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TTC #2

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NattyPeer · 21/05/2024 21:16

Currently TTC number 2 and struggling after getting pregnant fairly easily with number 1 (on cycle 3)!
Thought I'd start a thread so we can all support each other. Anyone else on their TTC journey for number 2? I am currently on cycle 7 and have ruled myself out already as negative pregnancy test at 10DPO. Each month I convince myself that I am pregnant! Experienced a chemical at cycle 3 😩

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LemonBitter · 08/06/2024 20:39

Ohhhh that's great @NattyPeer .. I'm tempted to do a third.. sorry I meant keep going with the tests even after you think you've had it so you are 100% sure it's your peak..

I've had a fluey type thing this week. I'm wondering if that affects ovulation. Bloody typical as this is one of the only fertile windows we've had time to DTD at the right time and no peak 😭😭

NattyPeer · 08/06/2024 20:06

I have done another and it’s peak now! Have you done another? So yeah I didn’t realise about DTD days after the peak dunno why 🤣🤣

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LemonBitter · 08/06/2024 17:20

So strange... well the premom app says twice a day in fertile period and keep going after your peak so I reckon so! Are you gonna do another one?

NattyPeer · 08/06/2024 17:05

Should you do it on ovulation day too? I get so confused haha

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NattyPeer · 08/06/2024 17:04

@LemonBitter Yeah usually every month I just do one in the morning and I get a peak! Weird! Bodies are strange 🤣

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HRHXO · 08/06/2024 16:32

@LemonBitter oh wow just read your previous post in this thread, that gives me hope thanks! I think we timed it well but idk if we will be able to do it again, think ovulation is today.

HRHXO · 08/06/2024 16:29

@NattyPeer no I don't BBT I wake up so much in the night with my toddler I don't think I'd be any good at it and I find it quite confusing. Hoping to play it cool and not stress too much about it this cycle but I know what I'm like lol

LemonBitter · 08/06/2024 16:26

Hey @HRHXO look at my last post a few mins ago - deffo possible. Good luck ☺️

That is so weird @NattyPeer... yeah I'm going to try not to drink too much over the next few hours and then do one maybe 6 or 7pm?? Have you usually peaked by this time of day? Last two cycles I was 10.45 and 14.45 but today at 3.45 it was low 🥴

NattyPeer · 08/06/2024 16:21

@HRHXO heyyy and welcome! I haven’t but it only takes once doesn’t it! Do you do BBT?

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NattyPeer · 08/06/2024 16:19

@LemonBitter how strange as I took OPK today and not peak yet when I should have been today! Should I do another later?

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HRHXO · 08/06/2024 16:09

Hi all, I'm currently ttc baby no2. DS is 21m actual and we feel ready. I had peak on my ovulation tests yesterday and they've gone straight back to low today so assuming I should ovulate today. We've only managed to DTD once this cycle as DS has been poorly, we did it last night on peak day so fingers crossed that's enough. Anyone concieved by DTD just the once? I know it only takes once but I usually like to cover a few more days!

LemonBitter · 08/06/2024 16:03

That's still pretty good I would say - in with a good chance!!

I'm pretty sure I felt implantation the first time - had some really sharp pains in my side. That was the first time I thought I was in with a chance as I wasn't using OPKs and we only DTD once and that was the day after flo said I ovulated so I assumed we were out...

Wow 9DPO is early - if that happens again you haven't got too long to wait at all!!

Mummio92 · 08/06/2024 13:48

@LemonBitter we managed to dtd 2 days before and 1 day before O, was hoping to hit O day itself but had a big family party that ended late - sometimes sleep wins out 😂

Fingers crossed both our efforts will be worth it!

When you were pregnant first time round were there any signs in the tww? I felt nauseous and headachey at 9dpo and got a bfp that same day, so now anytime I get a hint of a headache in the tww I start getting hopeful (annoying as I’m very prone to headaches generally)

LemonBitter · 08/06/2024 13:23

Ohh that's so good you've got a distraction @Mummio92 .. did you manage to DTD over ovulation time? I don't temperature test (might next month) but my peak tends to come out of the blue without much build up so I think I need to keep testing 🥴 will DTD tonight either way I think!!!

