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TTC May 2023 💝 Previous MC March 2023 (thread 4)

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Sez281 · 06/03/2024 19:56

I didn't realise the last thread was full ladies! Can't believe it took so little time but it's been a busy couple of months!

@Westy22
@Jadeypie
@xxcxdonxx
@SnookyPook
@Supertrooper101
@Hankthehonk
@HopeAndStrength
@DmcinT
@Paws4thought

If I've forgotten anybody I'm really sorry and please tag them...

For all of us who have recently got BFPs, all of those still trying and for all the lovely updates about new arrivals let's hope this lucky thread continues for us all 🙏🌈💝 xx

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Paws4thought · 15/09/2024 16:10

@xxcxdonxx thank you! Are you actively trying still at the moment?
@Westy22 thank you :) haha yes, baby will come when you least expect it 🙈 have you stuck to buying all neutral stuff or gone for a bit of boy and girl?

Westy22 · 14/09/2024 22:13

Ahh @Paws4thought keeping everything crossed for this one ❤️ I would do what you need to do to get that progesterone 🙏 I see my MW in a week so she will have a feel, hopefully it will be head down still. I have no idea why because the stats are against me but I feel like I'll go earlier so maybe a Halloween baby 🙈 watch me go wayyy over now 😂

@Supertrooper101 Ava is a lovely name ❤️ I've only got a girl name and I'm pretty sure it's a boy 😂 so not very prepared that side of it. It's such a difficult decision and we never agree 😂

Love Evie out of your name choices 😍 @Sez281 as if it's only 2 weeks for you, it's a funny time isn't it I can imagine the nerves, I remember suddenly being petrified when they said baby was head down in my scan as the realisation that I'm probably gonna have to push this baby out hit me 😂😂 how's your OH coping? Mines just announced he would like a hospital tour after telling me months ago he didn't want one 😫 so he's definitely stressed lol

@xxcxdonxx yes I have around 27 working days left lol when I take my days off out of it😂 we have a stocktake the week before I finish tho so the stress of that is looming over me and ruining my countdown, as the last one was traumatic 🙈 ah that's something to look forward to and like you say a fresh start for you ❤️

xxcxdonxx · 14/09/2024 21:41

Aw wow, @Paws4thought that’s wonderful news. Totally understand being cautious but I’ll be quietly optimistic over here for you and will be thinking of you 🥰

Ava is a lovely name @Supertrooper101 , we’ve a longer surname and I really like a short first name. How are you doing? Are you home or still in hospital?

Two weeks @Sez281, exciting! Hope you are getting some down time now you’ve finished up work.

That's wonderful news @SnookyPook, your little one has done so well.

Not long for you either @Westy22 . Are you counting down the days till you finish up work? Our house live is around the same time so I’ll be counting the weeks with you.

Not much to share on my side, just finishing up my period and on to the next month. Not sure what to do going forward, I’m just really fed up with TTC now and kind of wanted this new house to be a clean slate for us so will see what the next few weeks brings.

Paws4thought · 14/09/2024 21:13

@Supertrooper101 aww Ava is a lovely name, don't hear it that often :) wow that's a lot to take in, hopefully won't need to worry about it until number 2 🤞 did you take extra folic acid or just what in the multi vit? I'm going to push for progesterone, might even tell a little lie about spotting to push them.
@Sez281 thank you 😊 trying to stay positive but realistic.
I reckon you'll know which name you want when you hold her. Will you be induced? Or are you going to try to trigger natural labour?

Sez281 · 14/09/2024 20:48

Awww @Paws4thought I was thinking of you and hoping you'd get a positive! ☺️ I totally get not wanting to get ahead of yourself, just take it day by day and push as much as you can for progesterone 🤞They never mentioned my prolactin again and it wasn't an issue in the end, hopefully it'll be the same for you 🙏 xx

@Supertrooper101 Aww Ava is lovely 💝 We have Chloe, Cassie, Sophie and Evie (you can sense the theme lol) Hope was up there too but we're not sure anymore. ill be 38 weeks but she said it'll be "sometime that week" so could be closer to 39. i don't mind holding off a day or 2 longer../I'm starting to get so nervous at the thoughts of it 🙈😂

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Supertrooper101 · 14/09/2024 20:37

