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1dpo - Anyone want to join during the two week wait?

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Ella31 · 28/01/2024 00:39

Hi all, currently 1dpo. Hoping for a lucky month. I lost my twin boys a few months ago at 29 weeks due to TTTS. Two days before this I had a beautiful scan and two perfect babies - only 6 weeks away from c-section. And two days after my scan - our world fell apart. I had no movement and all of a sudden, I was told one of my babies had no heartbeat and then four days later, we had to remove life support from his twin brother as he was so ill. My sons were beautiful, visually perfect babies who were so unlucky. I miss them terribly.

So Here I am 1dpo and hoping for the best. Would love the support from any other hopeful ladies and in turn I'll support ye too. Much luck to us all 😀

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Libbynznz · 08/02/2024 21:47

13dpo no symptoms. Doggy blue clear test 😒 it was negative then two hours later it changed it’s still a negative.

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2BabyOrNot2Baby · 08/02/2024 21:28

@MamaBee23 ah congrats!! 🥰

narwhalsarereal · 08/02/2024 21:27

MamaBee23 · 08/02/2024 21:16

AF is due tomorrow. I've just caved and tested & got my BFP. Clearblue digital says 1-2 weeks 🤞 Aargh

Wow, congratulations

MamaBee23 · 08/02/2024 21:16

AF is due tomorrow. I've just caved and tested & got my BFP. Clearblue digital says 1-2 weeks 🤞 Aargh

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Beanie14 · 08/02/2024 21:01

@MamaBee23 when is AF due? Hopefully it stays away!!

MamaBee23 · 08/02/2024 19:57

Sorry to hear about all the AF's and BFN's. Fingers crossed for you all next month.
I'm getting cramps similar to what id get prior to AF though still nauseous and have sensitive smell. Have a feeling I'm out this month. I don't know why but just don't feel positive anymore.

2BabyOrNot2Baby · 08/02/2024 19:32

narwhalsarereal · 08/02/2024 18:27

They are sticking out a lot more and they look swollen almost, not much but a little.

Oh my...same here. Hopefully it's something positive then!

narwhalsarereal · 08/02/2024 18:27

2BabyOrNot2Baby · 08/02/2024 18:18

Really sorry to those of you who didn't get the result you wanted. Sending love & baby dust for this next month 💕✨

@narwhalsarereal sorry if it seems so nosey, but what do you mean by puffy? I've noticed a difference in mine (husband very kindly pointed it out also🙄) and just wondering if it's the same thing?

They are sticking out a lot more and they look swollen almost, not much but a little.

2BabyOrNot2Baby · 08/02/2024 18:18

Really sorry to those of you who didn't get the result you wanted. Sending love & baby dust for this next month 💕✨

@narwhalsarereal sorry if it seems so nosey, but what do you mean by puffy? I've noticed a difference in mine (husband very kindly pointed it out also🙄) and just wondering if it's the same thing?

narwhalsarereal · 08/02/2024 17:54

I swear my nipples seem puffy and the area around looks a slight bit darker.

I think I'm fooling myself though

Beanie14 · 08/02/2024 17:18

@Llr2023 ah sorry about feeling sad that you didn’t get BFP the same time as your friend. It really is a game of luck. We’ll be back on here next month Hehehe.

I got pregnant first time trying with my son so expected it to happen again this time, clearly I was wrong 😑 and the stress with tracking made everything worse.

Im not going to track anything this month and just enjoy BD when we can 😌 my OH is away with work for 2 months and home on weekends. I’m supposed to ovulate when he’s away according to Flo app, so I think I’ll just get really down if I see it on OPK and knowing I’m missing out on trying.
You never know 🤷‍♀️

Looking forward to hearing if you guys get your BFP

Ncl31 · 08/02/2024 17:06

@Llr2023 @Beanie14 sorry it hear AF has arrived.
I hope your next cycle brings you some good news.

Fingers crossed to everyone else waiting.
im currently 11DPO with the whitest BFN this morning.
my nips have been tender since 3DPO but my boobs generally feel heavier today than yesterday. I also feel incredibly tired this afternoon, but I’ve had a busy few days with work so it could just be that.
I say I won’t test until AF is due on Sunday but I know I won’t be able to help it in the morning.

Llr2023 · 08/02/2024 16:58

AF arrived today :-( back to CD1 tomorrow I guess! My friend and I decided to start trying at the same time and she got her BFP (her 2nd baby, my first time TTC)… I’ve been a bit emotional since, very happy for her but gutted it didn’t happen for us. Pleased my period is here - feels like an emotional release. On to a month of light exercise, healthy eating & lots of sex! 🤣
fingers crossed for everyone due in the next few days - I hope you all get your BFP’s.
@Beanie14 cycle sisters! Fingers crossed this is the one for us!

CadoAvo · 08/02/2024 16:01

2BabyOrNot2Baby · 08/02/2024 13:24

How is everyone by the way? Forgot to put it in the last message!

