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GP refusing Fertility Testing Referral due to BMI- Scotland

65 replies

AlienSuperstar · 04/06/2024 13:28

Hi all,

I am currently on cycle 9 of trying ttc my first baby with my new partner. I'm 38 and since 2019 I have had one Ectopic Pregnancy and 2 early miscarriages (all with my ex hubby).

Due to my previous losses, I have had some tests done, albeit around 4 years ago now, and apart from only having one remaining fallopian tube after the ectopic, all my tests came back normal (I haven't had a hycosy test on the other tube though).

Because of my age this time round and the fact we have been trying for over 6 months, I got the ball rolling with the GP and asked for some tests to be carried out , just to make sure everything is in working order. I was told this was a straight no due to my BMI, I think in total I would need to loose about 5 stones, I've already lost 1 so far.

The only tests my GP is willing to carry out is the day 21 blood test to confirm if i'm ovulating or not (even this test I had to push for).

Is this correct practice? I understand that the actual fertility TREATMENTS are all based on a healthy BMI, but refusing to even test me is a bit harsh?

I would love to hear from anyone else who has experienced this.

Thanks :)

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Girlfolk · 05/06/2024 12:03

Hi OP, I guess this may be depending on the NHS Trust you're under but I had Day 3 and Day 21 blood tests, thyroid test as well as an ultrasound as I'm struggling after a year of TTC (secondary infertility) and my periods have suddenly become irregular over last 6 months. My BMI is 40.

Are you going to go ahead with the Day 21 test you were offered? I do think it's really helpful to know at this stage that you are ovulating if nothing else.

AlienSuperstar · 05/06/2024 11:30

Greatmate · 05/06/2024 11:24

If you do decide to have private treatment please look at the cost of the drugs directly from boots. They don't make profit on IVF drugs. My clinic charged £8 for some tablets that boots gave me for less than £1. The only thing they couldn't supply cheaper was injectable progesterone.

This is really good to know, thanks :)

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AlienSuperstar · 05/06/2024 11:30

Greatmate · 05/06/2024 11:21

A fertility MOT isn't that expensive. Check how much the clinic charge directly.

thank you for this !

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Greatmate · 05/06/2024 11:24

If you do decide to have private treatment please look at the cost of the drugs directly from boots. They don't make profit on IVF drugs. My clinic charged £8 for some tablets that boots gave me for less than £1. The only thing they couldn't supply cheaper was injectable progesterone.

Greatmate · 05/06/2024 11:21

AlienSuperstar · 04/06/2024 16:07

I haven't decided if I want treatment yet, was just wanting an MOT to see if everything is working, then I will decide how to move forward.

A fertility MOT isn't that expensive. Check how much the clinic charge directly.

GP refusing Fertility Testing Referral due to BMI- Scotland
Cheeesus · 05/06/2024 11:18

The logic is that they can’t offer you the treatment, because of your BMI, so therefore there is no point in doing a test. Because they can’t do anything with the result.

AlienSuperstar · 05/06/2024 11:14

CycleGirl20 · 05/06/2024 10:37

@AlienSuperstar if you can afford to go privately, I would do that. If you do manage to get your BMI below 30, then it'll take time and you'll be older. That might then be a problem for the GP (did you say you were 38?) and they might not treat you because of that instead. Plus, the impact on your fertility of being 39/40 might be worse than the gain from the BMI points you lose.

hello, yes i've just turned 38. I could probably afford the tests but not private IVF at the moment. I have a lot to think about.

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CycleGirl20 · 05/06/2024 10:37

@AlienSuperstar if you can afford to go privately, I would do that. If you do manage to get your BMI below 30, then it'll take time and you'll be older. That might then be a problem for the GP (did you say you were 38?) and they might not treat you because of that instead. Plus, the impact on your fertility of being 39/40 might be worse than the gain from the BMI points you lose.

AlienSuperstar · 05/06/2024 09:09

Thank you everyone for your replies. Now that I know that the Dr isn't making this rule up, I will continue to work on my weight loss. 15 pounds down so far so fingers crossed .

