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Daisyrobin123 · 21/04/2024 07:29

I'm 2dpo and would love some company to get through the next couple of weeks!

I'm on cycle 6 ttc #2. I keep going between feeling really hopeful and optimistic to feeling really deflated and like it's not going to happen. Hoping to stay positive though!

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Girlmom2009 · 03/05/2024 06:20

@Daisyrobin123 thanks 🤍 I’m postive so I’m going to try and remain that way!
@Daisyrobin123 @Mumma8538 how are you both? It’s so difficult with jobs when to say but if it’s for safety probably sooner then better! I’m self employed so it’s hoping I still have the work once I say.

I registered with the midwife service, just as you said it’s give you more time but definalty felt like I jinxed it!

@ChyLL welcome! When is AF due, I think most of here are around the same time, if you take a early test it could show up now. I had some cramps around 4 days ago. Sending BD ✨

How are these looking this morning? Day 11 and 13 is a change! I’ll ring for my BETA levels later. It’s interesting as I must just be 4 weeks on the dot yesterday! So I found out 3 weeks and 4 days 🫣

Also not sure what to tell OH when I disappear to the hospital tomorrow again!

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ChyLL · 02/05/2024 23:48

Anyone around 10dpo? I am today and I felt quite nauseas this morning for a few hours and I had some cramps this afternoon and then some more intense cramping for about 30-60 mins.

Google tells me they could be implantation cramps but I thought they would last a little longer?

I’m not testing until Wednesday next week and it feels like a life time!!

Mumma8538 · 02/05/2024 21:55

@Daisyrobin123 but at the same time it’s probably better for them the easier you refer yourself the better as then they have more time to play with to get booked in.

oh you will as soon as you see it , something will click.

that’s good do your work have to give you extra support? Are they good your school and will look after you? I’m a nurse so there are certain things pregnant women are not suppose to do in regards to moving and handling of patients so they like to know early for safety

Daisyrobin123 · 02/05/2024 21:23

@Mumma8538 Yes I'd feel like I'm tempting fate too.

Glad you had a lovely one, I think most probably are I just got unlucky! I can't remember her name but I think if it comes up it'll ring a bell!

I'm planning to tell work after half term which would make me around 9 weeks. I'm a primary teacher and I have some very challenging children in my class this year so I'll need a RA. What do you do for work?

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Mumma8538 · 02/05/2024 21:15

@Daisyrobin123 no I feel like I’m tempting fate if I do . I think it depends on what area you live but I think it normally ranges from 6-10 weeks so like you say 8 weeks so they will probably go for the middle.

do you remember their name and be like nope not having them. I had a lovely lady , I would love to have her .. it was like she was my friend!

oh bless you, it is hard to get your head around it but one minute I feel like shouting I’m pregnant but no no don’t do that… it’s far too early. What about work do you have to tell them? I am suppose to as soon as possible just in case changes need to be made.

Daisyrobin123 · 02/05/2024 19:10

@Mumma8538 I haven't done my referral yet have you? Is the first midwife appt usually 8 weeks? I had a really rude, horrible one last time and ended up asking to change to someone else, so glad I did. Hope I don't get the awful one again!

It still feels really surreal at the moment and I'm still feeling really cautious. I wanted this SO badly, I think I'm still in disbelief though!

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Daisyrobin123 · 02/05/2024 19:05

@Girlmom2009 Sending positive vibes and hoping everything is OK 🤞 frustrating having to wait 😓

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Girlmom2009 · 02/05/2024 18:27

@Firsttimetrier @Mumma8538 thank you girls 🤍 praying it be good news, staying positive! How are you both feeling, has it sunk in yet? x

Mumma8538 · 02/05/2024 17:48

@Girlmom2009 glad they saw you and done bloods for you as you say I don’t think they can tell by an ultrasound this early … I have everything crossed for you 🤞🏼let us know when you get the results

Firsttimetrier · 02/05/2024 16:49

@Girlmom2009 hope the results come have positive on Saturday, keeping my fingers crossed for you 🤞🏽

Girlmom2009 · 02/05/2024 16:19

Update - had a early ultrasound and couldn’t see anything. Not even a sac, so they took beta levels and again on Saturday.

I think I am maybe just 4 weeks today which is way to early to scan (didn’t request) and like I said ovulated maybe 12 days ago. They started giving me miscarriage leaflets, as they suspected I was further but beta should say. I’m being hopeful that I’m just 4 weeks 🙏 going back on Saturday

Girlmom2009 · 02/05/2024 15:05

@Mumma8538 here as we speak, just with previous MC they said come up and they will do betas 🤞🏼 I’ll keep you updated!

Mumma8538 · 02/05/2024 14:18

@Girlmom2009 how did you get on with calling them?

