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Ttc may 2024

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TicklishDreamer · 25/04/2024 13:42

I have searched and can’t find a thread for anyone who’s Ttc this month!
I’ll be onto month 4 since I had a mmc of trying to conceive! I won’t lie when AF showed yesterday I had a full blown meltdown about it and felt like I would never get pregnant when in reality 3 months really isn’t that long!
I am very lucky to already have 2 wonderful little boys age 7 &3 but really would like a 3rd to make out family complete!

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Georgethecat1 · 08/05/2024 10:33

Anyone else not 100% sure or scared after losses? I kinda want to give up but I also know I want another baby. Feeling a bit stressed about it all today!

TicklishDreamer · 08/05/2024 10:10

@Covermeinsunshinex massive congratulations that’s a good line for SMU too!!

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Covermeinsunshinex · 08/05/2024 09:32

Oh my god….. I cried yesterday because I felt so defeated - with my apps moving my O date which I thought had ruined our chances, turns out it was an implantation dip!!!! Had all the usual AF symptoms but something inside me was persuading me to test. Even used SMU 😭😭😭😭😭 I haven’t told my husband and can’t believe this is real. Going to wait until Sunday to test again as I’ll be over 4 weeks then. HOLY SHIT we’re having another baby!!!

Lemoncake199111 · 07/05/2024 16:59

ThelastRolo20 · 07/05/2024 12:12

I think I see something very faint! Hopefully it progresses 😊 do you have any pink dye tests?

Thank you all
ive got some internet cheapies but when I had a loss last year I didn’t test positive on them for ages, and my hcg was very high. I’ll try a cheapie one next day or so and then see if AF arrives!l (due Friday)

TicklishDreamer · 07/05/2024 12:24

@ThelastRolo20 i don’t know where they are in the house, my other half hides them 🤣 I am thinking book a day out every day next week to avoid thinking about it! I don’t even have work to take my mind off it because I got made redundant just after I had my second and a massive pay out Along with some inheritance from my grandad so decided we could afford for me to be a SAHM for a few years those few years could turn into a few more with a third baby 🤣

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ThelastRolo20 · 07/05/2024 12:12

TicklishDreamer · 07/05/2024 12:05

@Lemoncake199111 I’m not sure if ive line eyes but can defo see something very faintly! Hopefully it gets stronger!!

I actually ended up ovulating a bit later on this cycle given the Egg white Cm etc luckily we DTD after usual ovulation so will have caught it anyway , so only 1DPO now a bit annoyed as now I’m not sure when to expect AF, but I’m going to test 15DPO if AF doesn’t show! I won’t be testing any earlier! Now to find something every day to keep me and my youngest busy for next 2 week 🤣

Ah - hide the tests! That's my suggestion 😂 I caved around 6DPO 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

ThelastRolo20 · 07/05/2024 12:12

Lemoncake199111 · 07/05/2024 11:52

Hi, I’m 10dpo and waiting is driving me mad so I did a clear blue ultra early not sure if I’m seeing things ! I also feel dizzy and bloated but that’s not abnormal before my period anyway

I think I see something very faint! Hopefully it progresses 😊 do you have any pink dye tests?

TicklishDreamer · 07/05/2024 12:05

@Lemoncake199111 I’m not sure if ive line eyes but can defo see something very faintly! Hopefully it gets stronger!!

I actually ended up ovulating a bit later on this cycle given the Egg white Cm etc luckily we DTD after usual ovulation so will have caught it anyway , so only 1DPO now a bit annoyed as now I’m not sure when to expect AF, but I’m going to test 15DPO if AF doesn’t show! I won’t be testing any earlier! Now to find something every day to keep me and my youngest busy for next 2 week 🤣

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Lemoncake199111 · 07/05/2024 11:52

Hi, I’m 10dpo and waiting is driving me mad so I did a clear blue ultra early not sure if I’m seeing things ! I also feel dizzy and bloated but that’s not abnormal before my period anyway

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ThelastRolo20 · 07/05/2024 10:33

Bb542 · 07/05/2024 08:42

@ThelastRolo20 congrats 😁🥰 they're two great lines!! So happy for you. Any symptoms you noticed leading up to the positive test?

I had mild cramps from early on in the TWW, vivid dreams, and the day before my first test I was leaning against the kitchen counter and it felt uncomfortable! I had watery cm but really not a lot at all.

Just hoping this one works out 🤞🏻🤞🏻

Tulipwood · 07/05/2024 10:22

@Smileymom so sorry for your loss. Thank your sharing a little bit about your daughter, she sounds like a gorgeous girl. I’m sure no one would think you are trying to replace her.

@Covermeinsunshinex im no expert either but that NC graph doesn’t look right to me. I would have said your ovulation was day 14. Sorry you are feeling sad about it!

@ThelastRolo20 thats looking like a definite line now woohoo 🥳

Bb542 · 07/05/2024 08:42

@ThelastRolo20 congrats 😁🥰 they're two great lines!! So happy for you. Any symptoms you noticed leading up to the positive test?

Bb542 · 07/05/2024 08:40

Smileymom · 06/05/2024 23:01

Hi All, TTC just this month. Mother of 2 girls, lost our beautiful youngest(7yo DD) to cancer last year. So very scared of trying again after 10 years, I have another DD 13yo. I had a mmc 11years ago.

