12 DPO faulty test?

SunshineAndRainbows6 · 2024-01-02T14:33:07+00:00

Hey ladies, Freaking out a little here as I have completely ruled myself out this month... spent too much money on early tests, used them all including a 6 day early FRER yesterday morning which came back negative.... so spent most of the day moping convincing myself I was out this month... I'm due on either tomorrow or Thursday according to my apps! I decided to use this cheap pound shop test just a second ago (Don't ask me why) with afternoon wee, and this showed up after a minute, it looks as if it has colour... Surely it must be faulty? As I don't see how I can get a positive on this cheap one with afternoon wee when I used a FRER yesterday? Many thanks in advance 🙏🏼

midnights0 · 30/01/2024 16:40

@SunshineAndRainbows6 sorry, it's karma3, I changed my username!

midnights0 · 30/01/2024 16:40

@SunshineAndRainbows6 I'm sorry, it's absolutely awful. I miscarried this time around the day before my early scan 😫 and I also had very light cramps for around 20 minutes and that was it. And not much bleeding. I personally don't think the pregnancy progressed much from 4/5 weeks but I guess I'll never know. The red bleeding started around 12 and stopped a few hours later and I just stopped for a few days then. When I first saw the read I cried for an hour then by the time DH had come home from work I'd completely detached myself from it and I didn't cry since. He was only saying last night how well I have handled all the losses, but I told him I'm really numb to it & I find it easier to move on quick. Sounds bad probably but it's how I cope.

I really hope the next one works out for you, I will pray for you as I have started praying myself (not even religious!!) me and Dh have said we will keep going for another 2/3 years, but we have been discussing the possibility of looking into adoption if things don't work out for us. But that's a long way off yet. Xx

raevans · 30/01/2024 16:23

Hi @SunshineAndRainbows6,

Im so sorry to hear what you’ve gone through! 😞I really hope you recover well and get your rainbow baby soon! Everything crossed for you🤞 🌈 ❤️❤️

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SunshineAndRainbows6 · 30/01/2024 15:54

karma3 · 30/01/2024 15:46

@SunshineAndRainbows6 hey lovely! I'm so sorry, I forgot all about this thread till I just seen you update it. Unfortunately for me too this ended in MC at 6 weeks and 2 days after 2 days of brown spotting then started bleeding the 3rd day, nearly 3 weeks ago now! I'm currently 4dpo and hoping for a sticky one after 4 losses not sure how much more I can take 😢

@Olika @mcdonaldschip Thank you ladies 🙏🏼 On the road to recovery ❤️‍🩹

@karma3 Oh I am also so sorry lovely 😔 This world is so cruel, that sounded similar to me with the cramps and spotting... then got scanned to be told I had internal bleeding in my abdomen and pelvis, they couldn't believe I wasn't in more pain 🤷🏻‍♀️

I'm keeping everything crossed for you 🤞🏻 We need our rainbows 🌈 I completely understand how your feeling though 🙏🏼😞 I have actually had the conversation with my partner that we will try one more time and if this next pregnancy ends the same I just don't think I can do it anymore.... I feel like you loose a piece of yourself everytime it happens 😭

Let's pray we get those sticky beans soon 🌈 Please keep me posted on how you get along 🙏🏼 💞

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Olika · 30/01/2024 15:48

I am so sorry to hear this. It's so disheartening. ❤️‍🩹

karma3 · 30/01/2024 15:46

@SunshineAndRainbows6 hey lovely! I'm so sorry, I forgot all about this thread till I just seen you update it. Unfortunately for me too this ended in MC at 6 weeks and 2 days after 2 days of brown spotting then started bleeding the 3rd day, nearly 3 weeks ago now! I'm currently 4dpo and hoping for a sticky one after 4 losses not sure how much more I can take 😢

mcdonaldschip · 30/01/2024 15:45

SunshineAndRainbows6 · 30/01/2024 15:43

@raevans @Olika @karma3 @SwordToFlamethrower @mcdonaldschip

Hey ladies 👋🏼 thought I'd come back and update this thread as I know a couple of you said to keep in touch 🌈 Unfortunately it wasn't a happy ending for me 😞 It was an ectopic pregnancy which ended up rupturing 😢 I had to have emergency surgery and my right tube removed 😔 Currently recovering both physically and mentally.... After my MMC and then this ectopic I know I am going to be a nervous wreck next time around 😩 But hoping for 3rd time lucky for our rainbow baby 🌈

