Still TTC, PPP and waiting to CCC - one down, and more than enough optimism to go around!

LOL Tink, good, now I can tell DH when he comes in that we are having a take away because Tink says we can Perfect excuse

tinkerbellbringingsexyback bday june 5th - gemini
NatalieJane bday 22nd June - Gemini/Cancer cusp.

NJ I would love a take away tonight you are so lucky....

Tink my bday is 10th December so am a Sagittarian...

Deffo takeaway Nat - a Chinese perhaps?? On that note, one of out local-ish Chinese takeaways has just been closed down ('The Happy Wok'). Seems it was a front for drug dealing, and they just had a big vat of egg fried rice there and then just, well 'drugs' that you could get delivered to your home in a takeaway container . I won't make any comment about local Warrington slebs and drugs but I'm sure you know who I'm talkig about, and yes it was her local... [diege nicely dodges porn question in preference for potentially libelous claim]

takeaway sounds good nj

what are everyones starsigns thought i would start a list

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You are doing very well NJ I would have had the boxes in the fridge at least by now.... My excuse is I have had a bad week and if I do (fingers crossed) get a BFP then I will stop having my nightly drink... (I do only have the one except at weekends when I may have two)

C'mon then Diege spill, what exactly did you get up to in that previous life???

Is it my fault if I really can not be bothered to get the tea on tonight? Think I might plump for a take away, we haven't had one for ages so I think we are due one, what do you think?

And I am doing very well, the boxes of wine are still in the garage, can't tell you how much I am putting off putting the next load in the dryer though, everytime I walk past the boxes I very nearly drool all over the clean washing!

was it lynx in the air last nite lol told you it would work my dd actually didnt wake up in the night last nite must have been lynxlol

must have been please excuse my grammer there....

There must of been something in the air last night as my dd had me up most of the night aswell.... spooky.

Tink the lynx worked see I got you and Diege back (if only for a little while!!)

lol how about you try lynx lol then you will have people flocking works for men lol

Nah, you smell just fine LL ...well, on the porn note, have to say it's not really me and dh's thing...don't think he's dare suggest it tbh, though that's not to say I haven't been there done that years ago in other lifetimes ...No, we are really boring, but happy enough with Holby City in the background...
Kay, nothing quite like a MIL to p*ss on your chips eh...I remember mine when we announced we were expected dd3 saying, 'Oh!!! but I thought, oh but....oh..congratulation...' Err yes, we get what you mean... Having said that, my own mum wasn't much better with 'Oh no!' being her reaction. Can't wait until no.4 . Hello Playing! Yes, we need an official start date please, if only so we can put your name on the wagon's insurance as owner-occupier...was it September??
Right, tea-time for dds, then early night I think. DD3 was up all hours last night...hope we have better nights tonight Kay!

I know tink..... Thinking I may need to jump in the shower again...

ll - perhaps you are wearing the wrong deodrant lol

Playing when are you officially starting ttc?

Do I smell?????? As soon as I come on everyone else goes.....

LL, if a beer a night makes you a binge drinker than I stand no chance. If I simply had 7 beers a week that would be a good week for me .

And you lot have talked me into having a glass of wine tonight.... it is naughty I may be pg . I have had a beer every night this week, does that make me a binge drinker????

OO thats an interesting one Nat. I dont really know. DH has never really been much of a porn fan, he says he prefers the real thing (not sure if thats a compliment or and insult ). I like to think I am quite open minded but I have a suspicion that it would bother me, particularly as he never has and I would wonder why he has started now. I know porn is not real and all that but I like sharing our sexual experiences and indulging in something alone would feel a little wrong. But then again havign been together since we were 16 and loosing our virginity to each other means we have always "discovered" together so doing something without the other would feel a bit odd

nj sorry that you have had rain it is lovely and sunny here

Good evening everyone...

Car is fixed yay so can take dd swimming next week. Skint now though.... NJ dp doesn't really do porn either he has never looked at any while we have been together and that is coming on (oh my god) 8 years now.

Diege sorry about AF but at least you can start TTC for real now...

I am shattered today only two days left of bonking and I am so looking forward to the end.... I can not belive how hard it has been this every day lark.... We were like rabbits when we first got together where did we get the energy from??

Ahhhh, nice kip on't sofa, DS2 is still asleep, he is a bit of a poorly bunny today, but no temp. so I am happy. DS1 has been mulling around, bless him, he is sooo bored, when will the bloody rain stop???

Kay, yes ignore ignore ignore MIL, it is all (most of them) are good for.

GJ, wow exciting stuff about the implant So how was the trip? Did you manage to come back alone?!!

Still going with the porn thing, does it bother you all if DH indulges alone? Now I have to say, and most people raise an eyebrow at this thinking I am nieve, but it does nothing for DH when he is alone, he would never be the one at the pooter, ahem, cap in hand as it were, it really isn't his style. But I don't think it would bother me as long as it didn't interupt our time together IYKWIM?!!

Well I have broken my no alcohol fast, had a nice glass of wine with lunch- maybe a bad idea as I am now finding it hard to concentrate back at work!

Kay, ignore you MIL. I get on ok with mine, its a bit of an effort but could be worse. Still, we told her we were planning to have kids next year and the first thing she said was "can you afford it". I mean, it will be her first grandchild as well, you think there might be some excitement. Oh well.

It does seem like we've been "trying" for months and I'm not even trying yet!!!

Nat, nothing like a porn ref to lower the tone . We've tried it a couple of times btu it doesnt really float my boat, IYKWIM.

Geordie. Welcome back, how was your holiday? Yay at getting the implant out!

I am going to be a nice MIL, I couldn't dream of saying the things she said to us.

My dh gets on really well with my mum

Oh, and our MIL's are sent to make us stronger, to help us focus on what is important and to get some pointers as to how not to treat the people your children love.

We are good mothers and partners in spite of them, not because of them, as they would like to think...

I am envious of people who have happy, healthy relationships with their MIL's - it just seems like so much of a power-struggle for most!!