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AlienSuperstar · 05/06/2024 09:09

sirensong · 04/06/2024 18:22

I think this is nonsense and you should be able to request day 3 hormone bloods and also thyroid/ cholesterol tests. Potential hormone imbalance/ insulin resistance is worth knowing about for general health management independent of fertility considerations and they should be prepared to help. Press them on this. If they agree to do those and have also agreed to do progesterone then that's a decent start. AMH you'd need to do privately. It's possibly your results would change if your BMI does but that's a follow up conversation down the line.

If you can afford the private option that's also fine obviously but I don't agree they should turn you away when you're just after general health info to assess your options (and maybe provide motivation!).

Edited

thank you, this is how I feel too

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AlienSuperstar · 05/06/2024 09:08

Confusedddddddd · 04/06/2024 21:18

My clinic was a bmi under 35 (I paid privately but it's also an nhs clinic) for both testing and treatment (it's 30 for nhs though).

I was told the reason for it is that it's harder to see things on the scan, they have in the past had to stop scans because they just couldn't see ovaries etc. Same for IVF - you need to a healthyish BMI so they are able to see the eggs during retrieval.

I'm not really sure how weight affects fertility as I've had the opposite experience to NHS advice- I had a bmi close to 40 when I conceived my first easily and had a healthy pregnancy. It's now around 35 and I'm struggling to conceive. When I've been a healthy weight - under 25bmi - my periods stopped for 3 years. I'm honestly debating gaining weight to see if I conceive! But also worried that I need to lower it in case I need IVF.

thanks for this, I wish you all the best in your journey. It's refreshing to know that you fell pregnant with a BMI almost at 40 x

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AlienSuperstar · 05/06/2024 09:01

moosey89 · 05/06/2024 08:00

I've had fertility investigations with a BMI of 31 (not that they even know my BMI, weight hasn't been asked for/mentioned once!), in my area the limit of 30 applies for treatments, not for tests, although I imagine being only just over means they are ok with doing the tests as it's not as hard for me to lose the weight (I'd need to lose 6kgs to be at 29.5 BMI so still not insignificant). As pp has said, it's really unfortunate that they use BMI as it's actually not a great indicator of success of treatments, but if your BMI is over 40 then losing some weight would probably be good for health overall, even if you didn't drop below 30.

thanks for this. Congratulations on your babies <3 x

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Peonies12 · 05/06/2024 08:10

isthewashingdryyet · 04/06/2024 15:02

But surely your current weight will affect the test results, so no point even testing.

I think this is the reason. Your test results could change once you have a healthy BMI.

moosey89 · 05/06/2024 08:00

I've had fertility investigations with a BMI of 31 (not that they even know my BMI, weight hasn't been asked for/mentioned once!), in my area the limit of 30 applies for treatments, not for tests, although I imagine being only just over means they are ok with doing the tests as it's not as hard for me to lose the weight (I'd need to lose 6kgs to be at 29.5 BMI so still not insignificant). As pp has said, it's really unfortunate that they use BMI as it's actually not a great indicator of success of treatments, but if your BMI is over 40 then losing some weight would probably be good for health overall, even if you didn't drop below 30.

WithOneLook · 04/06/2024 21:30

Unfortunately it's based on flawed data that women 'cant' get pregnant when they have a high BMI. It's just a pretty standard barometer used for many treatments on the NHS even not related to fertility treatments. BMI is a bit of a blunt stick anyway but you are unlikely to get anywhere with the NHS with a BMI of over 35 and anything over 30 you are likely to have to fight for.

Its also interesting that someone's cited not being able to see the ovaries/eggs during IVF with high BMI. 4 cycles of IVF with a BMI over 40 and I'm yet to have a private sonographer have ANY issue seeing my ovaries during my treatment and I assume as I've had 2 healthy pregnancies as well as 2 miscarriages from those, they've managed to get eggs.

Confusedddddddd · 04/06/2024 21:18

My clinic was a bmi under 35 (I paid privately but it's also an nhs clinic) for both testing and treatment (it's 30 for nhs though).

