TTC after early miscarriage part 2

Can anyone remember how long it was before they got first period after miscarriage? I am in the tww, I think I haven’t tracked ovulation as it’s just too stressful for me so we are still dtd every other day but all signs point to ovulation a few days ago!

Think I’m finally out went for a run at lunch and quite a lot of creamy thick CM with a tinge of pink something AF is nearly here. So now on to the next month.

Feeling so low today. Someone we know has just had their baby today and ours was supposed to be 3 months behind.

I know it doesn’t work like this at all, but it’s my lovely friend’s ex-partner and his new girlfriend, who between them basically destroyed her life and have both continued to be spiteful and really quite vindictive towards her, and they get to have a lovely baby. I know it’s not right of me to think like that, but it seems so unfair. I just cried when DH told me (he’s still friends with the ex-partner, which is another story).

Sorry for the woe-is-me. I’m 6DPO today so I know it’s too early for many symptoms and definitely too early to test, but I’ve convinced myself I’m out by looking at ‘charts like mine’ on FertilityFriend (roughly one-third pregnancy and two-thirds ovulation).

TTC is so rough. 💐🫂 to anyone who needs them today x

Thanks I will certainly give it a go why not?, 😂 is it ok to take with pregnacare? Sorry, I did Google but not clear!

Thanks so much for this advice willing to give it a go as clearly worked for you 🙏xx @Westy22

It's some kind of plant lol i took capsules of it, it helps with libido, anxiety etc and has loads of other benefits inc fertility. My friend swore by it for conceiving could just be a coincidence but I did take it everyday this cycle x @Claudiasaz

@Rockyslife I understand! It's a real need to be pregnant after loss. Sadly I'm going into cycle 6 soon. Never thought I'd be here but here I am 😂 here if you need to chat x

I use pre seed sometimes but get sooo much egg whites 😂 what is maca? Xx

@Westy22

Okay maybe just take maca and try preseed then 🤣 because I dunno about you but dtd has become more of a job recently so it definitely helped 🤣

Thank you, still very scared so just taking each day as it comes. @Claudiasaz

@Westy22 aw amazing congrats! I also did the same this month stopped using opk and just every other day as I did with my other children and felt hopeful....genuinely felt more chilled and by the feel of things....still not pregnant 😂

@Claudiasaz I understand you so much ❤️ I can honestly say this cycle I started to really focus on becoming happier in myself as I've felt so lost in the ttc world, stopped temping and didn't use opk religiously. I also dtd from cycle day 6 every other day up to cd16 using preseed, starting earlier than every other month which i think has helped as to get a faint line a 8dpo tells me i mustve ovulated earlier. The only other difference for me this cycle is I took Maca everyday. Xx it will happen for you @Claudiasaz ❤️

I am so frustrated, first cycle trying since my miscarriage and we tried so hard the week before ovulation we haven't managed to dtd to cover after ovulation, ( I don't know if my cycle is still the same as pre miscarriage) I just feel deflated as have been to tired and have overdone it a little 😢 just feel like I am putting to much pressure on us to do it more than ever

@Blueskies4 I haven't actually started my period but the pains have started if that makes sense?! But the doctors have checked my hormones and said they were fine to support a pg so wtf. I am really down about it tonight. Need to decide if we continue to try as I would love one more but I don't seem to be coping very well with ttc in general.

How are you coping with the 2ww? X

I think I’m about 4 DPO.. seems forever away

@Claudiasaz ah I totally feel your pain with the shortening cycles.. I didn’t ovulate ridiculously early this month but I’m not holding my breath that the spotting won’t start soon!

@emmatcc1 congratulations - hope it all falls into place for you!

Congrats on the house.

@Claudiasaz I've done everything the same as before when I got pregnant and still waiting for the bfp, I think everything just falls out of our control at this point. Keep hoping.

I think this is my peak. Dtd since 3 days ago and will for the next two days to cover

It took 8 weeks for all mine @Figtree11 , it will come about.

@Figtree11 I'm not due on until Sunday! It seems I get cramps and pains earlier and earlier every month. I don't know if I can continue trying at this stage to be honest. Hope you're feeling ok xx

It’s rubbish isn’t it @Claudiasaz
Im now 6 wks since I had a period. Not pregnant. I feel very disheartened too

Nevermind pretty sure it's another month not pregnant as I have backache already. Why am I not getting pregnant when everything is supposedly normal 😭😭

Hey everyone.. how are we all?

Any tips for not daydreaming about am I aren't I ....when procrastinating at work 😂

So exciting for you @emmatcc1 , lots of work but a new start. I'm very near ovulation. Very dark tests so I'm probably 2 days behind you xxx

My god the difference between 8am and this afternoon. Hopefully ovulating tomorrow

I’m 1 or 2 dpo today and we managed dtd every other day. Also we went to see a house yesterday and decided we’re gonna buy it but I’m so nervous because only the downstairs is built and we have to build the rest of the house and change the whole structure of the land around it. Estimated finish time is currently end of this year and I’m hoping this doesn’t interfere with ttc.

@Panda101x and @bluebunny2, so sorry to hear of your losses 😔 take good care x

I’ve been tracking BBT and Fertility Friend has detected ovulation on CD13 (Thurs 22nd) after a positive OPK and temp rise, so today I should be 4DPO according to that. I had a temp of 36.90 yesterday and this morning at 4DPO, I’m back down to 36.65. Does that sound like the leftover oestrogen surge? Fertility Friend is now showing my luteal line at 36.65.

I’m finding temping and interpreting the temps a bit confusing, but I had the solid smiley on the ClearBlue OPK on Thursday so should have ovulated Thursday or Friday 🤷🏻‍♀️ google suggests a dip at 4DPO might be normal so we’ll see what happens tomorrow, I guess!

Hope everyone else is doing ok x