TTC after early miscarriage part 2

Hi all and @RaisingCornishWildlings would it be possible to join this thread?
Just had my second early miscarriage in 10 months of trying for DC #2 and feeling super fed up and like there's no one I can talk to in real life. About to start month 11 TTC!
Sending bfp vibes to all!

Thank you. I take vit D and folic acid daily ☺️ They won’t do any tests in uk usually unless over 1 year trying or 6 months if over 35. I’m 33 x

Always good to get some basics checked

A year ago i was very low in
Feretin
Vit d
B12 ..

I got all those 3 fixed
Before we started trying...

When we then started trying we concieved 2nd cycle trying but i had an early miscarriage. Im over 35 so on age alone - thats a possibility

Many brits are deficient in vit d
Theres a vit d and miscarriage link
Good to take vit d daily...

Good to get your amh , thyroid , prolactin etc checked...

Good luck with everything

@worldwidetravel2017 thank you. I haven’t had any tests as it’s only 2 months of TTC so I’m likely just being impatient. Just gutting when we did OPKs etc this month

Tommys baby charity
&
The miscarriage association are good to talk to...

Have u had your progsterone checked ?
Have u had a transvaginal to check for structural etc ?

I think I’m out ladies. BFN after at 13dpo just don’t think it’s my month. Was (foolishly) hopeful after conceiving first month of trying last month (CP).

Feel so sad. Why doesn’t it work when you do everything by the book 🥺

Its so scary considering going through things again / trying again..

We are nearly @ the stage of trying again after mlscarriage - so many mixed emotions

So sorry to hear of your loss

Hello everyone 👋 I’m so sorry for everyone’s losses but am also very grateful for this little community you’ve created. Lurking on this thread gave me lots of hope as I navigated my first MMC over the past 6 weeks. Thank you all for being so lovely and supportive of each other! I had medical management a month ago and surgical last week and have just tested negative (even though I shouldn’t be testing at all really). All I want to do is start trying again and move forward but I feel so scared to go through it all again.

I’m 12dpo and nothing by BFN ladies. Had a good cry today. My boobs are so tender which I never had normally. Maybe the CP last month has sent my hormones wild as I also had more symptoms around O this month

It's incredible. I've felt so chilled about things compared to last month. I've my fingers crossed for you

@Ella31 im 2DPO and trying not to over think anything I am keeping very busy lots of play dates with other people planned over next 2 weeks!

I bet New York is amazing! I hope you are having the best time!

@Ella31 10dpo today. AF due on Saturday and hoping to not test until then!

how’s New York? I went in 2019 with friends and had a lovely time! It’s definitely an experience! X

How is everyone? I'm still in New York. Waiting for ovulation.

@Onthedouble123 the TWW is the worst! Hopefully we both get good news at the end and get some December babies 🙈 m

@TicklishDreamer hope it passes quickly for you and you get good news at the end 🤞🏻🤞🏻
We are just in the window at the moment. Ovulation day probably Wednesday, so will be joining you in the madness soon enough. Xx

I hope everyone’s doing okay!
I’m officially in the TWW now, and it’s going to be such a long 2 weeks!

It's hard not to test though because it's so easy to do and I find it stops the constant wondering in my head for a bit.

I am only 6 days post surgical management and already thinking about TTC, got some ovulation tests and a bbt thermometer today. Never tracked temp before so just another thing for me to fixate on!

TTC is actually really stressful and horrible, I can't wait until its all (hopefully) finished with and I never have to experience this again.

@Westy22 I'm okay thank you how are you getting on?

How is everyone else doing?

@ToeBeans24 hopefully just a few days too early xx

BFN this morning and evening at 7dpo. Don’t ask my why I’m testing this early. We all know the answer 🤭🫣

Fingers crossed 🥰

How are you getting on @Claudiasaz? Xx

Good luck to those in there new cycle, hopefully lots more bfp to come x

@ToeBeans24 sounds positive 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻 xx

Hi ladies

im 6DPO today and have cramps which have intensified over the course of the day. Maybe wishful thinking but keep everything crossed for me! X

Such a rubbish day when it’s something you long for. Even worse when something you wanted so badly was taken away 😞 so thankful for this group. Makes me feel less alone.

I felt just like that this cycle after my CP, wanting ovulation to come asap.

Im trying to stay hopeful this month but who knows. Gave it a good go 🤞🏻 x

I was the same. We were out at our boys grave wondering why us. Sometimes there's no answers. I hope you are better today. Onwards and upwards this month. This could be your month. I'm fine. Dying for ovulation to come around now and get back to it.