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TWW 4DPO

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Lovedatforme · 24/06/2024 17:44

Currently at 4DPO, anyone want to join?

TTC baby no2, first cycle ended in MMC so this TWW has already been an anxious one!

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Lovedatforme · 22/07/2024 14:16

BlueberryPoppy123 · 22/07/2024 12:42

I was told bbt doesn't work if you aren't having at least 4 hours of solid sleep before waking up and immediately testing temp. That's why it's no good for me I never get a solid 4 hours so my temps are all over the show

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Okay mine are def not reliable so, my little one is having horrible nights so I'm getting very short stretches.

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BlueberryPoppy123 · 22/07/2024 12:42

Lovedatforme · 18/07/2024 14:22

@Kiwiburgh Yes i've been using OPK's but cheap premom ones and been taking BBT, I was expecting my cycle to be a bit all over the place after the MMC but it seems to be back to normal after my first period. I've heard the cheapie ones are easily to read than the clear blue?

This is our 3rd cycle trying after our first baby. First cycle resulted in the MMC, no luck after that and this is the 2nd.

This is my chart so far. My BBT seems to be a bit up & down due to illness and no sleep with the baby.

I was told bbt doesn't work if you aren't having at least 4 hours of solid sleep before waking up and immediately testing temp. That's why it's no good for me I never get a solid 4 hours so my temps are all over the show

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Lovedatforme · 18/07/2024 14:22

@Kiwiburgh Yes i've been using OPK's but cheap premom ones and been taking BBT, I was expecting my cycle to be a bit all over the place after the MMC but it seems to be back to normal after my first period. I've heard the cheapie ones are easily to read than the clear blue?

This is our 3rd cycle trying after our first baby. First cycle resulted in the MMC, no luck after that and this is the 2nd.

This is my chart so far. My BBT seems to be a bit up & down due to illness and no sleep with the baby.

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Dullblue1234 · 17/07/2024 20:37

I'm on day 9 of flashing smileys so not sure what's going on really 🙈 flo predicted ov was on Sunday just gone... So that's clearly BS! 😭
OH has gone away for work, so think my chances are slim this month.

Kiwiburgh · 17/07/2024 19:42

@Lovedatforme do you use opks?
I have been using clear blue digital advanced these two cycles. First cycle i got three days of flashing smiles so was pretty easy. This cycle I had 6, there's no way dh could go even every 2nd day of that plus peak and day after 😅
What cycle is this for you.

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Lovedatforme · 17/07/2024 19:28

Kiwiburgh · 17/07/2024 19:22

@Lovedatforme I'm now 1dpo. I'm not feeling optimistic as only able to dtd 5,4 and 2 days before ovulation. Although possible I feel 4&5 days are a little far away :(
Hopefully this is our month!

We can be in this together, hopefully it'll be our month😊I find it hard to get the timings of BD right with ovulation, but I think we got 3 & 2 days before and day of ovulation if the apps are right but who knows really.

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Kiwiburgh · 17/07/2024 19:22

@Lovedatforme I'm now 1dpo. I'm not feeling optimistic as only able to dtd 5,4 and 2 days before ovulation. Although possible I feel 4&5 days are a little far away :(
Hopefully this is our month!

BlueberryPoppy123 · 17/07/2024 18:32

Lovedatforme · 17/07/2024 17:50

Oooh no 😒How're you feeling now?

Heading into the TWW again tomorrow! Anyone else?

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Still not right haven't been able to keep food in since I had it. Goes straight through me or comes back up I lost 5lb last week 😫. I haven't even ovulated yet still doing opks waiting for my peak that's due next week

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Lovedatforme · 17/07/2024 17:50

BlueberryPoppy123 · 12/07/2024 17:58

Oh same! Only positive test I've had recently!!

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Oooh no 😒How're you feeling now?

Heading into the TWW again tomorrow! Anyone else?

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BlueberryPoppy123 · 12/07/2024 17:58

Lovedatforme · 10/07/2024 14:20

I'm sorry 🙁I'm also feeling yucky since last night, wondering if it's covid or something 🙃Hopefully the next cycle will be our time xx

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Oh same! Only positive test I've had recently!!

