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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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TWW 4DPO

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Lovedatforme · 24/06/2024 17:44

Currently at 4DPO, anyone want to join?

TTC baby no2, first cycle ended in MMC so this TWW has already been an anxious one!

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Lovedatforme · 25/06/2024 21:31

katieak · 25/06/2024 15:18

What do you all do to pass the time and take your mind off watching the days tick down?

I have an 8 month old so pretty busy with him 😂

I find the nights the worst though, so much time to get obsessed with your own thoughts lying in bed. It's so hard not to constantly think about it.

@BlueberryPoppy123 It's so hard. I'm fine most of the day and then when I lie down all the thoughts start.

@cocodaisy 8DPO is still pretty early so try and keep some hope ❤

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cocodaisy · 25/06/2024 18:05

Today is 8dpo for me. I caved in and took a test this morning and it was BFN. I do think I'm out this cycle but there is that tiniest slither of hope in the back of my mind. This seems to be the longest 2ww ever.

katieak · 25/06/2024 16:05

Oh no @Dullblue1234 ! Although a massage does sound like a nice treat. Now what to do with the other 12 days 😂

Dullblue1234 · 25/06/2024 15:57

katieak · 25/06/2024 15:18

What do you all do to pass the time and take your mind off watching the days tick down?

I just went for a massage... thought it would relax me. Turns out I spent an hour thinking about ttc. 😂

katieak · 25/06/2024 15:18

What do you all do to pass the time and take your mind off watching the days tick down?

BlueberryPoppy123 · 25/06/2024 14:08

@Lovedatforme it is. I've felt rotten today too so I've spent all day so far laid in bed exhausted after being up half the nights with cramps (don't think related to TTC) and just keep thinking through how the year will play out if I am pregnant in my own little world. I think I'm becoming slightly obsessive and I'm only on cycle 2 😫

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Lovedatforme · 25/06/2024 14:01

@BlueberryPoppy123 The waiting is painful isn't it? 😭

How is everyone today?

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BlueberryPoppy123 · 24/06/2024 23:32

Hi I'm 1dpo. We've been BDing every other day since af. I don't know how I'm going to get through the next 9 days without taking a test. This is only cycle 2 for us but I've been waiting 4 years for my husband to agree to baby 3. So feels like forever! I know I'll be crushed if AF arrives.

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Lovedatforme · 24/06/2024 21:29

Sorry to hear some of you had losses too.

It took us 7 cycles to conceive our first, I have endometriosis and a low AMH level so we wanted to try again soon after in case it took the same time. Waited 6 months and was shocked it happened on the first cycle but sadly had the MMC.

It's so hard not to test early, i'm going to try and wait until at least 10DPO but we'll see how that goes 🙃I didn't track my ovulation the first cycle we tried and I had the MMC so I've no idea how many DPO I got the positive test.

Fingers crossed for us all.

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MaryMax · 24/06/2024 21:20

Lovedatforme · 24/06/2024 17:44

Currently at 4DPO, anyone want to join?

TTC baby no2, first cycle ended in MMC so this TWW has already been an anxious one!

Sorry to hear about your loss! I’ll join you for the wait, I’m DPO 2 so slightly behind you 🙂

Baby number 1 for me 🤞🏼

Kiwiburgh · 24/06/2024 21:13

I'm 7dpo trying for number 3.
1st was concieved 1st cycle and 2nd was concieved 6th cycle after two chemicals.

I'm going to go try and wait until 11dpo to test but I usually cave at 8dpo 🙈

Dullblue1234 · 24/06/2024 20:30

I'm 8dpo, cycle 1, TTC baby2.
Got a couple of expired tests in the cupboard, might try one tomorrow 😂

cocodaisy · 24/06/2024 20:20

Sorry for both of your losses.
I'm 7dpo and on my first cycle of ttc. Trying hard not to symptom spot but it's been so hard.

katieak · 24/06/2024 20:19

Sorry to hear about your loss. I'm just entering it but only 1DPO so I'm a bit behind you. Fingers crossed for us all!

Ksh5460 · 24/06/2024 20:07

Sorry for your loss.
8dpo here. Took a test today (I’ll never learn) as I feel like death warmed up, got a BFN, but know it’s very early so still have hope. This will be my 3rd cycle TTC, first cycle I got pregnant straight away but unfortunately it was ectopic, so I definitely feel you on the anxiety 🫶🏻