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Icsi ivf may 2024

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Cloclo93 · 17/03/2024 09:22

Hi ladies I thought I'd create this thread to support anyone doing ivf in May 2024, it's great to have other people to talk to going ture the same thing!
My background I'm 31 with low AMH of 3, suffering from secondary infertility 2.5 years ttc had a failed IVF cycle in February where my 4 mature eggs just failed to fertilized so we have been advised to do ICSI for our next cycle! I decided to give my body a break and get back into end of April/may depending on how my cycle returns:)

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20MacHen22 · 16/05/2024 20:54

Hi everyone,

I hope you don’t mind if I join. Currently on first cycle of IVF. Started down reg on 29th April and due to start stims tomorrow 17th May. Egg collection provisional date is 30th May. It really is a rollercoaster. Sorry to hear of all the loses and miscarriages experienced by many you, but it is nice to read messages from people going through this journey right now!

Mez456 · 16/05/2024 15:49

Hi all I'm 40 doing second round of ivf for secondary infertility. We are lucky to have 2 kids eldest is 14. First round we had 2 embryos and had double transfer - resulted in miscarriage.

We have just finished another stim round this time I've done loads of research and managed to get a tailored stim protocol to me. So far results have been good. Got 14 eggs and 12 fertilised. Just so scared of going through it all again x

Lcm11 · 16/05/2024 11:18

Good luck for Monday! Hopefully you'll have lots of lovely juicy follicles!

I'm having to do a freeze all cycle as I am at risk of OHSS due to PCOS and I had a lot of follicles during stims (30+) but I guess they didn't all produce eggs as they retrieved 11. So really does show it's quality not quantity.

We also didn't have to use ICSI in the end as the sperm thawed better than expected. Hope that doesn't mean I will be kicked off this thread. 🤣

hopefullsosbry · 16/05/2024 10:54

@Lcm11 I have my 1st scan on Monday .. ! Wow that’s good 9 fertilised .. I think that’s expected that a small percentage don’t fertilise.. so you are on track .. will you get a fresh transfer with a 5 day blast ? Won’t be long and you will be getting your transfer 😁🤞🏽

Lcm11 · 16/05/2024 10:23

Thank you so much. Just had the call and 9 fertilised overnight so I'm really chuffed. Keep growing!!

Ah that's exciting, not long now. How are you feeling during stims? Have you had your first scan?

hopefullsosbry · 16/05/2024 10:02

@Lcm11 wow ! Well done you !! Fingers crossed you will have sone good /healthy embryos to transfer !! Keep us updated ! I am hoping EC will be next Friday all going well .. I took 10 days last cycle to be ready so hopefully will be simular this time 🤞🏽

Lcm11 · 16/05/2024 09:13

So great to hear from people in the same boat, even thought we've all had such different journeys to get here. So sorry to hear of failed round and miscarriages. 💔

I had my EC yesterday, they got 11 mature eggs. Waiting for a call from the embryology team this morning to say how many fertilised overnight. Dreading the call but trying to stay positive and hopeful. I coped well during stims as I was in control of everything, really struggling now everything is out of my control again!

Hope you're all doing ok and best of luck to those with their ECs soon. I found it much easier than I thought I would, no pain or cramping today. The worst bit is a sore throat from the sedation.

camelinastorm · 15/05/2024 21:43

@Cloclo93 yes they are them ones, I'm concerned I should start tomorrow also but on my notes it says Friday so scary all this as don't want it too late but also don't want it to early my scan isn't until Saturday 😬😬

Cloclo93 · 15/05/2024 20:58

@camelinastorm no havnt had any scans yet my 1st one is Friday morning 😁 I think I'm actually starting cetrotide tomorrow I must double check, how about you? That's to stop you ovulating is it?
It's funny I've been sleeping like a baby since starting the stims I noticed that in the last ivf cycle aswell it's like it balances out my hormones or something because usually I'm crippled with insomnia and anxiety 😂 do you feel any different?
@BakinABaby i know I wanted 2 kids before I turned 30 now that I'm struggling with the second we have decided we would love 2 more! At least one positive thing about a age gap is at least your old child might help you out 😏 big sister duties

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BakinABaby · 15/05/2024 20:45