Girlmom2009 · 02/05/2024 11:00

@Mumma8538 yeah the one with the clear blue is Tuesday and today is the one on its own! They were around 10am each when I’ve gone to work so not FMU! And yeah they usually see you if past MC. I’m praying!! No bleeding yet though

@Firsttimetrier hope your okay!

Mumma8538 · 02/05/2024 10:39

Firsttimetrier · 02/05/2024 09:52

@Mumma8538 definitely doesn’t feel real yet but I feel horrendous today! I don’t think I felt awful until 6 weeks before, but I feel like I’ve been awake all night (slept nearly 10 hours) and like I’ve got the a very mild flu/bad cold.

hope the spotting doesn’t amount to anything 🤞🏽

i really can’t remember with my first as was 6 years ago I remember being tired and having sore boobs. Probably only today that my boobs have felt more tender but the more tiredness could be because I’m quite a bit older now .

me too it was literally a few really small specs only when I wiped and nothing since . Hope you can get some rest today, I won’t be able to until about 9pm 😞 making me feel tired just thinking that ha!

Mumma8538 · 02/05/2024 10:36

Girlmom2009 · 02/05/2024 09:34

Guys I feel like something is wrong, my boobs arnt even hurting now. I’m going to ring ealry pregancy unit up today and see if they will see my for bloods.

I just have a bad feeling it’s gone again 😞 those white super drug test I did Tuesday morning and today and look the same. But surely I would be darker if hcg doubles

Are the super drugs ones from Tuesday on the left and today on the right and both FMU? Have you called them? What did they say? I don’t know what happens when it’s this early on do they normally check HCG in the blood and recheck it in a couple of days?

praying everything is ok for you !

Firsttimetrier · 02/05/2024 09:52

@Mumma8538 definitely doesn’t feel real yet but I feel horrendous today! I don’t think I felt awful until 6 weeks before, but I feel like I’ve been awake all night (slept nearly 10 hours) and like I’ve got the a very mild flu/bad cold.

hope the spotting doesn’t amount to anything 🤞🏽

Girlmom2009 · 02/05/2024 09:34

Guys I feel like something is wrong, my boobs arnt even hurting now. I’m going to ring ealry pregancy unit up today and see if they will see my for bloods.

I just have a bad feeling it’s gone again 😞 those white super drug test I did Tuesday morning and today and look the same. But surely I would be darker if hcg doubles

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Mumma8538 · 02/05/2024 09:20

@Firsttimetrier look at those 🤩 does it feel real for you yet? The tiredness for me today.. it’s not even 9:30 and I feel like I could sleep again.. I can’t as have work but I would like to curl up , I’ve had a really small amount of brown spotting today as well , hoping this isn’t a bad sign .

Girlmom2009 · 02/05/2024 09:16

@Mumma8538 no sorry 😂 just my dodgy first thing lighting and trying to hide from my OH!

@Daisyrobin123 very true! And yes how strange just been looking at this, I reckon I’ll book for around the end of May so far away! What’s the soonest you’d see a heartbeat? Would it help having one sooner to see a sac ect?

@Firsttimetrier thanks! Your looks great, I’m just hoping we keep going like this! 🤞🏼

My last miscarried got 2-3 weeks on clear blue and then decreased so I knew! And tests got lighter also.

Mumma8538 · 02/05/2024 09:16

@Daisyrobin123 i think we will around the 8 week mark too, waiting for the 12 week scan just seems so long and I will just want to make sure there is a heartbeat. Have any of you done your online referral to the midwife yet?

Firsttimetrier · 02/05/2024 08:52

@Girlmom2009 i think they look good and progressing and similar to mine? This is 12/13/14DPO.

Also, worth comparing every other day progression too as HGC doubles every two days, I think!

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Daisyrobin123 · 02/05/2024 08:32

@Girlmom2009 I know what you mean. You feel so grateful for those two lines but then there's the anxiety of getting to the next stage!

@Girlmom2009 @Mumma8538 Oh yes I'm definitely put off too 😂 he can wait until the 2nd trimester now ha ha. Will either of you have a private scan? I had one at 8 weeks last time and it was just the best experience so if all goes well I'll have one again this time!

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Mumma8538 · 02/05/2024 08:05

@Girlmom2009 I think they look all fine I just couldn’t understand why they were black, I was thinking maybe they were a different sort of testing. When do you stop testing progression lines as surly there will be some point it just stays the same colour and doesn’t get darker ?!

unfortunately for my OH I seem to getting nausea first thing in the morning and last thing at night so I am not feeling it either

Girlmom2009 · 02/05/2024 07:42

Thanks @Daisyrobin123 the 2ww is bad enough then it begins again 😂 how are you feeling? Previous to this I’ve gone and had beta levels checked I’m trying to stay positive this time.

@Daisyrobin123 @therealpatmustard OH half love it regardless. My partner says that’s where all the fun is. Not sure about you guys but I’m put off atm with my cramping, and sore breasts and I’ve not told him 😂