@SnookyPook that what i wrote to paws was for you haha
@Paws4thought key is antioxdiants. Extra vit d, c e zinc, berrys, coq10, omega 3s folic acid. the best form of b6 is p5p . I took alot and a standard multivitamin. Not sure on your age but theres dhea too for you to have a look at. The key is antioxidants the first part of the cycle especially when your on your period as thats when the new egg is selected, then ovulation onwards you need to suppprt progesterone. So p5p sunflower seeds and seasme seeds. Plus the above vits lol it is alot but 🤷‍♀️ worth a shot. All myne was home bargains bar coq10 p5p n folic which was amazon. Also used pre seed when it happened too x no way lmao...just read the bottom of ur message 🤣... i used the standard ones and added my own omega 3 but carried on with extra vit c and d. Try ur hardest to push for progesterone, really hope this is ur time 🙂
@Sez281 2 weeks wow.... how far will you be then? My choice was ava and now not sure lol what 5 did u have lol

Paws4thought · 14/09/2024 19:33

@Supertrooper101 ah I didn't think about section feeling less personal, how are you finding the recovery? Thank you for vitamin suggestions, I don't know how you remember it all. You'll have to test run the name for a day see if it suits her haha
@SnookyPook that's great news that Samuel's heart has nearly fully fixed itself, hope you're enjoying your time with him :)
@Westy22 ooo you might have a halloween or bonfire baby then, when do you next have baby position checked?
@Sez281 can't believe you've only got 2 weeks to go, have you got a birthing plan? Your prolactin looked about the same as mine, did they prescribed anything or make any suggestions?
@xxcxdonxx @Jadeypie hope you're both OK.

I did a test yesterday and today and they're both positive :) super nervous that it'll be a chemical tho, but hopefully not. Planning to get the pregnacare max capsules tomorrow so all vitamins are covered by them, they seem to have good reviews, did anyone use them?

Supertrooper101 · 14/09/2024 11:04

@Westy22 your have there hands scratching down there too lol myne come out with some rite finger nails lol id say take it easy now but you probably wont lol think you would be bord if you did lol
@Paws4thought plsd everything is looking positive :) do they all have this condition? Am confused, scrolled above but couldnt find any mention of it?

Sez281 · 14/09/2024 10:58

@Supertrooper101 you might be able to give me some inspiration. We've narrowed it down to 5 names and I'm still not sure! 😂 Hope you're feeling ok physically and are managing to get up and about xx

@Westy22 your OH sounds more like me. I'd rather a bit more time, it's going to quick 🙈

@SnookyPook Aww it's great to hear from you. So glad that all went well with little Samuel's appointment. It's great that they'll review again down the road but does sound like it's just a precaution 🤞 xx

Around 2 weeks left for me now. Trying to de-stress as much as I can and listen to gentle birth/hypnobirthing stuff (whilst also being very open to epidural etc if needed! 🙈)

@Paws4thought is AF due today? Hope you're doing ok

@xxcxdonxx you're probably up the walls with house stuff but hope it's a nice distraction x

@Jadeypie I hope the break did you some food last month, I'd imagine the back to school (or crèche I can't remember how old your little lad is) is keeping you busy x

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Westy22 · 13/09/2024 19:10

@Paws4thought I'm due 4th November, this weeks flown and I'm 33 weeks on Monday... much to the OHs dismay as he's getting stressed now 😂 I'm no good with advice with blood results but these two know what their talking about. Like @Supertrooper101 said tho you'd think your gp would just refer you now.

@Supertrooper101 ahh you'll have to share the name when you decide if your keeping it 😂 hope your doing okay. Yeah I'm going to take one capsule then up it I think in the next week or so as the strength is quite high lol I'm definitely feeling the effects of later pregnancy now 😫 think baby is spending most of the day head down and my bladder and bits feel under some pressure 😩 I'm hitting a point where I'm mentally ready to give birth 😂

@SnookyPook ahhh that's good news, glad everything is looking good and can imagine the relief that mustve brought 💙 yeah I feel like my pregnancy has gone quick, just praying I don't go over 😂

SnookyPook · 13/09/2024 18:58

@Supertrooper101 massive congratulations!! So happy that baby girl is here! Sorry you didn't much enjoy your birthing experience but as long as you're both safe and well, that's the main thing 🥰

News here... we had the cardiology appointment on Tuesday and thankfully it was best case scenario! The hole in his heart appears to have almost completely closed up and has done so without drawing on any heart valves etc so all is looking healthy. To be prudent they want to do one further follow up in 6 months time but cardiology consultant had no concerns. So relieved 🥰

Hope everyone else is doing well! @Sez281 not long to go now! @Westy22 can't believe how far along you are too!!