Wishing you lovely ladies all the best going ahead 🤰🏻✨💓

I'm so sorry to hear that 😭 I hope that you recover quickly and have your rainbow baby soon

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SunshineAndRainbows6 · 30/01/2024 15:43

@raevans @Olika @karma3 @SwordToFlamethrower @mcdonaldschip

Hey ladies 👋🏼 thought I'd come back and update this thread as I know a couple of you said to keep in touch 🌈 Unfortunately it wasn't a happy ending for me 😞 It was an ectopic pregnancy which ended up rupturing 😢 I had to have emergency surgery and my right tube removed 😔 Currently recovering both physically and mentally.... After my MMC and then this ectopic I know I am going to be a nervous wreck next time around 😩 But hoping for 3rd time lucky for our rainbow baby 🌈

Wishing you lovely ladies all the best going ahead 🤰🏻✨💓

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SunshineAndRainbows6 · 07/01/2024 14:45

@karma3 @mcdonaldschip Thank you ladies 🙏🏼 Keeping everything crossed 🤞🏻 Stick baby stick ✨🌈🥰

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karma3 · 05/01/2024 22:21

Aww amazing!! Congratulations ❤️❤️

mcdonaldschip · 05/01/2024 13:11

Congratulations! Hopefully this is your sticky baby!

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SunshineAndRainbows6 · 04/01/2024 20:51

@Olika @SwordToFlamethrower Thank you 🥲🙏🏼 We are so happy but so so nervous! Just got to keep praying everything will be ok 😮‍💨✨🌈💞

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Olika · 04/01/2024 20:47

Great news! Congratulations!! 🤩🤞🏼

SwordToFlamethrower · 04/01/2024 19:35

I'm so happy for you!!! Congratulations 🎊

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SunshineAndRainbows6 · 04/01/2024 19:27

Amazon arrived and I couldn't wait till the morning so did the digital with evening wee 😮‍💨😂 Stick little rainbow 🥲✨🌈💞 #14DPO

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karma3 · 02/01/2024 22:41

@SunshineAndRainbows6 of course! I'll come back to this thread! Please update too with any updates you have. Xx

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SunshineAndRainbows6 · 02/01/2024 21:34

@karma3 I am so sorry too! It's bloody awful isn't it 😔 life just isn't fair 🙏🏼 Let's hope for the best year yet! Please keep me posted on this thread how everything goes over the pregnancy 🤰🏻 Would love to have a pregnancy buddy 🥰 🙏🏼🌈✨💞

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karma3 · 02/01/2024 21:31

So sorry! @SunshineAndRainbows6 I had a chemical, then a MMC (passed naturally 4 weeks later) and then a blighted ovum at 7 weeks which I passed with the medical management in hospital. Honestly the worst year ever 😫 hoping this is it for both of us ❤️🫶🏻

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SunshineAndRainbows6 · 02/01/2024 21:26

@Olika Eeek! I am so excited but so nervous after my MMC 🙏🏼 Thank you ✨

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SunshineAndRainbows6 · 02/01/2024 21:24

@karma3 That's a lot stronger, eeeek hope this one sticks for you 🙏🏼🌈✨ We had a MMC in October and I had a D&C.... it's so gut wrenching when these things happen 😞 Sending you lots of positive vibes for this pregnancy 🌈🤰🏻💞

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SunshineAndRainbows6 · 02/01/2024 21:23

@karma3 May I ask how many DPO you were with that one? 🙏🏼 I keep thinking these two might not be that strong for 12 dpo!? ✨ x

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karma3 · 02/01/2024 21:23

@SunshineAndRainbows6 thank you! This is it yesterday at 5 weeks! It's our triple rainbow (had 3 MC in 2023) so praying this one sticks x

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SunshineAndRainbows6 · 02/01/2024 21:22

@karma3 Ooooh, lovely to see another with this type of test! Huge congratulations to you too 🙏🏼✨

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karma3 · 02/01/2024 21:15

This is what my first one of these tests looked like 2 weeks ago! Congratulations that's definitely a positive x

raevans · 02/01/2024 21:12

Aw thank you, hopefully trying later in the year! Happy New Year to you too! 🥰