Page 24 | TTC after Early Miscarriage part 3

Ella31 · 2024-04-19T22:16:41+00:00

Part three of of our previous threads.

ThelastRolo20 · 07/05/2024 10:16

spamOFtheDAY · 07/05/2024 07:26

When did you first see something @ThelastRolo20?

Not until yesterday at 9DPO and it was really faint!

ThelastRolo20 · 07/05/2024 10:12

CadoAvo · 07/05/2024 09:44

Yay congrats! There's a Due In Jan thread and they've got a WhatsApp group set up. Join us when you feel ready 😊

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Thank you🥰 given my history I'll likely leave it until I've had a scan around 8 weeks, but all being good I'll then definitely join! Current due date of 19th Jan ❤️

CadoAvo · 07/05/2024 09:44

ThelastRolo20 · 07/05/2024 06:16

It's looking stronger this morning 🥰 going to hold off testing until later this week/ the weekend now.

Good luck to everyone this cycle! 🤞🏻🤞🏻

Yay congrats! There's a Due In Jan thread and they've got a WhatsApp group set up. Join us when you feel ready 😊

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Ella31 · 07/05/2024 08:42

DonnaWhat · 07/05/2024 07:35

@ThelastRolo20 ooooh it's getting darker! Love it xx

@Ella31 I'm apparently 2 dpo according to premom so I'm not far behind you 🥰

Please god it's our month @DonnaWhat

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Ella31 · 07/05/2024 08:40

ThelastRolo20 · 07/05/2024 08:21

Thank you 🥰 ah the dreaded TWW! I hope this month is the one 🤞🏻🤞🏻

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@ThelastRolo20 I'm 6dpo now. Those lines are great. Congratulations definitely in order.

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ThelastRolo20 · 07/05/2024 08:21

DonnaWhat · 07/05/2024 07:35

@ThelastRolo20 ooooh it's getting darker! Love it xx

@Ella31 I'm apparently 2 dpo according to premom so I'm not far behind you 🥰

Thank you 🥰 ah the dreaded TWW! I hope this month is the one 🤞🏻🤞🏻

DonnaWhat · 07/05/2024 07:35

@ThelastRolo20 ooooh it's getting darker! Love it xx

@Ella31 I'm apparently 2 dpo according to premom so I'm not far behind you 🥰

spamOFtheDAY · 07/05/2024 07:26

When did you first see something @ThelastRolo20?

ThelastRolo20 · 07/05/2024 07:20

spamOFtheDAY · 07/05/2024 07:12

7dpo here and BFN (despite shining my torch every which way 😝)
I know it's early but....🤷‍♀️

I was the exact same, even at 8DPO. It's quite the eye test isn't it 😂

spamOFtheDAY · 07/05/2024 07:12

7dpo here and BFN (despite shining my torch every which way 😝)
I know it's early but....🤷‍♀️

spamOFtheDAY · 07/05/2024 07:11

ThelastRolo20 · 07/05/2024 06:16

It's looking stronger this morning 🥰 going to hold off testing until later this week/ the weekend now.

Good luck to everyone this cycle! 🤞🏻🤞🏻

Looking good 😊

ThelastRolo20 · 07/05/2024 06:16

It's looking stronger this morning 🥰 going to hold off testing until later this week/ the weekend now.

Good luck to everyone this cycle! 🤞🏻🤞🏻

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Ella31 · 06/05/2024 21:53

Ladyinpink1 · 06/05/2024 21:38

I'm sorry things are so complicated, @DonnaWhat I ovulated very early after my first miscarriage (8dpo) before it went back to normal cycles so I had just remembered that.
I'm ok, 6dpo, and I know it's early, but I feel very unpregnant and the last times I had lots of symptoms from early on (cramps, crazy dreams etc) x

I'm the same @Ladyinpink1 I'm 5dpo. Got to keep hoping though

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Ella31 · 06/05/2024 21:52

ThelastRolo20 · 06/05/2024 20:51

I'm glad today has gone as well as it could have done, you're so amazingly strong ❤️ have you given any thought as to when you might test? Xx

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I'm only 5/6dpo so maybe 8dpo😃😁😁

How are you tonight? Have you told dh😊😊😊

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Ladyinpink1 · 06/05/2024 21:38

I'm sorry things are so complicated, @DonnaWhat I ovulated very early after my first miscarriage (8dpo) before it went back to normal cycles so I had just remembered that.
I'm ok, 6dpo, and I know it's early, but I feel very unpregnant and the last times I had lots of symptoms from early on (cramps, crazy dreams etc) x

DonnaWhat · 06/05/2024 21:18

@Ladyinpink1 I started testing from cd12 and cd11 I was still bleeding so I doubt it. I'll just have to be patient (not my strong point) How have you been this week? X

ThelastRolo20 · 06/05/2024 20:51

Ella31 · 06/05/2024 19:31

I'm sorry @RaisingCornishWildlings , I hope you will do something nice when the date comes. Those dates are always so tough. I made sure we did something today for our boys and although I did cry, it helped.