Cloclo93 · 15/05/2024 18:36

I love the name @BakinABaby 😂 I also have secondary infertility! My dd is 5 now always wanted siblings close to age looks like that isn't going to happen 🙃 if you put a ice pack on your belly for a few minutes you really don't feel the needle you'll be a pro after your second day of injections 🥰

haha thanks 😘 Actually it wasn’t that bad, barely felt it. It was harder psychologically to poke myself on purpose. Now come on, grow eggies!
I know what you mean about the age gap. I wanted to bang mine out in quick succession. In hindsight I’m perhaps glad that didn’t happen, would’ve gone mad and it has been nice to get back to work and independence for a bit, but dd closer to 4 now and I don’t want the gap to get too big.

camelinastorm · 15/05/2024 19:21

@Cloclo93 aww wow, I've not had any scans yet, have you?
When are you starting the cetrodide or what ever brand you have been given.
How are you finding the stims? I've not really felt much different apart from I find these injections sting and leave a red mark for around 24hrs I had one big bruise as I hit a vein whoops

Cloclo93 · 15/05/2024 18:38

camelinastorm · 15/05/2024 14:31

@BakinABaby welcome hope your stims go well. I have the same paranoia, last night after injections we went out for dinner, I was then panicking that I only mixed one vial instead of 2 I couldn't rest until I got home to see 2 empty vials 🤣
I'm on day 4 of stims, have my scan also on Monday @hopefullsosbry then hopefully EC on the Wednesday (well if all goes to plan)
@BakinABaby I'm also on 300iu my AMH is 17.9 we are MF infertility at this end so ICSI

We could possibly have the same EC day 🥰 have you had a scan already to show follicle growth?

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Cloclo93 · 15/05/2024 18:36

I love the name @BakinABaby 😂 I also have secondary infertility! My dd is 5 now always wanted siblings close to age looks like that isn't going to happen 🙃 if you put a ice pack on your belly for a few minutes you really don't feel the needle you'll be a pro after your second day of injections 🥰

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Cloclo93 · 15/05/2024 18:30

@Ecas88 amh of 53! Wow that is high, how many follicles do you have on scans?
I could be wrong but does sperm take over on Day 3? I know you said your partner all tested fine, fertility really is a mystery sometimes 🤔
But no my partner only had the normal SA it all looked good we didn't test DNA fragmentation our doctor doesn't see the point in that because either way there going to do icsi
I hope I get as far as a fresh transfer! My stomach goes in knots every time I think of it 🥲 will you be doing a fresh transfer ?

@hopefullsosbry I know all our hard work to get them 2 lines then the stress of not knowing what's going on inside us when we do get them lines it really is a roller coaster 😂
I think if you take the trigger shot Wednesday night you would do EC Friday morning 🤔 I'm hoping after my second scan Monday they will tell me to trigger for Wednesday morning! My clinic only does EC Wednesday to Friday 🥺 I'm with a clinic in Ireland! Bit of a pain it only been 3 days because I'm actually due to ovulate this Sunday!

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camelinastorm · 15/05/2024 14:31

@BakinABaby welcome hope your stims go well. I have the same paranoia, last night after injections we went out for dinner, I was then panicking that I only mixed one vial instead of 2 I couldn't rest until I got home to see 2 empty vials 🤣
I'm on day 4 of stims, have my scan also on Monday @hopefullsosbry then hopefully EC on the Wednesday (well if all goes to plan)
@BakinABaby I'm also on 300iu my AMH is 17.9 we are MF infertility at this end so ICSI

hopefullsosbry · 15/05/2024 13:49

i am sure you will be ok, just try and relax .. easier said than done 🥴, I don’t find them that bad to be honest .. thanks .. 🙏 will keep you all posted how it goes 😁

BakinABaby · 15/05/2024 12:43

hopefullsosbry · 15/05/2024 11:21

@BakinABaby welcome to the group .. hope your injections are ok for you ? I am on day 3 of injections.. I have a scan (7 days after 1st injection) on Monday to see how things are progressing.. I have slight cramps /tender feeling in tummy either sides but nothing too sore .. we will probably have egg collect around the same time 😁

I'm more afraid of just being a spastic and dropping the pen and ruining it than any off feelings :D I hope it doesn't get too bad for you and you get good news on Monday.

hopefullsosbry · 15/05/2024 11:21

@BakinABaby welcome to the group .. hope your injections are ok for you ? I am on day 3 of injections.. I have a scan (7 days after 1st injection) on Monday to see how things are progressing.. I have slight cramps /tender feeling in tummy either sides but nothing too sore .. we will probably have egg collect around the same time 😁