Mummio92 · 08/06/2024 13:01

@LemonBitter good idea testing multiple times a day now as I find the surge can spring up on you, are your OPKs getting darker?
I peaked on Thursday and had temp rise this morning to confirm O was yesterday so here we go again, back in the tww- thankfully going on holiday Friday so the second half of the wait will hopefully have too much distraction to be overanalysing!

LemonBitter · 08/06/2024 11:23

How's it going everyone?

Did an easy at home ovulation test this morning and not at my peak yet.. it's usually CD14 which is today so going to test a bit later....

LemonBitter · 05/06/2024 15:59

Aw it will be good to be in it together @Mummio92 @NattyPeer .

Yeah I don't track BBT actually, I'm thinking if I'm out again this cycle it's one to try on the next!

NattyPeer · 04/06/2024 21:39

@LemonBitter trying every other day but can’t actually do the two days before as partner is away for work!

@Mummio92 Aww yay will be good to go through the TWW all together! Surely it has to result in at least one of us having a positive! I have started BBT this cycle so will be interesting to see!

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Mummio92 · 04/06/2024 06:43

@LemonBitter @NattyPeer
my predicted ov is Sunday so looks like we could all be headed into the 2ww together next week.

To cover all bases we’ll probably aim for every other day in fertile window and every day from when I get a high OPK until my temp rises.
If you don’t monitor BBT however then wise to add in some more in the days after predicted ov just in case it’s later than expected.

When I last got pregnant, I had been taking vitamins and various things for months and then I got sick of them so stopped .. conceived that month 😂

LemonBitter · 03/06/2024 22:05

@NattyPeer 2 days before sounds sensible.. are you trying to do a few days in a row or leaving a gap? It's so hard to know!!!

Feels like everyone is getting pregnant around me as well.. I'm so impatient and just want it to happen now but it doesn't seem to be 😭

NattyPeer · 03/06/2024 21:08

@LemonBitter i am taking folic acid as well! And some other vitamins including vitamin d, Zinc, iron!

I am the same re getting less confident as the months go by! My app predicts ovulation on Saturday so we are so close in our fertile window haha! So I read that doing it 2 days before ovulation day is also good (dunno how true that is haha). It is hard to know isn’t it!

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LemonBitter · 03/06/2024 20:23

Heyyyy 😃 sorry I missed your message somehow @Mummio92... I'm only taking vitamin d, I'm wondering if I should start taking folic acid but feel like I'm tempting fate?

Just entering fertile window now.. apps say ovulation Friday but I use the easy at home strips and the last few months I've had my peak the day after the apps have predicted ovulation so I'm just trying to work out tactics... thinking of DTD tomorrow Thursday Friday Saturday? 🥴 or maybe skip one and add Sunday in? I don't know much about frequency and sperm quality...

I'm honestly getting less confident as the cycles go on 😭

How are you getting on @NattyPeer ?

NattyPeer · 03/06/2024 20:13

How is everyone getting on? the group has gone a bit quiet so thought I would see how you all are!

is anyone taking any vitamins?

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Mummio92 · 27/05/2024 21:13

@LemonBitter quite a while to go before January so that seems a reasonable assumption!
I found it disappointing the other month realising that it’s no longer possible for baby #2 to be born in 2024.

I’m just taking some vitamins that I’ve read are good for increasing ewcm and lengthening the luteal phase as mine has been only 10 days roughly which I hear can make it harder to implantation to take place. So vitamin c & b6 plus evening primrose oil. We’ll see what happens, at least BBT should give me a clear indication of whether it helps with LP lengthening.

How about you, are you trying anything?

LemonBitter · 27/05/2024 21:01

This is literally all I'm doing at the minute @Mummio92 it's so hard. We've just booked a holiday for January and I'm hoping to be pregnant then but 🤷🏼‍♀️

Are you going to do anything different this cycle?