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Lovedatforme · 10/07/2024 14:20

BlueberryPoppy123 · 09/07/2024 22:26

Finally got AF today :( 3 days late. Feel horrendous maybe coming down with something I wonder if that's why I was late. Onto our next cycle. Baby dust to all x

I'm sorry 🙁I'm also feeling yucky since last night, wondering if it's covid or something 🙃Hopefully the next cycle will be our time xx

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BlueberryPoppy123 · 09/07/2024 22:26

Finally got AF today :( 3 days late. Feel horrendous maybe coming down with something I wonder if that's why I was late. Onto our next cycle. Baby dust to all x

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Lovedatforme · 09/07/2024 09:11

Been MIA, day 8 of my period now just want it to be finished now 🙃

Hope everyone is feeling okay x

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BlueberryPoppy123 · 04/07/2024 21:51

mountainhighhh · 03/07/2024 19:42

Why is seeing those negatives everytime so hard 😢

11DPO and whiter than a sheet of paper!

Also 11dpo today and sooo white, it's nuts my boobs hurt so much and this is a period symptom I always get but they feel swollen not just sore so I tricked myself into thinking it was something more. I've gone off eggs too that was an aversion in my 2nd pregnancy and now apparently it's just a random thing to go off 😫

mountainhighhh · 03/07/2024 19:42

Why is seeing those negatives everytime so hard 😢

11DPO and whiter than a sheet of paper!

BlueberryPoppy123 · 03/07/2024 19:21

10dpo here and bfn 😭

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Lovedatforme · 02/07/2024 22:43

AF arrived, I knew I could feel it 🙃 on to the next month for me.

hope you all have better luck than me ☘️

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BlueberryPoppy123 · 02/07/2024 21:52

9dpo I had a bfn this morning too. My boobs are so sore and I'm scranning all the chocolate in sight so think af will arrive on time in a few days :(

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Lovedatforme · 02/07/2024 17:41

I'm sorry @Ksh5460

I had awful cramps last night, in a fowl mood today and so hungry. I'm sure AF is coming. 12DPO and no sign of a positive so I'm sure i'm out this month.

Just want my period to come now so I can focus on next month.

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Ksh5460 · 02/07/2024 11:35

I ended up getting AF the other day, earlier than predicted but I’d been spotting for a few days at that point too so it was really trying to come early! For this cycle I’m going to try Mucinex and see if that does anything, may also try a fertility cup. Best of luck for us all x

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Lovedatforme · 01/07/2024 15:23

11DPO for me today, BFN this morning. I've been testing every day since 8DPO, I honestly have no idea why I do this to myself.

I'm feeling quite crampy today so I have a feeling AF is on her way.

I think i'm expecting the worst each month now after the MMC. Feeling a bit deflated about it all today 😞

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cocodaisy · 01/07/2024 13:53

How is everyone getting on?

I'm currently 15dpo. AF was due yesterday. I also tested yesterday morning with a CB early test and it was a BFN. I was staring at the test so hard I'm sure I started seeing a blue positive line 😅😅 but it was definitely a BFN.

BlueberryPoppy123 · 29/06/2024 18:41

I had a little bleeding earlier today very bright red but that's not uncommon for me apparently it's because I've got a friable cervix so the nurse who does my smears tells me.
I also had a lot of watery cm this morning.
I'm absolutely shattered today and that's a big symptom I get pre period so with that I think I'm probably not going to be successful this month. Trying to stay positive but the closer I get to July 1st when I could first expect a bfp I'm sort of doubting it 😫 did some online quiz type thing earlier that says with my age and diet etc I probably am on my last 7-10% of eggs.

Hoping for some of you to get some BFP's so I can try feed off of that positivity x

spamOFtheDAY · 29/06/2024 15:56

MaryMax · 29/06/2024 11:17

7DPO and had a BFN this morning even though I know it’s daft to test this early!

The TWW really does suck @BlueberryPoppy123 good luck on your run!

Exactly the same 🙄

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Lovedatforme · 29/06/2024 13:48

@MaryMax I can't help myself testing, we're driving ourselves crazy 🙃

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