I was told the reason for it is that it's harder to see things on the scan, they have in the past had to stop scans because they just couldn't see ovaries etc. Same for IVF - you need to a healthyish BMI so they are able to see the eggs during retrieval.

I'm not really sure how weight affects fertility as I've had the opposite experience to NHS advice- I had a bmi close to 40 when I conceived my first easily and had a healthy pregnancy. It's now around 35 and I'm struggling to conceive. When I've been a healthy weight - under 25bmi - my periods stopped for 3 years. I'm honestly debating gaining weight to see if I conceive! But also worried that I need to lower it in case I need IVF.

OhcantthInkofaname · 04/06/2024 18:31

The doctor is just trying to assess whether your statement "I will do anything to have a baby" includes losing weight.

sirensong · 04/06/2024 18:22

I think this is nonsense and you should be able to request day 3 hormone bloods and also thyroid/ cholesterol tests. Potential hormone imbalance/ insulin resistance is worth knowing about for general health management independent of fertility considerations and they should be prepared to help. Press them on this. If they agree to do those and have also agreed to do progesterone then that's a decent start. AMH you'd need to do privately. It's possibly your results would change if your BMI does but that's a follow up conversation down the line.

If you can afford the private option that's also fine obviously but I don't agree they should turn you away when you're just after general health info to assess your options (and maybe provide motivation!).

Theredoubtableskins · 04/06/2024 16:26

Unfortunately, they simply won’t spend the money on people who have a lower chance of treatments working when it isn’t a life saving treatment. It’s a waste of money. You can pay privately if you want the tests or you can lose the weight.
I’m not having a dig; my bmi was just into the “morbidly obese” part of the graph when I started getting hip pain. I knew it was my weight. The GP wouldn’t do anything because they also said, it’s just my weight. I had to lose 4.5 stone. It was very difficult but had to be done. The NHS won’t waste treatment.

AlienSuperstar · 04/06/2024 16:23

thanks everyone, I will continue to loose weight and think about the private tests in the meantime.

I have been quoted £565 for a couples MOT x

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Mrsttcno1 · 04/06/2024 16:20

LiterallyOnFire · 04/06/2024 16:17

Yes I was about to suggest this. They're typically in the region of £250-300 for one partner and £400-500 for a couple.

Yeah these prices sound about right & some offer follow ups following planned weight loss for reduced price. My colleague and her husband did this and paid £750 which included a recheck after she completed weight loss to reach BMI threshold x

LiterallyOnFire · 04/06/2024 16:17

Mrsttcno1 · 04/06/2024 16:08

You can pay privately to have a fertility MOT type of thing done but this isn’t something the NHS would routinely offer

Yes I was about to suggest this. They're typically in the region of £250-300 for one partner and £400-500 for a couple.

AlienSuperstar · 04/06/2024 16:13

MrsScotland · 04/06/2024 15:02

A friend has gone to this company for investigations to get the ball rolling as the NHS won't treat them due to BMI. he website is transparent with pricing.

https://tfp-fertility.com/en-gb/tfp-gcrm-fertility

I also know people who have used hertility to get testing.

Thank you, I have already been in touch with them and it is one of my options :)

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AlienSuperstar · 04/06/2024 16:09

Mrsttcno1 · 04/06/2024 16:08

You can pay privately to have a fertility MOT type of thing done but this isn’t something the NHS would routinely offer

Yeah I'm looking into this, thank you :)

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AlienSuperstar · 04/06/2024 16:08

MrsScotland · 04/06/2024 15:01

Yes, this has happened to a couple of girls I know, BMI had to be under 35 I think for them even to get testing. Mine was 34 so I got testing but and a referral to IVF but then told I needed to get under 30 to get on the list for treatment. In the meantime I fell pregnant, but at my 12 week scan it became apparent baby had a chromosome problem and we had to terminate. I'm now pregnant naturally again but my BMI has crept to 35.1 and this means i've crossed the line for a few more tests etc.

congratulations, wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy x

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