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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Oh help! Just done a test ....

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Disenchanted · 10/04/2008 13:21

its a first response and Im on CD28,

I watched it go acoss (the pee) and immediatly the control line went pink and a shadow came on the test line the shadow was there immediatly so I got soooo excited and ran into the kitchen and put the test on the side,

at 3 mins the line hasn't gone pink butits still there,

Nobody is here to tell me if Im nutty or not!

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LilRedWG · 11/04/2008 09:06

Unfortunately, it can become all consuming and the only thing you can think about is becoming pregnant. It would be lovely if you could just forget about it.

TrinityTheProgressingRhino · 11/04/2008 09:04

I guess so belgo
It's not like I haven't been in the position of being desperate to fall pregnant
I just feel that maybe the stress can be reduced by trying to forget about it
I mean you onyl have to keep having lots of sex and you can remmeber to do that

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Disenchanted · 11/04/2008 09:03

Well, if you look on the conception board practically every woman on there knows their cycle day.

Each to their own.

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TrinityTheProgressingRhino · 11/04/2008 09:03

I never knew that lol
Now I can understand loads of posts better lol

belgo · 11/04/2008 09:03

I think TTC can become very stressful very quickly, even if you are relatively relaxed about it.

belgo · 11/04/2008 09:02

Knowing what cycle day you are on is very simple - it is counted from the first day of your last period.

TrinityTheProgressingRhino · 11/04/2008 09:01

oh right sorry never knew that
I dont mean to offend I just can't imagine why you would need to

It took just over a year to concieve dd2 and I just kept having sex and prayed I wouldn't come on

It was less stressful than what I read about here I feel

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Disenchanted · 11/04/2008 09:00

Ive only tested twice.

Yesterday and 1 a couple of days before that.

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Disenchanted · 11/04/2008 08:59

Why wouldn't I know what CD Im on?, it just means cycle day.

CD1 is the first day of your period and then you count on.

Just helps you remember when things are due.

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TrinityTheProgressingRhino · 11/04/2008 08:58

sorry
I was just wanting to ask because then I would be able to understand why you are testign so much and why you even know about what cd your on (whatever that means)

sorry

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Disenchanted · 11/04/2008 08:58

sorry, Belgo x-posts, wasn't directed at you.

Am waiting till sunday, thanks.

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Disenchanted · 11/04/2008 08:57

Uhh, .... Ok then . Lol.

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belgo · 11/04/2008 08:56

I think it's a good idea to wait until sunday to do a test - I know it's hard waiting - but at least by then if it's a BFP then it should be clear.

Good luck

TrinityTheProgressingRhino · 11/04/2008 08:55

oh right

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Disenchanted · 11/04/2008 08:54

Nope.
Not at all.

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TrinityTheProgressingRhino · 11/04/2008 08:52

could I just ask please
do you have some diagnosed problems with conceiving?

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Disenchanted · 11/04/2008 08:48

Af still isnt here for me,

My last one came CD27 and its CD29 for me today. Didn't test this morning, think I will wait till Sunday if shes not here by then.

Was feeling really crampy yesterday.

And if Im going to be totally honest I haven't had any PMT! Im usually like a banshee but nothing hmm

If I hadn't done that test yesterday I would be sure I was PG!

Nothing to do but wait!

Can I ask about CM too please? I went to the loo yesterday and had cloudy really string CM, any ideas?

Thanks x

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londonlottie · 10/04/2008 22:17

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downbutnotout · 10/04/2008 21:39

Don't worry - trust me, so many of us on here have been right where you are now.

But to be an echo: don't keep the tests in the house. You will drive yourself nuts!

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Disenchanted · 10/04/2008 21:17

Sorry if I offended anyone who has said similar to me BTW

Was just randomly ranting!

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Disenchanted · 10/04/2008 21:14

I will lissie,

I just wish AF would come because for every person that says 'oh, well hope AF comes soon and you can get on with next month' (which I want to do) theres 4 saying ' I tested a day late BFN then 2 days later got a BFP'

Which I know may well be true, and they are just trying to give me hope but I HATE hope! lol

Because you start to hope again then get another BFN, then someone else says 'its not over yet' and you start to hope, ... tehn AF comes and you feel like a fool!

lol

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OracleInaCoracle · 10/04/2008 17:46

disenchanted, test again on saturday if no af. lots of women dont get bfp's til af is a few days late.

serendippity · 10/04/2008 17:42

Aw, sorry disenchanted don't loose hope, if it is very early still test again on sat as you planned.
Good luck x

jassara · 10/04/2008 17:41

Hi Disenchanted sorry to hear about your BFN, it's so heart wrenching when you get one

Think we have very similar cycles cos when i was lurking last month i followed your testing as we were on the same day of cycle (i'm not a stalker honest) but same as you it was a BFN for me too. This month I haven't kept any tests in the house as I used up so many last month! and i haven't felt so uptight about it.

So what i'm saying is if it doesn't work out for you this month (but i really hope it does ) don't keep any tests in the house just buy one when your period is late i think it makes it a bit easier

The witch got me by the way so CD1 again!

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Disenchanted · 10/04/2008 13:35

I promised myself I wound not even do it till Saturday.

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