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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

Ttc may 2024

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TicklishDreamer · 25/04/2024 13:42

I have searched and can’t find a thread for anyone who’s Ttc this month!
I’ll be onto month 4 since I had a mmc of trying to conceive! I won’t lie when AF showed yesterday I had a full blown meltdown about it and felt like I would never get pregnant when in reality 3 months really isn’t that long!
I am very lucky to already have 2 wonderful little boys age 7 &3 but really would like a 3rd to make out family complete!

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TicklishDreamer · 17/05/2024 17:38

@soymilknosugar sorry your out too! Hopefully it’s next month for those of us that’s out! I’m just waiting for period to arrive Monday/tuesday!

im trying to stay positive, baby woukd have been end of January had I been pregnant this month and both my other DS came premature so would have put me at risk for another December baby (my eldest is a December baby! so trying to think positively about it least I won’t have another Christmas baby!

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JumpinJellyfish · 17/05/2024 17:22

Hello, just dropping in…no idea what is going on this month. I usually ovulate around cd15/16 but last month it was later (had a mc in Feb so put it down to that). I usually go by EWCM and I thought I’d seen it around cd 14 and cd 18. DH was away so we dtd on cd 11, 12, 14 and 18.

I’m hoping I did ovulate around cd 14 as dtd would have been well timed, and even if it was cd 15/16 I guess we are in with a shot? So annoying we had that 3 day gap! Today is cd 28 with AF due tomorrow, though last cycle when I ovulated late AF also came late. I don’t have any tests in the house so will see how things go over the weekend and test on Monday if AF isn’t here. Good luck everyone!

soymilknosugar · 17/05/2024 16:53

I tested negative today so I’m out too. Good luck to those still waiting!

TicklishDreamer · 17/05/2024 16:48

@Bb542 you never know might be a good sign keep us updated!!

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Bb542 · 17/05/2024 15:58

I'm assuming I'm out too. 11dpo and I've started spotting 🤔 although no sign of it getting heavier 🤔 but still testing negative 👀

Jessb2021a · 17/05/2024 08:46

I don't use OPKs but I can usually tell when I'm ovulating with EWCM (thank you @emmatcc1 for the dictionary!). I think I might have ovulated early this month - or maybe I've not ovulated at all. I'm definitely not following my usual pattern.

Either way I have made the decision not to have any test kits in the house for the whole TWW. It's just too stressful and disappointing!

lavafield · 17/05/2024 08:25

Hello lovely group! Hope you don't mind if I join. I also started ttc in May. Congrats on all BFPs out there and sorry for BFNs and approaching AFs. I think I am out this month, only dtd twice in the fertile window but I haven't yet tracked ovulation with tests, just looking at the calendar, CM and signs that are usual for me. Getting only BFNs at 12DPO and signs of imminent AF are here. VERY anxious because I am starting trying for my first one being in early 40s and DP is also in his 40s. But my periods are regular, all the hormonal tests I have done over the last couple of years were good so still hopeful! Sometimes life just goes like this!

TicklishDreamer · 17/05/2024 07:45

all signs AF is on her way for me now so think I’m out this month 😞 got all usual symptoms

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Currentlykittymom · 17/05/2024 07:33

@emmatcc1 thank you! That’s amazing won’t get too confused now! I am tracking I’ve got 2 tracking apps and using the clear blue ovulation tests

emmatcc1 · 16/05/2024 22:51

@Currentlykittymom Welcome!! Are you tracking ovulation or just guessing? My first mistake was not tracking and we completely missed ovulation.
You’ll catch on to acronyms quickly.
DTD-do the deed
OPK-ovulation prediction kit
BBT-basal body temperature
EWCM-egg white cervical mucus
FMU-first morning urine
AF-aunt flow (period)
BFP/BFN - big fat positive/negative
DH- dear husband
CD- cycle day
LH- luteinizing hormone
DPO- days past ovulation
TWW- two week wait
CM- cervical mucus
POAS- pee on a stick
MC- miscarriage
MMC- missed miscarriage
Can’t remember more but I’m sure I missed some.

Currentlykittymom · 16/05/2024 21:09

Hi hope it’s okay to join, it’s just been my first TTC month and period hit today feeling pretty low. I know it’s unlikely first try but you’re always optimistic. Still a bit hit and miss on the acronyms if someone could do a break down for me 🫣 also I am 28f and this will be first hopeful pregnancy!

