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Do you see what I see?

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DoraBella88 · 02/07/2024 06:16

5 days late, had slight blood the day after I was due when wiping then spend last night in tears as had some brown when I wiped.

woke up this morning and decided to test again as no actual period yet.

i did 3 tests 🙈 husband can see them too but says we should just stay calm and relax 😂 we’ve been ttc for over 10yrs so we’re both extremely cautious

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Itonlytakesone · 09/08/2024 19:26

Oh no that's not the news you wanted to hear over the weekend. Be positive though least you know what your body is doing naturally don't worry I know it's easy to say but nothing you can do can change it. Just see it as a 'preview' and plan what your next move is. You've got this. Iv just been through a miscarriage- a blighted ovum so cruel I was 9 week's devastating. I'm ok now I'm pondering ttc but super scared. You are not alone we can do this 🥺

englandareamazing · 09/08/2024 19:05

Oh I'm so sorry! Hoping it's a fluke...

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DoraBella88 · 09/08/2024 19:04

So EPU just called….

my levels have dropped from 60 to 45 😢
so I’ve got to go back on Sunday for another blood test to check again

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VerityUnreasonble · 09/08/2024 18:17

Hoping you have an answer soon (and lots of hopes for positive news)

LoveSeptember · 09/08/2024 18:16

Good luck, I have everything crossed for you 😊 x

Itonlytakesone · 09/08/2024 17:55

@DoraBella88
Ahh we are all waiting with our fingers crossed waiting for your update Smile! Praying for doubling figured over here 🙏🏻

Ahhhhhbisto · 09/08/2024 17:46

Really hoping you have a good outcome and you hear from them soon Flowers

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DoraBella88 · 09/08/2024 16:56

Thank you both ❤️

I won’t lie, the wait is killing me 🤪 but I appreciate all the positive vibes.

I’ll update as soon as I hear from them

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alloutofcareunits · 09/08/2024 16:49

I never comment on these threads but just wanted to send positive vibes and hope you have a successful outcome, I've been following the thread. You've been treated very poorly by services, I've everything crossed for you today 🤞🏻

Pelotonconvert · 09/08/2024 16:29

Fingers crossed and positive vibes!! Xx

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DoraBella88 · 09/08/2024 14:43

Thanks everyone. Blood test all done. Will get the results by the end of the day, so up till 8pm!

the staff at EPU were amazing! Husband came with me and felt quite calm. Just watching my phone like a hawk now 😂
fingers crossed they’ve doubled!!!!

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Whodrunkallthegin · 09/08/2024 14:41

I'm on tenterhooks for you. Wishing you well and sending positive vibes your way.

DeathWinsAGolfish · 09/08/2024 14:25

Fingers crossed and positive vibes! 🤞🏼💕

2BabyOrNot2Baby · 09/08/2024 14:14

Hope everything went well for you @DoraBella88 x

DontBiteTheCat · 09/08/2024 11:56

Sending so much love and all the good vibes for you today!

I’ll be thinking of you x

Incakewetrust · 09/08/2024 11:34

Good luck today! I'll be thinking of you xx

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DoraBella88 · 09/08/2024 10:51

@Itonlytakesone they said I would get the results today. So hopefully won’t have to wait too long

@MocktailMe yes thankfully my husband will be with me. Honestly I have massive hospital anxiety so I need him there to try and help keep me calm

my appointment is at 1.30 🙈

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MocktailMe · 09/08/2024 10:39

The very best of luck today, how lovely that your husband is able to come with you. What time will you be having your blood test?

Itonlytakesone · 09/08/2024 10:37

@DoraBella88
Good luck. When did they say you'd get the results? I hope they tell you later on, be a bit mean to leave you sweating until Monday🙈

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DoraBella88 · 09/08/2024 09:29

Thank you. My husband is amazing… most of the time lol. He won’t come in to the blood test with me but will come and wait with me. My anxiety can get the better of me and I feel better holding on to him. I don’t want to say I’m feeling positive but I do have a little hope. Driving in to work this morning I just kept manifesting it to be double 🙈

but as I say, at least by the end of the day we should know what’s going on

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DoraBella88 · 09/08/2024 08:49

Morning ladies.

today is answers day. To say I’m scared would be an understatement! But I just keep telling myself that at least I’ll know what’s going on. I’m working this morning so will try and keep
myself busy before I have to leave for the hospital. My husband is meeting me there and coming to hold my hand 😂

I managed not to test this morning. I didn’t see the point as it wouldn’t actually tell me anything. So we will just wait and see what the results come back at.

positive vibes appreciated ❤️

Ah your husband is a gem, mine absolutely hates needles so never wants to be anywhere near unless he absolutely has to 🤣

Oh well done with your restraint, I know how difficult it can be resisting the urge!

Hope your blood test goes well and your results are speedy and amazing! 🥰

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DoraBella88 · 09/08/2024 08:49

Morning ladies.

today is answers day. To say I’m scared would be an understatement! But I just keep telling myself that at least I’ll know what’s going on. I’m working this morning so will try and keep
myself busy before I have to leave for the hospital. My husband is meeting me there and coming to hold my hand 😂

I managed not to test this morning. I didn’t see the point as it wouldn’t actually tell me anything. So we will just wait and see what the results come back at.

positive vibes appreciated ❤️

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DoraBella88 · 08/08/2024 18:45

Thank you thank you thank you everyone.

honestly I just keep crying. I think it’s the relief that I’m finally going to get some answers. Whatever comes I can deal with it. But this limbo land is just torture.

the lady I spoke with was so so lovely. She explained all possible outcomes and what would happen next if it was each one. So I really do feel that whatever the results are tomorrow I will be looked after regardless.

My boss is being incredible and has just told me to do what i need to do. Luckily we are very quiet tomorrow so me leaving won’t interrupt my shop.

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MocktailMe · 08/08/2024 18:16

Whatever the outcome it's amazing to know there will be answers after tomorrow.

I wouldn't be too disheartened by that 60, but that's easier said than done, and given none of us know what will be I'll just keep hoping for you to be treated well and get an answer quickly.

Will be thinking of you and you've got the support of so many of us ladies behind you with this - you're not going through it alone!

2BabyOrNot2Baby · 08/08/2024 18:10

Oh amazing! Hoping it's the best news, especially just in time for the weekend ☺️ hopefully it feels like a weight lifted off your shoulders and you're able to just breathe again. You've got this 🥰

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