BakinABaby · 15/05/2024 11:11

Hey everyone! Mind if I join as well.
32 with three year old dd. Been trying for another for over two years but no bfps so far. Our first took a while as well, but nowhere near this long and eventually conceived ourselves. Tests and scans show everything ok, AMH 7.smth, so unexplained for us.
It’s our first cycle of IVF. Actually I don’t know if it’s gonna be ivf or icsi, but probably the former. I had a diphereline shot for down regulation a few weeks ago and starting today 8 days of gonal 300, then a scan to see how it’s going. Doctor said retrieval probably 28-30 may so fingers crosswd for that.

camelinastorm · 14/05/2024 13:33

@hopefullsosbry I have no real clue on the diffe6in long and short, all I know is I take stims for about 10 days cetrodide for around 5 of these, then I'm in for egg collection next week, it's so confusing. We are only a day apart I ended up started injections on Sunday cd 2 or 3 we couldn't work it out due to this full flow stuff 🤣

hopefullsosbry · 14/05/2024 11:44

@Ecas88 hi , sorry what’s immunes testing ? I have had lots of test done at the reacurrant miscarriage clinic but not heard of this one ? Partner has slight high DNA sperm fragmentation, and my missed misscarage they done a biopsy of what I passed and was triple x syndrome (which is from mother) so was a ‘duff’ egg with abnormal chromosome issues ..
@camelinastorm yes I started my ovaleap injections yesterday.. had a shot of decapeptyl two weeks ago also , so is this along protocol I am on? I am in Scotland and never really been told what protocol I am on but I hear and read people say they are on long or short protocols? Am not sure ?
@Cloclo93 so sorry for your missed miscarriage, it is so heart breaking when you see the positive line , we also had 3 early scans with one and each had a heart beat until the 4th scan was nothing, the fetus was always slightly small on each measuring so we should of really guessed but just thought it was really it that time .. yes we might have EC same time , although I am NHS and they don’t do EC at the weekend, they only do Mon -Fri ?? Not sure how that will work as I worked out I’ll prob be ready come Wednesday next week, is the trigger issued 24 hours after last stim injection? So say I go Wednesday to scan and they say yes good to go.. will I get trigger Wednesday night ? I can’t remember what I done last time haha 🙈

Ecas88 · 14/05/2024 11:11

@Cloclo93 I respond too well to the medication due to amh of 53, so im on the other end of the spectrum, its way too high 🤦‍♀️ I'm yet to know if my egg quality is the reason for poor results or if I was given the wrong protocol, but I should know after this cycle. My first short protocol I had 28 eggs collected and only 1 frozen day 3, thr rest failed between day 3 and 5. Second short one they lowered my dose of stims and I got 24 eggs which resulted in day 6 blasts 4bb and 4bc so very average and I don't have much hope for them, my clinic didnt seem to either 😂. I'd like 2 more children so I'm banking blasts atm, I'm hoping the long protocol works much better for me and I get better quality than previous, I've heard a lot of women is similar situations to me with positive outcomes on long and I so so so hope it works for me 🤞otherwise i have really poorly egg quality due to PCO (partners had all the tests and he's fine)
Egg collection soon is very exciting! Will you have a fresh transfer? Did you get all the sperm tests as well to rule out issues there? It's so hard to know why things dont work until you have done multiple rounds 😅

@hopefullsosbry have you ever had your immunes checked? I've seen countless threads regarding miscarriages being due to immune issue and when they have taken the right medication that's when they were able to hold their pregnancies to term. Maybe something to look into?

Cloclo93 · 14/05/2024 10:32

@Ecas88 sorry to hear about the 2 poor cycles! Did you just not respond well in them?
Hi @hopefullsosbry gosh them miscarriages must be hard! I had a missed miscarriage at a 12 week scan a few years ago it's so heartbreaking! I hope this cycle will be lucky for you 🙏
I'm actually on pergoveris 385iu dose so quite high but I've a low AMH of 3 it's probably lower now since it was checked last year 😵‍💫 I started them on Friday! So hopefully EC some time end of next week 😁

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camelinastorm · 14/05/2024 09:34

@hopefullsosbry I am on menopur 300iu so similar stim just different brand, I was on 150iu bemfola in my previous round, I'm on day 3 of stims and other than bruising I feel fine, have you started your stims yet

hopefullsosbry · 13/05/2024 22:45

@Cloclo93 have you started your injections yet ???

@Lcm11 how did your scan go ??

best of luck to all 🤞🏽