@narwhalsarereal if you're feeling nauseous, maybe try the anti sickness bands for your wrist? I used them when I had morning sickness and they were fantastic! Obviously don't eliminate all of the horrible feelings but definitely helped to ease it. Maybe worth a try x

8DPO here. Not feeling many symptoms today, have been suddenly very tired in the last couple of evenings though. Counting down to Monday to test, premom says period is due on Wednesday. Luckily we are going away for the weekend so won't have the opportunity to sneakily test. Keep thinking and dreaming about a positive test but think it's just high hopes.

Beanie14 · 08/02/2024 15:56

AF officially here absolutely gutted 😭😭😭
on to the next cycle.

narwhalsarereal · 08/02/2024 15:38

2BabyOrNot2Baby · 08/02/2024 13:24

How is everyone by the way? Forgot to put it in the last message!

@narwhalsarereal if you're feeling nauseous, maybe try the anti sickness bands for your wrist? I used them when I had morning sickness and they were fantastic! Obviously don't eliminate all of the horrible feelings but definitely helped to ease it. Maybe worth a try x

No, not feeling nauseous now, just not hungry.

MrsStormtrooper · 08/02/2024 13:27

10dpo here too. Apparently I can use my first FRER tomorrow, so I’m going to 🙈 if it’s a bfn I’ll save the second until Sunday/Monday and use cheapies in between. AF due on Valentine’s Day!

im not feeling as sicky today, although someone at work brought in a chippy for lunch and put loads of vinegar on and it set off another wave of nausea! Getting fed up now, I can’t work out if I “feel” pregnant or if I’m just gaslighting myself 😂 have a few light cramps today, which I don’t normally get before AF until the day before. I have creamy cm (no idea if I’m right as this is my first month TTC!) and I’m super bloated! God knows what’s going on.

2BabyOrNot2Baby · 08/02/2024 13:24

How is everyone by the way? Forgot to put it in the last message!

@narwhalsarereal if you're feeling nauseous, maybe try the anti sickness bands for your wrist? I used them when I had morning sickness and they were fantastic! Obviously don't eliminate all of the horrible feelings but definitely helped to ease it. Maybe worth a try x

2BabyOrNot2Baby · 08/02/2024 13:21

Hopefully not much longer to wait now 🤞🏻I'm hoping to make some sort of plan for the weekend to make it go by faster, but knowing myself, little one will probably go off to the grandparents for the weekend and I'll sit here twiddling my thumbs 🙃

narwhalsarereal · 08/02/2024 12:57

Well I can't face eating my lunch and I've got such cramps at the moment.
Feel so tired and a headache too.

I hate this waiting game.

Om0 · 08/02/2024 10:56

10DPO todayyy, my symptoms all disappeared yesterday but today I’ve got white sticky discharge could this be pregnancy related?

Ella31 · 08/02/2024 10:29

meepthebeep · 08/02/2024 10:13

@Ella31 that’s frustrating that they’re not available where you are, I’m sorry 😔 is it definite that the 4 x Clear Blues are evaps? Four seems a lot but I’m not very familiar with the Clear Blue tests. Is 3 minutes too soon for it to develop?

That’s kind of you to say it’s hopeful but I’m not convinced Flo knows what she’s talking about (mainly because I don’t trust myself not to be imagining the symptoms), but I’m also too scared to test in case it’s a BFN, and too scared in case it’s a BFP that becomes a BFN so a chemical 😕 I’m going to try and hang on as long as I can to see if AF turns up and go from there.

It's just they haven't developed at all. They're still very light.

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meepthebeep · 08/02/2024 10:13

@Ella31 that’s frustrating that they’re not available where you are, I’m sorry 😔 is it definite that the 4 x Clear Blues are evaps? Four seems a lot but I’m not very familiar with the Clear Blue tests. Is 3 minutes too soon for it to develop?

That’s kind of you to say it’s hopeful but I’m not convinced Flo knows what she’s talking about (mainly because I don’t trust myself not to be imagining the symptoms), but I’m also too scared to test in case it’s a BFN, and too scared in case it’s a BFP that becomes a BFN so a chemical 😕 I’m going to try and hang on as long as I can to see if AF turns up and go from there.

Ella31 · 08/02/2024 09:13

@meepthebeep are you holding out taking a test?

I looked up the tests you recommended, not available in Ireland. We are so limited here since frer got taken off our shelves.

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Ella31 · 08/02/2024 09:11

meepthebeep · 08/02/2024 08:40

I logged my symptoms in Flo this morning (sore boobs, fatigue, increased appetite because I don’t normally eat until 9-10am and wanted to eat at 6.30 this morning), and it gave me a pop-up askimg if I wanted to switch to pregnancy mode. 🙄 like yes, I do, but not till I actually get a BFP to confirm it! It’s never done that before. I’m still worried that all the symptoms are in my head, in which case Flo will have been a big meanie. 11DPO today.

It sounds promising. I'm 11dpo too, bfn , except for past 4 days been getting light line on clearblue 6 days early within 3 minutes. Clearly an evap. Has anyone else experienced this?

Just want af to arrive now so I can think to next month. So disappointed though, thought I'd have a chance, did every other day and all around ovulation date.

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