I’m newly pregnant with my second child and absolutely overjoyed. I’m very early, maybe 5 weeks. We went round to tell parents and when we went to visit my Dad and my Step Mum (she is only 10 years older than me and more like a sister), she asked me in private whether it was planned. Which was fine
I told her it was planned of sorts, however we literally did ‘it’ once in my December cycle after deciding quite literally in the moment ‘yeah lets do it!’
We then didn’t get to do it again as my Husband had a nasty fall. Fast forward a few weeks and hey ho, that one time got me pregnant
She was like ‘oh ok’ well just don’t get your hopes up as one time may not mean a strong pregnancy as you only got one batch of swimmers! I was just like WHAT?!
Now obviously the logical part of my brain is telling me that it only takes one time. But the anxious part of me is thinking, well actually could she have a point. We also used a normal lube which don’t usually go hand in hand with conception so I’ve read, so I’m spiralling
Anybody else do it one time and have a successful pregnancy? I almost feel stupid for typing that, but I guess it’s these pregnancy hormones and unwarranted advice that are sending me over the edge of sanity….
thanks guys