I'm still crossing my fingers for you. I know 40 has such a stigma to it but I really do know plenty who have conceived at that age. And I know you probably want to hit me saying that because it raises my blood pressure when someone says to me at least you can get pregnant but I really don't think you are out. Xxx

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I'm glad today has gone as well as it could have done, you're so amazingly strong ❤️ have you given any thought as to when you might test? Xx

ThelastRolo20 · 06/05/2024 20:50

RaisingCornishWildlings · 06/05/2024 19:23

So I think according to Flo, I entered the 2WW today. But I'm not even going to worry about it, take tests or symptom spot because I'm utterly convinced I haven't O'd at all! Seems hitting 40 sends your fertility nosediving off a blooming cliff!
I won't be pregnant for my MC due date now 💔. Hubs heads off end of the week for probably a month so that's probably the next cycle out!

I wasn't pregnant at mine either, it was okay in the end. I tried to see it as some sort of alternative life ❤️ can you try and do something nice on the day? X

Ladyinpink1 · 06/05/2024 20:40

So much to catch up on, congratulations to @ThelastRolo20 and @B1989 how lovely and I hope those bfp's rub off on the rest of us! x

I'm really sorry @DonnaWhat it's so stressful when all you want is to try again ASAP after a loss, I was thinking, if I have read your comment correctly that you tested after period ended, could your peak have came on cd 11 or 12 while you were still on your period? x

I'm sorry @RaisingCornishWildlings that the date is coming up, it's so tough when you aren't where you thought you would be combined with a due date, really hope you don't have long before you get good news x

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Ella31 · 06/05/2024 19:31

RaisingCornishWildlings · 06/05/2024 19:23

So I think according to Flo, I entered the 2WW today. But I'm not even going to worry about it, take tests or symptom spot because I'm utterly convinced I haven't O'd at all! Seems hitting 40 sends your fertility nosediving off a blooming cliff!
I won't be pregnant for my MC due date now 💔. Hubs heads off end of the week for probably a month so that's probably the next cycle out!

I'm sorry @RaisingCornishWildlings , I hope you will do something nice when the date comes. Those dates are always so tough. I made sure we did something today for our boys and although I did cry, it helped.

I'm still crossing my fingers for you. I know 40 has such a stigma to it but I really do know plenty who have conceived at that age. And I know you probably want to hit me saying that because it raises my blood pressure when someone says to me at least you can get pregnant but I really don't think you are out. Xxx

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Ella31 · 06/05/2024 19:26

DonnaWhat · 06/05/2024 18:59

@Ella31 That's reassuring to know, I'll keep tracking and keep my fingers crossed for a surge next month. Did you ovulation come straight back after your twins? Xx

@emmatcc1 hopefully your womb is just having a good clear out ready for a sticky bean next month xxx

It didn't come back until 7 weeks later and took two cycles to regulate but I'd imagine that's because I gave birth at nearly 30 weeks, full of hormones.

But funny enough it took 8 weeks on my chemical to return so our bodies are different. So please don't worry. It will come back.

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RaisingCornishWildlings · 06/05/2024 19:23

So I think according to Flo, I entered the 2WW today. But I'm not even going to worry about it, take tests or symptom spot because I'm utterly convinced I haven't O'd at all! Seems hitting 40 sends your fertility nosediving off a blooming cliff!
I won't be pregnant for my MC due date now 💔. Hubs heads off end of the week for probably a month so that's probably the next cycle out!

DonnaWhat · 06/05/2024 18:59

@Ella31 That's reassuring to know, I'll keep tracking and keep my fingers crossed for a surge next month. Did you ovulation come straight back after your twins? Xx

@emmatcc1 hopefully your womb is just having a good clear out ready for a sticky bean next month xxx

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Ella31 · 06/05/2024 17:38

emmatcc1 · 06/05/2024 16:22

@ThelastRolo20 I haven’t even thought about a chemical. I have a bunch of tests on the way now so if I happen to have a chemical it won’t go unnoticed. I have to change my gynecologist so I’m probably gonna call tomorrow and see if I can get an appointment to check everything is fine down there given how long it took us to conceive.

I hope you haven't had a chemical. You poor thing. Hope you are ok. With my chemical I had positive tests so hopefully that will clear things up for you.

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Ella31 · 06/05/2024 17:36

DonnaWhat · 06/05/2024 17:17

@Ella31 This is my first proper period after the MMC. I bled after the d and c for 3 days, stopped for 2 and then bled again for 5 days, i tracked for the next 2 weeks with no surge. 4 weeks after my mmc I then had my period I've just had. I bled really heavy and clotty for 10 days and then bled/ spotted for the last 2 days. Since then I've been tracking again but no surge. There's definitely no retained product because I tested negative 19 days after MMC.

@ThelastRolo20 EEEK I am so happy for you. Let us know how you get on 🥰🥰 I know our bodies are all over after miscarriage, it just sucks but at the same time I hope there's nothing else going on. If it's normal then it's ok (if that makes sense)

You are definitely right about retained product as I doubt you would have gotten your period. You may have just had no ovulation this month. I didn't have ovulation for two months after my second mc and then I conceived my twins so obviously period didn't come.

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