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Still TTC, PPP and waiting to CCC - one down, and more than enough optimism to go around!

941 replies

calsworld · 04/04/2008 20:03

Right, so I can't start this thread using anything like..."Here we go ladies!"

So, will have to come up with something completely different....

How about Congratulations Kay!

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kayzisexpecting · 11/04/2008 17:34

LOL,

Does anyone know if extreme hip pain is a symptom of early pregnancy? I can hardly walk.

lardylumps · 11/04/2008 17:33

It is the green eyed monster Kay they are so unhappy that they can not stand anyone else to be happy either.

No one can afford children. Look at me and DP he is out of work in two weeks time and I am only part time.... We will work it out though we always do.... And so will you and dh....

Ignore them they smell of poo

Broodybabywannabe · 11/04/2008 17:25

kays let it bounce "offa the mommy shield" as the americans say, they arent worth your tears x

kayzisexpecting · 11/04/2008 17:19

DH is as annoyed as I am. I dont know if the person my 'friend' was moaning about us to has made it seem a lot worse than it is. He isn't the sort of person to do this

MoosMa · 11/04/2008 17:14

Oh Kay you poor thing, so sound like you're being moaned at left right and centre, what does DH say about it all?

I'm 5'4" and 8 stone, but I'm trying to put some weight on in preparation for the morning sickness. So far I have..... lost a pound

BB, Nat's gone to visit her Mum for the weekend I think.

I'm feeling like a poor dejected wife today, DH was out working till 10.30 last night, is out again tonight and is driving to somewhere the other side of Manchester tomorrow and may have to stay overnight And to top it all off, DD1 whacked me in the chops with a Woolworths catalogue earlier (completely by accident) and I have a very painful fat lip

However, the two of them had a lovely time painting this afternoon - the first time I've allowed it at home! I'll put pictures up later

lardylumps · 11/04/2008 17:11

bb NJ has gont to her mums for the weekend...

kayzisexpecting · 11/04/2008 17:03

I have just been and had a go at him. He reckons its because he is our friend and thats why he said it. Then why didn't he say it to us?

Playingthewaitinggame · 11/04/2008 17:03

I meant of course I would rather go home than sit at work late on a friday night.

Playingthewaitinggame · 11/04/2008 17:02

Right you lots, I am off home. I have decided I as I have s**t loads of work to do that I will take it home with me tonight. As the sun is shining I would go home and sit in the garden with a glass of wine and do it over the weekend, than stick at work to finish it.

Have a great weekend ladies.

Broodybabywannabe · 11/04/2008 16:57

wheres NJ today? x

lardylumps · 11/04/2008 16:52

I am so sorry for you it is awful I know... Have to say I was worried that all the GOF I have been doing over the last two weeks was for nothing then, I thought you were going to say the cream kills the swimmers ..

Kay tell the feckers to piss off.... how rude is he, and MIL is an arse.

YouCantTeuchThis · 11/04/2008 16:44

LL - I had read that yeast infection shouldn't interfere with ttc but that treatment could alter the ph of your vag...

However, you have treated and been able to keep, ahem, 'trying'...whereas I have a funny walk, and won't be

Bit of a fecker, eh?!

Broodybabywannabe · 11/04/2008 16:40

Kays tell um all to get bent, its probably some deep seated issue within themselves!

thanks for making me feel better as always ladies, i am currently trying to be healthier and eat less, cos i comfort eat, and am trying to be more active! so i'l get there, and as for TTC my coils only been out 11 days so maybe im getting a tad ahead of myself eh?

Almost all of the websites ive looked at say that weight alone should stop you concieving, unless you are like having health probs and cant move about and that xx

lardylumps · 11/04/2008 16:38

Teuch oh my god I have just read your post. you have got me worried now. I have been treating my yeast infection as has dp, this wont effect TTC will it? We have only been using the cream...

kayzisexpecting · 11/04/2008 16:27

I am 5ft 8!

tinkerbellbringingsexyback · 11/04/2008 16:26

k dont worry your baby is going to be wonderful and treasured ignore them they obviously have a problem and it is there loss of oyur friendship
d tiddlers together

kayzisexpecting · 11/04/2008 16:25

I am tempted to go and chuck his birthday present at his head.

Playingthewaitinggame · 11/04/2008 16:23

Oh and yes I am overweight too, I know I should care and I have vowed to spend my last 3 months of waiting trying to get healthier but if I am honest, I dont care enough and love my food too much. I wouldnt say I eat unhealthily, I just eat too much and do no exercise.

Diege · 11/04/2008 16:20

Kay, if they're real friends they'll tell your so-called 'friend' where to go . If I were you I'd put the blinkers on for the next few days and just ignore the miserable lot of them. Easier said than done of course.
TINKS, you are a tiddler like me then, although I am 5ft 2 AND A HALF

Playingthewaitinggame · 11/04/2008 16:20

Oh Kay, dont cry. Its your life not theirs. You are a sensible married woman who after careful consideration has chosed to extend her family. So money might be tight, but money is def not everything. The same people would be slagging you off if you decided to keep ds as an only child. Some people just like to stir shit.

YouCantTeuchThis · 11/04/2008 16:19

Kay, I know it suonds flippant, but please try to ignore them. Your true friends will not enjoy hearing someone talk about your like that and the rest you can do without

You are doing something amazing - bringing a life into the world, a much-wanted baby for you and DH and a sibling for DS

I'm a fatty - I eat too much and don't move enough .

kayzisexpecting · 11/04/2008 16:14

The so called 'friend' has been slagging me off to my real friends now. Why can't they just be happy?

I'm crying my bloody eyes out.

tinkerbellbringingsexyback · 11/04/2008 16:13

same here diege chocolate is my weakness
i am 5ft2 and 8st all weight seems to go onto top of legs

kayzisexpecting · 11/04/2008 16:08

BB I am 14 stone and obviously going to put more I am going to work bloody hard to get it off after I have the baby.

Diege · 11/04/2008 15:58

I think we're all obsessed with our weight BB, regardless of what size we are. I'm not overweight on paper, but I have put on a stone recently that is sitting round my middle and needs to shift. It's eating sweet stuff that's my downfall, so am trying to exercise more rather than cut back. It is so hard even doing a dvd though when I'm shattered with work and dds and all I want to do is sleep and eat chocolate! I'm motivated though by the thought that there will be even more to lose after next birth if I don't shift it now! (plus I have high blood pressure/borderline high cholestral (sp?) which isn;t great either!)