TTC after early miscarriage part 2

I tested and I got a bfp. I am all over the place and just feel such mixed emotions, hopefully will feel better tomorrow it's all really exhausting trying, waiting, losing, and wanting something so much isn't it. X

Hi guy's, I had a positive test this morning, really happy but also very stressed and emotional, looks like I will be losing my job in May and so scared that this won't stick and I'll loose again

Hi ladies I was wondering if I could join you? I have just had a MMC and had surgical management for this literally yesterday at what should have been 10+5. I don't know if it's a way to cope but my head has immediately got back into TTC mode and looking to the future.

I was wondering if it was OK to post in here?

Did any of you have surgical management? How long after your MC did AF arrive?

I have seen people talk about BBT. Where did you buy the things to measure this?

And for those that use easy@home and CB ovulation test - do you think one is more accurate than the other?

Thank you and sorry for all the questions!

@ToeBeans24 I have had cramps for the last week convinced it was my period but I started getting ewcm a couple of days ago so it must be gearing up to ovulation time for me! It was 4 weeks ago I had surgery for my miscarriage. Still negative opks but I'm going to keep d2d and testing. I never normally have any cramps around ovulation.

@ToeBeans24 I had more ewcm and ovulation pain which I never get and I was also nauseous.

Did anyone else notice extreme symptoms around ovulation the first cycle after their loss?

It’s my first ov after a CP last month and my symptoms have been so extreme. I never get sore boobs at ovulation but they are so sore and I definitely had more EWCM this time too.

Is it because hormones are higher or something ??

@Ella31 Yeah af due tomorrow.
My pre ov temp is around 36.3 and post is 36.8-37. This morning was 36.8.

Thanks so much, Ella, I’ll see if I can get hold of a clearblue and a digital and try again in the morning 🤞🏼 hope you’re doing ok x

Well that is encouraging that its staying high for you xxx is Af due tomorrow?

I'm finding bbt so difficult plus mine isn't that high. I'm like 35.90 pre ovulation and roughly 36.20 post. It seems so low.

@Ella31 I was 12 dpo yesterday when I tested but then this morning my bbt is still high and af is due tomorrow. My bbt always drops a day or two before af. A bit confused but we’ll see tomorrow.

What dpo are you @emmatcc1 , I'm 9dpo. Negative test today.

@meepthebeep just looked at your pic. Decent line but would you get a frer or clearblue, I reckon it would be stronger on those

I caught again straight after my chemical @bluebunny2 with my twins. So it can happen, what I would say is assume it won't as the pressure could be triggering for you. Xxx

Everything crossed for you @Rockyslife 🤞🏻💕 xx

Still no sign of a flow for me, I am going to be brave and test today because it's making me go crazy as my body is telling me I am pregnant because it's mean!🤣🤣🤣

Thanks so much @Onthedouble123 - I’ve posted a pic here because I totally get that not everyone on this thread might want to look at test pics. I’ll get a digital when I do the shop later and try again tomorrow. I was hoping to see a bit of progression by now and have got really strong lines on this brand before 😕

@meepthebeep how faint is faint? Some people always stay relatively light compared to others who get dye stealers.
Can you get a digital to check what that says? Keeping my fingers crossed for 🤞🏻🤞🏻💕💕

Hmm, I’ve tested again this morning at 6am and the line is just as faint as it was on Tuesday. That doesn’t seem a good sign? I had to go to the loo at 3.30-4am, so is it possible I just used up my FMU then and that’s why the test is faint? I’m 15DPO today according to FF. TIA 💐

Hey guys, thank you all so much for your comments, it just helps to have a chat about it sometimes because I have so many crazy thought that I don't think hubby gets. I haven't tested yet because I feel cramps, I feel very achy back etc so surely by Saturday I'll come on if I am going too, no bleeding yet to go with the cramps. I just feel like I have secrete hope and if I test and don't see what happens with my pms symptoms and I'm not it's just going to upset me more, where as if a flow comes I will be able to accept that better.. dont know if that makes sense 😂 I'll update you all either way. I am not holding my breath as it took three years to even get one bfp so to get one 8 weeks after a MC it would probably be unlikely xx

@Onthedouble123 I’m 12 dpo and af due in 2 days. I do bbt and I check my cervix and cervical mucus so at most I might be just a day behind.

I'm sorry @emmatcc1 BFNs are just awful 😞

What DPO are you now? Do you feel like AF is coming? Any chance you're just a few days out and so still early?

If not then go easy on yourself (I recommend wine) then at least know you're in good company with a few others of us who will still be here next month too!

@Rockyslife did you decide whether to test yet or not? Hand hold and fingers crossed for you either way. Xx

I’m out. The clearblue today was negative.

@Rockyslife Hi sorry to hear you're having a tough time. Id probably do a test if your cycles are usually shorter because then at least you know either way! I know my cycles varied for a few months but in your situation I'd have tested I think. X

@Rockyslife I was the same last month and didn’t end up testing until day 34. I was actually pregnant but it was a chemical/early miscarriage in the end. I’m glad I left testing until later as I had less time thinking I was pregnant before the bleeding started. But if you feel really stressed about it it might be better to go for it and get it over with.

I’m just coming up to ovulation in this cycle although I’d be very surprised to catch again immediately but we’re giving it a go. Good luck to everyone testing soon 🤞.

I was similar to you. My period symptoms were not there and I did test after test all BFN. I did have a period started 29/2 I mc on 2/2. My period was very light only on wiping and was more pink or brown then red. But that stopped I’m now doing my opk and coming up to ovulation. It takes a while and I think my lining wasn’t thick enough this month.

take it easy I spent a fortune on tests all to be negative and that was so hard. But I know people that fell straight away