@Paws4thought hope that your GP is helpful. Would be good if a simple tweak of prolactin levels could be a game changer for you 🤞🏼🙏🏼

Supertrooper101 · 13/09/2024 11:27

We do have a name.... and now am doubting it 🤣 am a bugger... just to me there was nothing personal about the section. U just walk into theatre and its like you have gone in for an operation, thats it. I know alot of ppl rave about them but for me, i hated it... but anyway.
@Paws4thought have a look into vitex, that lowers prolactin. If it is too high it can work the same way as contraception. A good version of b6 also lowers it if you dont want to go down the herbal route. If your gp is chatting to fertility on ur behalf, cant they just refer you 🙂.
App wont let me scroll thr names to tag 🤦‍♀️. The raspberry it mite have just been the initial dose until you got used to it. I rate them before and after tho.

Sez281 · 13/09/2024 09:34

@Paws4thought if you can scroll a few posts back you'll notice that my day 21 prolactin was about 100 over too. It can be a sign of a harmless benign tumour which can only be confirmed by MRI or in most cases a tiny jump like 100 is usually stress related. I conceived 2 cycles after these tests so hopefully it has no affect on you either 🙏

@Supertrooper101 hope you and little one are doing ok xx

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Paws4thought · 12/09/2024 15:11

Just had blood results all normal except prolactin is slightly raised, about 100 over the top end, anyone else had this? She's emailed fertility to see if they want to do anything as could contribute to mc / infertility but could also be nothing 🙈

Paws4thought · 12/09/2024 08:13

@Westy22 good to know the raspberry leaf works! When are you due?

Westy22 · 12/09/2024 06:38

@Sez281 yeah MW give me the go ahead, although I've gone to 1 rather than 2 tablets a day because I started cramping a bit in the night on Tuesday and it freaked me out 😂 ill up the dosage in a few weeks..I'll do anything for a quicker labour lol xx

Sez281 · 12/09/2024 00:07

@Westy22 sorry just seeing yours now. Oh wow you're on the raspberry leaf already? I'd be too scared to try it for another week or so as I already feel like it's going to happen and I'm not ready 🙈😂 Hope the next few week in work fly by for you xx

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Sez281 · 11/09/2024 23:47

@Paws4thought Hopefully the blood results give you some reassurance and the next few days fly in for you before you can hopefully test 🙏

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Sez281 · 11/09/2024 23:43

Supertrooper101 · 11/09/2024 19:20

Well i must be the only one who hated the section. Worst thing iv known. If you guys can go natrual, do it lol well and as for 95th centile, she was a tiny 7lb 3 lol still all abit surreal and cant beleve we got here 🙂
@Westy22 i guess if the scan showed them being on the 50th then they wont book anymore, but bet it was nice seeing him her again 🙂

Awww congratulations lovely! 🥰 I'm so happy for you 💝Oh was the section that bad? The pressure or drugs or just in general? 🙈 I'd say you're just so glad it's over either way.. Enjoy the cuddles and hope the recovery goes really well xx

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xxcxdonxx · 11/09/2024 20:09

Awww @Supertrooper101 , huge congratulations!!! So pleased that little lady is here safe and well 💜💜💜

Westy22 · 11/09/2024 19:39

Ahhhh @Supertrooper101 congratulations 💖💖 hope your both well. Does she have a name? X

You next now @Sez281 😂🙏

Paws4thought · 11/09/2024 19:25

@Supertrooper101 congratulations!! Hope you enjoy your little girl and healthy quickly ❤️
@Sez281 due on Saturday so just waiting to see what happens, no testing this month. Should get results tomorrow from bloods hopefully. Enjoy your mat leave! Glad you were discharged quickly x

Supertrooper101 · 11/09/2024 19:20

Well i must be the only one who hated the section. Worst thing iv known. If you guys can go natrual, do it lol well and as for 95th centile, she was a tiny 7lb 3 lol still all abit surreal and cant beleve we got here 🙂
@Westy22 i guess if the scan showed them being on the 50th then they wont book anymore, but bet it was nice seeing him her again 🙂

Westy22 · 11/09/2024 14:35

@Sez281 ah I've still got a bit time yet tho, definitely feeling more tired and achey. Started the rasberry leaf tablets yesterday and took two.....woke up cramping a bit so I'm switching to one for now until my body is used to it 😂 happy mat leave! Just chill and baby will come when ready ❤️ I'm just starting my 6 day stint in work and feel like crying 😫😂

Sez281 · 11/09/2024 14:26

Hope everybody is doing ok, @Supertrooper101 you could already be in having the baby, so exciting! The very best of luck with everything 🙏 xx

@Westy22 fair play to you being able to be so active. I finished up yesterday, ended up being admitted last Friday night for observation as I'd a little spotting and BP was high as usual. I got discharged the next day, spent 2 days finishing up things in work and I'm now home with feet up as I think it's going to happen soon if I don't slow down 🫣

@Paws4thought Are you still in the tww? Hope you're doing ok x

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