Marshmallow99 · 16/05/2024 19:15

@CSmith1 that happens to me too 😂 I have dreams of testing then I’ll wake up in the middle of the night to do one. I also over analyse every twinge I get, I tell myself every month not to get excited but I can’t help but hold on to the hope 🤞. Fingers crossed we all get our BFPs very soon 🤍

@TicklishDreamer You’ve got this 💪 xx

CSmith1 · 16/05/2024 18:36

Hi folks! So glad I've found this thread. I'm currently on my 2nd cycle of clomid, currently 6dpo so every twinge I feel my mind goes into overdrive and I think is implementation cramps!! Likely not as I had the exact same last month and didn't conceive.
I know it's a bit early but will start testing at 8dpo. Does anyone else struggle with sleep when it's test day? I wake up sooo early with excitement/nerves.
Sending luck to all this month and congratulations to those who have been lucky ☘️🤍

TicklishDreamer · 16/05/2024 18:24

@Marshmallow99 i am so close I’m determined not to test until
Monday when I’m due on even then I might wait till Tuesday if I can!
those early days of the TWW are the worst I just feel like your wishing your life away 🤣

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Marshmallow99 · 16/05/2024 18:11

@soymilknosugar thank you 😊

@TicklishDreamer I’ve been using the clear blue ovulation test and waiting for that smiley face does stress me out 😂

10DPO you are so close, fingers crossed for you. The past few months I’ve tested early and spent so much on tests, I’m determined to wait until after AF is due this month.. I need to work on my will power! I am only 5DPO so I feel like I have a longgg wait ahead of me.

TicklishDreamer · 16/05/2024 17:38

@Bb542 also 10DPO starting to get the itch to test though but I’m going to hold out till at least the weekend
have no real symptoms to be honest so think I’m out too!

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Bb542 · 16/05/2024 17:36

I'm 10dpo and testing negative so I'm pretty sure I'm out. Going to stop testing now and wait for AF. Feeling sad 😣 how's everyone?

TicklishDreamer · 16/05/2024 17:15

@Marshmallow99 welcome!!
I DTD every other day from when my period ends till I’m sure fertile window is over! I don’t use OPKs though I just rely on egg white Cm & my body signals! I find any amount of testing or trying to DTD everyday far too stressful!

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soymilknosugar · 16/05/2024 17:14

@TicklishDreamer less and less optimistic but trotting on! How about you?

welcome and good luck @Marshmallow99

Marshmallow99 · 16/05/2024 17:03

Hi Guys, I would love to join you all while I am in my TWW. So lovely to see a BFP already in this forum, congratulations!

I am 33, trying for my first baby. We have been TTC for about a year now, we have had a few tests at the doctors and all looking fine so I guess its a matter of time, they are going to look at a few other tests they can do just to be sure all is OK.

I wanted to ask.. Do you think focusing on DTD everyday in the fertile week is enough or should we be DTD through out the whole month?

I travelled to the US recently and bought Mucinex so giving that a go this month, I see lots about it on TikTok! x

TicklishDreamer · 16/05/2024 16:04

How is everyone feeling today!

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emmatcc1 · 15/05/2024 13:20

@T0r11210 I would say you ovulated cd14 judging from the big dip.

T0r11210 · 15/05/2024 13:14

emmatcc1 · 14/05/2024 22:36

@T0r11210 It looks like you have different temperatures logged in on cd13. Not sure how to explain but on ff its 36.4 and on cd16 your temp dipped below that and technically post ovulation temps shouldn’t be lower than pre ovulation temps that’s why it moved the date.

Ah thank you, I’d copied it over from FF and hadn’t recorded that one correctly. Now all sorted but still showing CD 16 on FF (dotted crosshair) and CD 14 on Femometer. Which day would you say I ovulated on? If at all?

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KittyFantastica · 15/05/2024 11:52

Hi all, I got a smart watch recently and though we're not technically tracking this month, I thought I'd try temping to get my head around it and see if I actually ovulate this month. My cycle was really thrown off by the D&C.

Is it me, or does my temperature generally look really low? I've seen other people's charts be mostly in the 36 degree range. I don't have any thyroid issues or anything. I don't think I've ovulated yet, I've had no signs. Will be interesting to see what happens in the next 2-4 days.

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emmatcc1 · 15/05/2024 11:23

Not sure what’s going on, my LH is consistently higher than usual and so is my bbt. Opks are always below 0.15 when not ovulating and bbt is at 36.3. Cervix is closed and lots of watery cm.

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