@ThelastRolo20 your pic is very exciting, I can see shadow on top test. Looking forward to hearing a lot of great news sharing sparkly sticky dust, sorry for all who have experienced loss. xxxx

I am so unbelievably sorry to hear about your daughter. I hope you're doing ok and wishing you all the best on your TTC journey 🩷

Smileymom · 07/05/2024 08:26

Thanks all, my little girl was diagnosed in April 22 with a brain tumor. From diagnosis we knew her time was precious, it was incurable. She was the most incredible little human being. She didn't let the battle rock her spicy attitude. We thought we were finished when we had the 2 girls but it's taken a long time to understand we have so much more love to give. I'm terrified of the misconception that ok trying to replace her and that's not true. I do worry what other people think and I shouldn't!

On the 3 pregnancies we have conceived very quickly so I'm unsure of what is about to happen. It's been 10 years since my last pregnancy and my eldest is turning 14 in July so a huge age gap. But we're sure she'd love a baby, she's said so.

I'm out of the loop with lingo and methods but I am not due to test for another week. I have had tingling nipples, gas and I napped yesterday for the first time in forever. So I'm looking forward to living in your journey highs for the next week or so.

TicklishDreamer · 07/05/2024 07:56

@ThelastRolo20 thats amazing!! Congratulations!!

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jellyfish2 · 07/05/2024 07:52

@ThelastRolo20 absolutely no doubt that that's positive. Congratulations!!🩷🩷 So happy for you.

@Smileymom I'm so sorry to hear of your beautiful daughter. I can't even imagine what you and your family have been and still are going through. 💕

ThelastRolo20 · 07/05/2024 07:39

TicklishDreamer · 07/05/2024 07:25

@Smileymom I am so sorry for your loss, I can’t even imagine the grief and pain you’ve all been through.

welcome to the other newbies!

@ThelastRolo20 i hope that lines a lot stronger this morning!!

Thank you 🥰 it certainly is! Xx

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TicklishDreamer · 07/05/2024 07:25

@Smileymom I am so sorry for your loss, I can’t even imagine the grief and pain you’ve all been through.

welcome to the other newbies!

@ThelastRolo20 i hope that lines a lot stronger this morning!!

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Jessb2021a · 07/05/2024 06:52

Covermeinsunshinex · 07/05/2024 06:38

Pictures for reference x

I'm not an expert but I would say your BBT graph labelled your ovulation at the wrong time. I think that big drop on day 12/13 would suggest you ovulated then. From memory, it drops quickly then rises again when you ovulate.

Personally, I used BBT when I was trying for my 1st and it worked week. Now I have a toddler it doesn't work so well so I'm sticking to OPKs. I always find if I move around too much at night or early morning before testing then the temperature reading isn't accurate (and I'm still up in the night with my 2 year old sometimes!)

KarmaCaramello · 07/05/2024 06:44

@Covermeinsunshinex did you have any cramping/cm on either of those days? I have really dry cm after o xx

Covermeinsunshinex · 07/05/2024 06:38

Pictures for reference x

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Covermeinsunshinex · 07/05/2024 06:37

@Smileymom im so very sorry to hear this. Such unimaginable pain you are going through/have gone through. I’m so sorry. My heart is with you 🥺

Congratulations to those with BFPs! Wonderful news 💜wishing you happy and healthy pregnancies 🫶🏼

Hi ladies please may I jump in? I’m so confused - I tested using CB digital OPKs which gave me a static smiley on cycle day 13…and I used bbt alongside via natural cycles. Based on my temp this morning, natural cycles is telling that my O date moved from day 14 to day 18! We only managed to dtd 3 times this month as I had sinusitis and then a stomach bug after 😩 I feel so deflated as I am due on my period on Thursday according to Flo and Friday according to natural cycles, and feel so I think the cramping I’ve felt is actually PMS.

We have a 2.5 year old boy who was conceived so quickly, and we never used OPKs, so the struggle is real. Sorry for the rant. Feeling sad this morning x

ThelastRolo20 · 07/05/2024 06:21

Smileymom · 06/05/2024 23:01

Hi All, TTC just this month. Mother of 2 girls, lost our beautiful youngest(7yo DD) to cancer last year. So very scared of trying again after 10 years, I have another DD 13yo. I had a mmc 11years ago.

@ThelastRolo20 your pic is very exciting, I can see shadow on top test. Looking forward to hearing a lot of great news sharing sparkly sticky dust, sorry for all who have experienced loss. xxxx

Thank you, that's so kind. I am so sorry about your daughter, I can't imagine what the last year has been like for you all. Would you like to tell us anything about her? What was her name?

I've had two MMCs but also have a 2.5 year old so I live in hope ❤️ this morning's test is darker so I'm going to leave it for a few days now xx

Smileymom · 06/05/2024 23:01

Hi All, TTC just this month. Mother of 2 girls, lost our beautiful youngest(7yo DD) to cancer last year. So very scared of trying again after 10 years, I have another DD 13yo. I had a mmc 11years ago.

@ThelastRolo20 your pic is very exciting, I can see shadow on top test. Looking forward to hearing a lot of great news sharing sparkly sticky dust, sorry for all who have experienced loss. xxxx

dancingfairy1 · 06/05/2024 22:47

8dpo and was feeling good this month but a BFN this morning - even though I know it's early, I've lost a bit of hope.

How many dpo is everyone else?