TTC May 2023 💝 Previous MC March 2023 (thread 4)

No not told anyone 🤣 but ppl know me for working out being slim and smoking, so there not bloody stupid surley lol

@Westy22 wow 🤦‍♀️ frigging men. I would say 8hrs on yoir feet is enough. And it bloody states everywhere....if u didnt work out before, do not start now...only mild amd gentle. So i would say 8hrs on it is mpre than enough. Tell im to ram it lol. My oh asked if the m/w weighed me last time. I was like, why, should they habe done? What you getting at...... thing is i worked out every day before, probably too much and would have carried on until i foumd out about the bleed. That shook me up and tinernet and dr said no exercise so i didnt. And that didnt clear up till around 12wks lol cramps ive had are not the normal type, more like a cold sensation under the lower stomach so ofc google says cold uterus so it worrys me about blood flow etc. Esp since i had these type on the loss . All abit of a mind fuck.

Am around 17 now so nxt one beginning of next mth. Been so hard going from weekly scans to none lol apart from the private one at 15.
@JM1997 any luck your end 🙂
@Jadeypie are your sticks still 'pissing' u around lol

@supertrooper how far are you now? I still get the odd aches now, more so as I approach a new pregnancy week. Yeah he doesn't really get it but he's just rolling with it now lol can you believe he's been telling me I need to start exercising 🤣🤣 I'll be the first to admit although I'm slim I'm not fit at all and do no exercise other than the fact I'm on my feet for about 8 hours a day, he's like you need some muscle 🤣🤣👊

@Supertrooper101 how many weeks are you now? Have you told anyone now?

Sorry you are cramping again, it’s just a constant worry isn’t it. I’m sure at your stage it’s perfectly normal though and everything is just stretching out. Mine only seems to be a bit in the morning then I’m fine for the rest of the day.

Just had someone call me to make a second appointment for the sticky blood test, which I now can’t get. Talk about timing!

@Supertrooper101 cramping comes and goes as womb periodically has to stretch out some more! Where are you up to appointment wise? You must be coming up to 20weeks in a couple of weeks or so...?!

@Westy22 don't blame you at all! It's such a long wait with no scans! If my EPU hadn't been so obliging I'm sure I'd have ended up with at least one private one this time! X

@Westy22 i like the 'well he can stay at home' lol they dont feel or get it so dont blame you lol av started with cramping again and trying to remember, does it actually ever end lol
@xxcxdonxx like you say, worrying wont change anything, i wish i could follow that advise myself lol
@Jadeypie did u get any new goodies to try this cycle,gels, pills what other fads we buy lol

@Westy22 it is a huge wait for the 12 week scan so I think you are quite right. It’s worth every penny to give you that peace of mind. The wait for the next one will be a breeze then 😊
My oh would be the same but they don’t feel all the anxiety we do!

@xxcxdonxx So I had one with EPU at 7+5 so nearly 3 weeks will have passed by the time Sunday comes 😱 this will be my first private one I've read really good reviews and it's a popular one so hopefully it will be OK x think the OH thinks I'm insane but oh well he doesn't have to come 🤣 I think I've done well to last 3 weeks so the two week wait for the NHS one will go quicker 🤣

Thanks @Westy22 🥰

That’s exciting! When did you have your last scan? I’ve never had a private scan before but if all works out this time I’m sure I’ll need more reassurance than the nhs ones.

As the others have said @xxcxdonxx I've had alot of cramping early on along with back ache which freaked me out, but things are still OK 🙏 hopefully this the case for you x

I've booked my scan 🙈🤣 were going Sunday eve after work when I'll be 10+4, that then leaves a two week window before my NHS one. I'm nervous but feel like I need to do it. X feel a bit rotten today, can't shake the hunger feeling even after eating and I think my comfy jeans are starting to cut off the blood supply in my stomach 🤣🤣

Thanks ladies,I know it’s just a waiting game now and worrying about it isn’t going to help or change anything.

@Jadeypie that’s good ovulation is on the way, hopefully a more ‘normal’ cycle for you.

I only really had some light cramping for a bit yesterday @Sez281 and you are right it can be completely normal so just need to remember that.

@Sez281 I've not got a ap yet between work toddler life and being a stupid long que to get through I gave up! I'm actually gearing up to ovulate again tho so that's a positive. Xx

@Westy22 omg!! I feel like I've blinked and your that far already!! Suppose I havnt been on much but I'm made up your approaching scan time xx

@xxcxdonxx aww your gona feel like that like all the others. But your time will come when you get the little bit of reassurance (so shit you have to wait) xx

Oh absolutely make the most of all your holidays, very jealous of 3 weeks in the sunshine. I feel we have went back to winter here 😫

Yes I spoke to someone yesterday @Sez281 and I’m booked in for Monday. The lack of any symptoms and some cramps I’ve had this morning has really got me feeling quite negatively about it all so it feels like a long wait for bad news. I do want to think positively but I just can’t shake this feeling.

Aww lovely news @Sez281 💕 glad it went well. I wish I could have a 3 week holiday lol enjoy tho, will be lovely.

@Supertrooper101 lol there's still plenty of time for me to pile it on 🤣 debating whens best to plan it in, I'm 10 weeks today so was thinking maybe next weekend when I'm 11+3 and then my NHS one will be 12+6? X

@Sez281 thats great 🙂 and 3 weeks wow, hope the weathers good haha certainly pass the time though... yeah am a little jelous of @Westy22 weight gain too ha...so whens your private scan then 🤔 lol

@Sez281 awww that's lovely!! And to get videos too it's such a added little bonus! You'll be obsessed watching them 😍 xx

@Paws4thought hope you get out of limbo soon! 💗

That’s amazing @Sez281 and so nice that you got to see her waving away to you 🥰

Hoping you get something either way soon @Paws4thought the not knowing is torture xx

@Sez281 oh what lovely news 🥰 so glad it was a lovely experience for you! Not jealous at all of your 3 week holiday!!! 😩😄 X

@Sez281 ah that's ace having videos to watch, hopefully you'll be able to let yourself be more excited in the next few weeks, think there will always be a little worry there to protect ourselves from some hurt but hopefully outweighed by the positive.
I'm still in limbo, no signs of anything yet, I've been dreaming more which I'm hoping means progesterone rising and AF might be on the way 🤞 as much as I'd like a positive test I'd just be happy to know where I am now.

@Sez281 so happy for you!! Did you get a pic this time? 🙈 must be feeling much more real now!! Xx