

Ncl31 · 10/09/2024 21:21

Ladyinpink1 · 10/09/2024 20:59

@Ncl31 I'm really sorry about your bfn, it's just devestating seeing a negative test, hope you are ok and that your period arrives soon so you can start a fresh new cycle x

@MrsS11 Not sure about the tests, hope you get some clarity soon x

I hope it does too.

Ladyinpink1 · 10/09/2024 20:59

@Ncl31 I'm really sorry about your bfn, it's just devestating seeing a negative test, hope you are ok and that your period arrives soon so you can start a fresh new cycle x

@MrsS11 Not sure about the tests, hope you get some clarity soon x

DonnaWhat · 10/09/2024 19:40

MrsS11 · 10/09/2024 15:53

I swore long ago I wouldn't use ovulation sticks because they clearly make you crazy and here I am again 🤦‍♀️ I'm on CD13 and had a rise but it's not very high, only 0.5 and seems to be going down again. Saying that, the month I conceived my little girl it was only 0.79, I do drink a lot through the day. I'm only on my second period after mc but it does seem pretty regular. Do you think I'm not really ovulating, or it's just not showing up on the tests? Last month was 0.6 and period was about 2 weeks later

You can fou ke check the figures by adjusting the colours on the chart on premom looking at the lines I'd say that was definitely a peak. Good luck xxxx

MrsS11 · 10/09/2024 15:53

I swore long ago I wouldn't use ovulation sticks because they clearly make you crazy and here I am again 🤦‍♀️ I'm on CD13 and had a rise but it's not very high, only 0.5 and seems to be going down again. Saying that, the month I conceived my little girl it was only 0.79, I do drink a lot through the day. I'm only on my second period after mc but it does seem pretty regular. Do you think I'm not really ovulating, or it's just not showing up on the tests? Last month was 0.6 and period was about 2 weeks later

TTC after loss part 5
emmatcc1 · 10/09/2024 09:12

Cd19 today still no bbt rise and no symptoms of ovulation. This is really frustrating.

ThelastRolo20 · 10/09/2024 06:56

Ncl31 · 10/09/2024 06:15

BFN this morning at 12DPO

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Sorry about the BFN, they're always so disappointing ❤️

@Ella31 I hope your appointment with the consultant/ your scan goes well today. Will be thinking of you x

Ncl31 · 10/09/2024 06:15

Renee33 · 08/09/2024 22:02

@Ncl31 fingers crossed you get a BFP!!

BFN this morning at 12DPO

Renee33 · 08/09/2024 22:02

@Ncl31 fingers crossed you get a BFP!!

Ncl31 · 08/09/2024 21:36

Ella31 · 08/09/2024 21:13

@Figtree11 only checking in now. Sorry Af is here bit hoping this is a fresh start for you.

@Ncl31 how are you? Have you tested?

Yes I tested this morning at 10DPO, BFN as expected.
going to try and wait until Tuesday now. I got my first BFP on the evening of 12DPO

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Ella31 · 08/09/2024 21:15

Joleyjojo · 08/09/2024 13:54

I bought my LH tests with me. I did one this morning which would be 11 days post op. Not even a slight 2nd line. I have always had 2 lines obviously lighter when not ovulating but I didn’t even have a feint feint one. Is that normal to just have 0 LH xxx

I had it a lot. I usually have a fast surge so my lines would be very weak and then just pop in the two days leading up to ovulation

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Ella31 · 08/09/2024 21:13

@Figtree11 only checking in now. Sorry Af is here bit hoping this is a fresh start for you.

@Ncl31 how are you? Have you tested?

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Figtree11 · 08/09/2024 17:59

Thanks @Ladyinpink1 yeah I’m glad there is no uncertainty. Just feeling a little sorry for myself today that it came. And hoping it’s not another 5/6 weeks til I ovulate again like last cycle

Ladyinpink1 · 08/09/2024 14:56

Sorry your period has arrived @Figtree11 but also glad for you that you have a definite answer rather than the wondering, which drives us mad doesn't it. x

Figtree11 · 08/09/2024 14:38

DonnaWhat · 08/09/2024 11:07

@Figtree11 Good to see your bleeding has started. I wish you all the very best of luck in your next cycle. I hope they start to regulate for you. I know the last cycle was a very challenging one for you. I have everything crossed for you.

Thank you xx I really hope it’s not as long a cycle this time

Joleyjojo · 08/09/2024 14:38

LucyCL · 08/09/2024 14:30

You always have LH in your system and your urine could be very diluted to have no lines. x

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I did think this. I will check again tomorrow I have been drinking a lot of fluids whilst on holiday x

LucyCL · 08/09/2024 14:30

Joleyjojo · 08/09/2024 13:54

I bought my LH tests with me. I did one this morning which would be 11 days post op. Not even a slight 2nd line. I have always had 2 lines obviously lighter when not ovulating but I didn’t even have a feint feint one. Is that normal to just have 0 LH xxx

You always have LH in your system and your urine could be very diluted to have no lines. x

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