Still TTC, PPP and waiting to CCC - one down, and more than enough optimism to go around!

Its quiet on here with out NJ isn't it.. Now we know who does all the talking

Thanks Diege you are a shiny bright star...... Have a good day Xxx

Just off out, but just to say LL that a day or even two before ov is better apparently so that the sperm is there ready to do the job. I really think you've given it your best, so relax!!
Catch up later! [waves to BB, cosmo and tinks]

any thoughts on my temperature chart ladies?
www.fertilityfriend.com/home/1f3edd
did i ovulate cd17?

morning!

Dis i think u are pg, i can see a faint line!

as for me, im hoping im a freak whos pg wont show up on HPTs!!! cos otherwise im on like CD 60 something!!!

Tho GOF this morn

Phew! Think I've just about caught up!!
Geordie - sorry to hear your DP has said he wants to delay ttc. Has he given you an approx month when he feels he'll be ready? It must be frustrating but I guess you both need to be ready or he might be resentful about it....
October/November is when we are planning to start - some days it seems really close - others it feels like it's a lifetime away!

I havent noticed any this month but I did have (shhhhhhhhh) thrush for a while so this could of masked it.

If i ov yesterday then would gof the previous day be ok, or does it need to be on the exact day you ov??

I am so crap at this. I cant believe I am a 34 year old mother of one and I do not know the basics

Oh and any EWM? That's always the ov sign for me, though don't get it every month.

Oh no, is the milkman about . I do think you've pretty much covered all bases with your GOFFing. LondonLottie is right that the old af 14 days after OV is a bit of a myth, but it does hold true for many women, and if you had to guess at best time to gof on a 28 day cycle, then days 10-14 would still be a good estimate. Maybe get some ov sticks for next cycle if it hasn;t worked this time?

Oh no if I did ov yesterday then I have buggered it..... I doink everyday from CD7 and fall asleep on CD18. Can not believe it... OK so if I ov yesturday then I need a quicky today dont I......

Dh DH oh no he has gone out......

Hi girls,

Well Tink I have broken your record - CD 56 and still no AF getting a bit fed up now and just wish period would show up.
I broke the sex ban this morning tho First condom sex in a very long time and was not half as bad as I had remembered!!

Quick question: when (if) first AF post pill does show up, am I likely to get back to a regular cycle fairly quickly? I am assuming at the mo that my body has forgotten how to ovulate, thus explaining lack of period...

Off to catch up on the thread now

Hi LL! The last day you'd ovulate on 1 28 day cycle would usually be day 14, and then the egg would survive 24 ish hours, so I wouldn't bother with GOF on a 28 day cycle after day 16 (unless you fancy it of course!!). So you should be fine . No wonder you fell asleep if you've been goffing every/other day

Oh no Teuch/Diege where have you gone!!!! I need thee..

no it was CD18 yesterday (day of no GOF) I am now on CD19

Good morning ladies sorry about BFN cals and dis I can see some pink and a very faint line...

Ladies I need some advise. On a 28 day cycle when would (on average) the last day that you could ov?

Fell asleep on the sofa last night no GOF and I am on CD18

Very possible still to be getting faint bfps/negs Dis. Even if you did ovulate say cd 13, and on day 30 now, for some women you won't get a postive until days/weeks after offical af date. Happened with me 2 out of 3 pregnancies. If I were you though I would wait 48 hours before testing again, and then maybe get 2 different brands. You could also get dh to wee on one and then compare (or simply dip in tap water). HTH x

Diege, We are just looking today. We want to see if dh can put ds in the P&T and get the new baby in and out. Because he is disabled its sometimes hard to get ds in and out of his pushchair.

Dis, I'm sorry but I can't see a line.

Right,

this is probablygoing to get complicated BUT ...

iF THE LAST day I Bd'd was CD14 then how am I not getting a proper +??

Supposing we BD'd CD14 and I OV'd CD17 (just saying I OvD LATE) Then now Im CD 30 I could be 13DPO, right?

But at what point should I get a definate + if I am pregnant considering CD14 was the last BD?>

If anyone understands what I am saying then well done!

Im gonna get some tescos own I think.

yep i would get some 1st response tests

People on this thread can see it but on the other no-one can, this is obviously the better thread

I guess Im off to the shops today!

sorry cal
good luck dis

Oh Cals, don't be too disheartened..it could well be your cycle adjusting itself, and your plan to test again in a week is a good one, though now you have the tests in the house....
Dis, If I squint I can make out the colour at the edges. TBH, I would say this is looking good if your af may not even be due yet. FWIW, when pregnant with dd2 I dodn;t get a bfp until I was 6 days late, and that was 20 days after last GOF. Crossing everything for you!

DH just keeps making a 'meh' sound

I need confirmation its there! lol